evchado32 saidSo I told this guy that recently got out of a relationship(pretty sure he was the one that got dumped) that I had feelings for him and he told me it was "bad timing" and that he "felt like a douche" for rejecting me and a huge part of me, for some reason, feels like he wasn't being genuine. I feel like he was just trying to let me off the hook easily and not hurt my feelings. I've never been in a relationship before so I figured other people who had would be able to answer my question. Is "bad timing" an actual thing, or is it just a way to let someone down easily?
You could study Astrology and get a really good answer to your question. Until you do, you have no idea what is weakening is ability to form a relationship with you. How that relationship is imagined determines where in his natal chart you should look. The Astro*Carto*Graphy reading is important also.
The easiest way to see what's going on astrologically/spiritually is to look up the two people involved in Chinese Sexual Astrology by Shelly Wu. If you have an aptitude for Astrology, look at the synastry and the composite chart.
Second, there is a period of mourning when a guy recently gets out of a relationship. So, what he's saying to you is that he really cannot explain when his heart is going to stop hurting. He cannot see you with his heart no matter how cute you are in your profile thumbnail photo (at least I think your profile thumbnail photo is cute) and no matter how good you are as raw material for a wonderful relationship.