Men who don't kiss

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    Mar 06, 2015 5:18 PM GMT
    I've come across several men who do not kiss. What the hell is that about? Kissing is awesome and turns me on. icon_question.gif
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    Mar 06, 2015 5:31 PM GMT
    I think it's supposed to be manly to not kiss. When I was in the Navy it was said that the gay Marines didn't kiss. They were also supposedly all bottoms, but by god they didn't kiss.
  • Svnw688

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    Mar 06, 2015 5:48 PM GMT
    ^^

    Truth. I've hooked up with 3 or so marines (back when I topped some), all of them were slam-fuck-me bottoms, and none of them kissed. I think there's some kind of conditioning going on: I speculate either (1) taking orders and the chain of command makes them want to take orders in the bedroom, OR (2) their uber-hooray machismo environment makes them want to express their 'feminine' side by submitting and taking it up the rear.

    Could be another reason, but it's definitely something with military men in general, and marines in particular and wanting to bottom.

    Bi guys too.
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    Mar 06, 2015 6:51 PM GMT
    I've been lucky then with the couple of military guys I've hooked up with. They were into kissing. Some of the best lays I've had. The non-kissers were just into blowing me or into getting fucked.

    I'm curious; are there any non-kissers here? What's you're reasoning for it?
  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 06, 2015 7:06 PM GMT
    In theory I'm in an open relationship. We actually don't act on it but the idea is that if one of us strayed in some way, we wouldn't consider it an act so heinous as to threaten our partnership. But if I were to meet up with some guy, I don't think I would kiss. Passion is reserved for my partner. Kissing is emotional and while sex can be, too, it can also be, well, just sex. When I was single I would kiss but it wasn't that unusual to meet a guy who wouldn't. My response was always "Well, I do." And I did. They never seemed to mind.
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    Mar 06, 2015 7:54 PM GMT
    Svnw688 saidCould be another reason, but it's definitely something with military men in general, and marines in particular and wanting to bottom. Bi guys too.

    My theory is that they're confident enough about their masculinity that bottoming isn't threatening for them. (Given that many people assume that the bottom is the passive or feminine position.)
  • vhotti26

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    Mar 06, 2015 9:06 PM GMT
    No kissing = no action for me.

    Kissing makes an encounter much more enjoyable and intimate. Just idly sitting on a hard cock and passionately kissing its owner is way better than any slam fucking.
    Without kissing I don't think there can be a connection between sexual partners that makes it enjoyable. It's not just the icing on the cake. It's also not a sign of femininity. You can do the dirtiest raunch fuck with fisting and everything and still kiss, takes nothing aways, quite the contrary really.
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    Mar 06, 2015 9:07 PM GMT
    An explanation that I've heard, from guys who sleep around with lots of different guys, is that kissing is a sure-fire way to catch every cold that's going around. Mouth condom, anyone?
  • TheBaise

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    Mar 07, 2015 7:47 PM GMT
    Met a pouty little twink with cute turned up little nose, and a set of dimples in his cheeks. I took him home, fixed us some drinks and went to kiss him. He laid the / I don't kiss / line on me. Kinda shocked me for a bit there. So I just pulled down his pants and fucked him / bent over a chair / with nothing but spit for lube. I wasn't slow or careful. Yeah, he cried out and whimpered before getting off and getting louder. Cried out like a bitch. Never pulled the / I don't kiss / line on me ever again. Cured him of that.
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    Mar 07, 2015 8:45 PM GMT
    I think not kissing is part of the hooker approach the the "Pretty Woman" movie made famous... Kissing is emotional... Sex can just be about sex.

    I've fucked and been fucked, blown and been blown by dudes that won't kiss. In those cases its all been hookups or all about just getting our respective rocks off.

    Kissing is for the folks you love... Not just the guys you fuck. At least in my experience.
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    Mar 07, 2015 8:57 PM GMT
    JonSpringon saidI think not kissing is part of the hooker approach the the "Pretty Woman" movie made famous... Kissing is emotional... Sex can just be about sex.

    I've fucked and been fucked, blown and been blown by dudes that won't kiss. In those cases its all been hookups or all about just getting our respective rocks off.

    Kissing is for the folks you love... Not just the guys you fuck. At least in my experience.


    You're right! I forgot that movie had that detail. So men who don't kiss are being just like Julie Roberts in Pretty Woman whether they know it or not. lol
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    Mar 07, 2015 9:02 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidAn explanation that I've heard, from guys who sleep around with lots of different guys, is that kissing is a sure-fire way to catch every cold that's going around. Mouth condom, anyone?

