Kink means its hard to find a long term partner.

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    Mar 03, 2015 7:04 PM GMT
    my boyfriend is a hungry bottom i cant satisfy.

    he needs more than just me.

    he says its just sex he needs, but he goes on dates, and loves the attention when we are out and he is flirting.

    I love watching him flirt, i love watching him pick up, and if he gets fucked there in the club i love watching that too.

    How normal is this, will i ever be able to find a long term partner with this fetish.
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    Mar 04, 2015 5:21 AM GMT
    mircox saidmy boyfriend is a hungry bottom i cant satisfy.

    he needs more than just me.

    he says its just sex he needs, but he goes on dates, and loves the attention when we are out and he is flirting.

    I love watching him flirt, i love watching him pick up, and if he gets fucked there in the club i love watching that too.

    How normal is this, will i ever be able to find a long term partner with this fetish.


    If it works for both of you, go with it, I guess. Sounds like the makings of a novel to me.
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    Mar 04, 2015 6:23 AM GMT
    So... You're dumping the guy then?
    Sounds like you already have what you want.
    Or it's another incoherent rant. Have you met Spazzy? I hear he's available.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 04, 2015 7:13 AM GMT
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    Mar 04, 2015 4:45 PM GMT
    mircox saidHow normal is this
    not normal at all, apply critical thinking or buy some at the going rate.
  • NeuralShock

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    Mar 04, 2015 5:41 PM GMT
    He is a health hazard to you with clearly no respect for you.

    Leave him.
  • bobbobbob

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    Mar 05, 2015 3:00 AM GMT
    I thought this was about kink, not relationship drama.

    If this fits your definition of kink you definitely get to get out more.

    It sounds more like you and your boyfriend are in some sort of dysfunctional codependent relationship that only exists because both of you are using each other for other causes than sexual gratification. Usually with others I've known like this one or both of the men involved isn't financially self sufficient or irresponsible with money.

    Good luck.
  • Marko89

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    Mar 13, 2015 3:36 AM GMT
    Is the OP dumping the guy or what? I mean he seems to enjoy being a cuckold, so I don't see what the problem is? icon_confused.gif
  • SuntoryTime

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    Mar 13, 2015 3:48 AM GMT
    This sounds like a fantasy post but if it's not...

    If your situation is what you're into, sure, it can last.