So disappointed

  • venue35

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    Mar 04, 2015 1:29 AM GMT
    I met the cutest 24yo the other day and he came over to my place tonight. And after a lot of passionate kissing we headed over to my bedroom. I don't know if I was just too tired or if it was the pain in my shoulder ...well I just couldn't deliver the goods tonight.
    I couldn't get an erection and this NEVER happens to me.
    I'm a firecracker in bed but tonight I was a dud.
    I wanted to cuddle and sleep with him more than having sex
    I'm so dissapointedicon_cry.gif
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    Mar 04, 2015 1:33 AM GMT
    What an awkward situation. How did he react?
  • venue35

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    Mar 04, 2015 1:38 AM GMT
    Oh well I let him be the top which hasn't happened in ages and he came in like 10 seconds. He was embarrassed to say the least. I guess we were both nervous. It can happen to anyone I guess..
    we are all only
    icon_cry.gifhuman after all
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    Mar 04, 2015 2:49 AM GMT
    True Story..."this one time at band camp" my bestie (a pharmacist) recommended Zertic "D" or something along those lines for allergies and the "D" part not only shrank all the vessels in my nasal passages, but it also shrank them in my fire hose!
    Talk about awkward sex... It really freaked me out since I went into a sexual encounter with my first ever 1/2 bake. Like yourself, I just said, looks like you have to do all the work tonight. Such an odd orgasm it was too.
    Glad it wore off the next day and I was back in business.
    Needless to say, I tossed that entire bottle and don't plan on meds that have that Decongestant in them. Only a small amount of men have that reaction. Lucky me!..icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 04, 2015 2:52 AM GMT
    It's ok boo. Happens to the best of us.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Mar 04, 2015 3:01 AM GMT
    It happens. Invite him over again. You are hot. I am sure you will pleasure him very well next time.
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    Mar 04, 2015 3:41 AM GMT
    Tops should be required to bottom at least every 10th time.
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    Mar 04, 2015 3:44 AM GMT
    venue35 saidOh well I let him be the top which hasn't happened in ages and he came in like 10 seconds. He was embarrassed to say the least. I guess we were both nervous. It can happen to anyone I guess..
    we are all only
    icon_cry.gifhuman after all

    You know, that's actually a really funny story and I think it's something you two can build on. If you have fireworks on the couch and the kissing was really good, then invite him over again for a round 2. Many times, the second date truly puts the first one to shame since you already know your way around his body and back. haha.. maybe you really are a firecracker in bed if guys are poppping a load in under a minute!
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    Mar 04, 2015 5:07 AM GMT
    Well, there is always the E.D. meds, like cialis/viagra/levitra.
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    Mar 04, 2015 5:45 AM GMT
    I'm sure it happens to most people. It can only get better and better from there, right? icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 04, 2015 6:31 AM GMT
    venue35 saidI met the cutest 24yo the other day and he came over to my place tonight. And after a lot of passionate kissing we headed over to my bedroom. I don't know if I was just too tired or if it was the pain in my shoulder ...well I just couldn't deliver the goods tonight.
    I couldn't get an erection and this NEVER happens to me.
    I'm a firecracker in bed but tonight I was a dud.
    I wanted to cuddle and sleep with him more than having sex
    I'm so dissapointedicon_cry.gif


    What was the pain in your shoulder? If you took a pain killer, that could have interfered with your erection.
  • venue35

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    Mar 04, 2015 10:43 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    venue35 saidOh well I let him be the top which hasn't happened in ages and he came in like 10 seconds. He was embarrassed to say the least. I guess we were both nervous. It can happen to anyone I guess..
    we are all only
    icon_cry.gifhuman after all

    You know, that's actually a really funny story and I think it's something you two can build on. If you have fireworks on the couch and the kissing was really good, then invite him over again for a round 2. Many times, the second date truly puts the first one to shame since you already know your way around his body and back. haha.. maybe you really are a firecracker in bed if guys are poppping a load in under a minute!
    Thanks..I hope I see him again he seems like a great guy. Who knows time will tell is all I can say. He had Gorgeous eyes..
  • venue35

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    Mar 04, 2015 10:44 AM GMT
    _ragazzo_ said
    venue35 saidI met the cutest 24yo the other day and he came over to my place tonight. And after a lot of passionate kissing we headed over to my bedroom. I don't know if I was just too tired or if it was the pain in my shoulder ...well I just couldn't deliver the goods tonight.
    I couldn't get an erection and this NEVER happens to me.
    I'm a firecracker in bed but tonight I was a dud.
    I wanted to cuddle and sleep with him more than having sex
    I'm so dissapointedicon_cry.gif


    What was the pain in your shoulder? If you took a pain killer, that could have interfered with your erection.
    No I wasn't on any medication..which is all the more frustrating. I can only blame it on nerves.
  • venue35

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    Mar 04, 2015 10:48 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidTops should be required to bottom at least every 10th time.

    well I think I handled the situation as best as possible
    ..someone had to get off.
    so all is well I hope.
    He told me that he'd been moving around a lot and that times were hard going to school working and not getting any help from his parents. I told him he could come over whenever he felt like it.
  • venue35

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    Mar 04, 2015 10:52 AM GMT
    HikerSkier saidWell, there is always the E.D. meds, like cialis/viagra/levitra.

    I have never tried viagra or anything like that because I have never needed it. I know someone who is going through a lot stresswise and it's very hard for him to get an erection and viagra has helped him. I guess nerves and stress can cause all sorts of health problems even in bed
  • NeuralShock

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    Mar 04, 2015 1:35 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    Lumpyoatmeal saidTops should be required to bottom at least every 10th time.

    well I think I handled the situation as best as possible
    ..someone had to get off.
    so all is well I hope.
    He told me that he'd been moving around a lot and that times were hard going to school working and not getting any help from his parents. I told him he could come over whenever he felt like it.

    Then I would advise caution. There is enough of an age gap that combined with this story he may be looking for something other than sex.
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    Mar 04, 2015 2:26 PM GMT
    NeuralShock said
    Then I would advise caution. There is enough of an age gap that combined with this story he may be looking for something other than sex.


    and
    there it is.
    So happy I didn't have to wait for it.


    --You flipped for him and no one ran from the house crying; sounds like a sexess to me.
    You have the sexual communication down, should be cake from here on out.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 04, 2015 4:29 PM GMT
    I certainly wouldn't lose any sleep over it. Just make the next time a zinger. Everybody is bound to have an evening like that occasionally.