My (current) biggest fantasy!

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    Mar 01, 2015 6:12 AM GMT
    So maybe this is a weird one.

    I've always been attracted to guys bigger framed than me (ok, thats easy since almost everyone is). And one of my favorite things ever is to just fall asleep cuddled up next to a bigger older guy. Especially his arm around me or being his smaller spoon or something. Something about it makes me feel very safe and secure and comfortable. And protected. I just love it. Honestly, I think I love it more than sex. Perhaps part of that is also because getting laid is pretty easy, but finding somebody to spend the night with is challenging.

    Anyways I've been having this fantasy for a couple years now that is gradually getting louder. Greedy me, who can rarely find one guy to cuddle up and spend the night with.... lately i keep dreaming of TWO guys.

    Yes, my huge fantasy is to be able to fall asleep in between two masculine older men, to be the little guy sandwiched in between them both. I just keep imagining how protected I would be. How warm and safe and secure it would feel and it's the best fucking thought to me!

    It's probably also the most elusive. Three ways can be tricky to find, GOOD threeways are really tricky to find (But man they sure are amazing when the dynamic is right!). Finding two guys who want to sandwich a little guy like me in between them is going to be quite a challenge, but I think it might be the nicest feeling ever!

    Anybody ever experienced that? What are your experiences with 3 way sleepovers? Or am I unique in fantasizing about this. If I can dream it I can do it, right??
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    Mar 01, 2015 11:07 AM GMT
    Yes I have had some good couple fwb's with whom I have stayed the night. With the right people, it's very nice. You are very spoonable, I wouldn't mind wrapping you up on a cold night like this!
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    Mar 01, 2015 3:20 PM GMT
    I would totally spoon with you.

    I guess it's possible, just takes some work finding two fwbs, and then making sure they like each other too. A lot of guys dont like sleeping together and just wanna get off and take off.

    Maybe the better alternative is finding a couple already playing who want to play with a 3rd. I wonder how hard it is to find two masc older guys who like each other but want a smaller guy to play in between. I had that once and it was the best hookup of my life.

    In conclusion, 3ways, when done right,are amazing. I love filling a room with testosterone!
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    Mar 01, 2015 3:26 PM GMT
    You perfectly described my fantasy too. What you wrote is so hot. icon_redface.gif
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Mar 01, 2015 4:12 PM GMT
    5'5 guy here. Same thoughts.
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    Mar 01, 2015 4:36 PM GMT
    A 5'5 guy would still work icon_smile.gif I'm glad I'm not the only one who has wanted this.

    The key for me is I would like to be in the middle. I once had a guy girl girl guy shirtless sleep cuddle. It was nice at first but I was on the outside end and was practically falling off the bed most of the time, i think in the middle of the night i just went and enjoyed the whole other empty bed to myself. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 01, 2015 5:56 PM GMT
    I think this is pretty common. I've had a couple of FWB's who - well, the sex was all very nice - but what they really wanted was to be "little spoon" all night.
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    Mar 01, 2015 5:57 PM GMT
    IRFire66 saidSo maybe this is a weird one.

    Anybody ever experienced that? What are your experiences with 3 way sleepovers? Or am I unique in fantasizing about this. If I can dream it I can do it, right??

    Not weird. I have done it. These days, I have my homegrown allnight cuddle.

    Today, I would guess that craigslist/chicago/casualencounters might be a source. If I remember correctly, they have categories like m4mm and mm4m. It might take a long time and a lot of tries before you find anyone, but at least they have specific categories
  • NeuralShock

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    Mar 01, 2015 6:26 PM GMT
    YES! Same thoughts here, I'd love what you scribed!