    Perhaps. Though unmarried straight men & women kiss on the lips. And I know quite a few gay guys who lip-kiss as a social greeting. Maybe not sanitary, but they do it.

    I've always kissed a hot guy when I was single. My only reservation was general bad breath, and in particular smokers, which I'm not. Gawd, kissing a smoker is like kissing an ashtray. icon_razz.gif

    And of course the guys themselves don't realize their smoke smell themselves. Nor does mouthwash or breath freshners totally remove it right after smoking - a smell still emanates from their lungs and nasal passages.

    So maybe simple lack of mouth freshness is a factor in some cases, nothing to do with issues of masculine imagery & role playing.
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    Mar 08, 2015 4:34 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    mindgarden saidAn explanation that I've heard, from guys who sleep around with lots of different guys, is that kissing is a sure-fire way to catch every cold that's going around. Mouth condom, anyone?

    Perhaps. Though unmarried straight men & women kiss on the lips. And I know quite a few gay guys who lip-kiss as a social greeting. Maybe not sanitary, but they do it.

    I've always kissed a hot guy when I was single. My only reservation was general bad breath, and in particular smokers, which I'm not. Gawd, kissing a smoker is like kissing an ashtray. icon_razz.gif

    And of course the guys themselves don't realize their smoke smell themselves. Nor does mouthwash or breath freshners totally remove it right after smoking - a smell still emanates from their lungs and nasal passages.

    So maybe simple lack of mouth freshness is a factor in some cases, nothing to do with issues of masculine imagery & role playing.


    "And I know quite a few gay guys who lip-kiss as a social greeting"

    Gawd, I hated that. Always had me running away and fast.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 08, 2015 5:04 AM GMT
    for some guys, kissing equates to having feelings for some one ... and sex is just sex ... basically if they don't kiss you, you being used as a sex toy ... oooorrrr ... you have bad breath
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    Mar 08, 2015 5:31 AM GMT
    JonSpringon said. Kissing is emotional... Sex can just be about sex.
    ......

    Kissing is for the folks you love... Not just the guys you fuck. At least in my experience.


    I totally disagree. Kissing doesn't mean im in love. Kissing is raw and primal. Breathing a mans breath, feeling his tongue inside me, tasting his spit, one of his most personal physical fluids. Bodies locked togetehr by the lips while the tongues invade and explore each others bodies. And the lips have so many sense nerves, its so intense and powerful. It's all physical for me. And it is fucking hot.

    Guys who don't kiss.... i probably wont repeat. Pretty lame.
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    Mar 08, 2015 8:36 AM GMT
    vhotti26 saidNo kissing = no action for me.

    Kissing makes an encounter much more enjoyable and intimate. Just idly sitting on a hard cock and passionately kissing its owner is way better than any slam fucking.
    Without kissing I don't think there can be a connection between sexual partners that makes it enjoyable. It's not just the icing on the cake. It's also not a sign of femininity. You can do the dirtiest raunch fuck with fisting and everything and still kiss, takes nothing aways, quite the contrary really.

    Yeah, I consider the same about men who don't like to kiss. Things won't go very far with me if you don't like to kiss. If your idea of sex is just to cum, just jerk off.
    I have left hook-up midway when the guy didn't show any interest in kissing.
    Once, this guy told me that he likes to kiss when we met, but when we were having sex he avoided kissing. Well, I came as fast as possible and left. If I am not going to get any satisfaction, neither are you. icon_evil.gif
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    Mar 08, 2015 3:17 PM GMT
    What's worse than guys who don't kiss is guys who kiss terribly...
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    Mar 08, 2015 9:39 PM GMT
    willular saidWhat's worse than guys who don't kiss is guys who kiss terribly...

    ^^^ This.
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    Mar 08, 2015 9:45 PM GMT
    willular saidWhat's worse than guys who don't kiss is guys who kiss terribly...

    Even worse than that is guys who suck dick terribly.   icon_twisted.gif
  • fmdemi15

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    Mar 10, 2015 9:09 AM GMT
    I wouldn't want to be with a guy who wouldn't be into kissing. Personally, I feel that kissing is what brings out the passionate/romantic part of sex. Without it, it just feels bland, but that's just me.
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    Mar 10, 2015 11:22 AM GMT
    My boyfriend is so horny, he gets fucked by guys most days.
    They can do what ever they want to him, except kiss him.

    Its something just me and my boyfriend share together.

    He also gets kissed by his ex boyfriend but thats because they already had a relationship so for them not to kiss while they fuck would be wierd.





  • vhotti26

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    Mar 10, 2015 3:22 PM GMT
    mircox said

    He also gets kissed by his ex boyfriend but thats because they already had a relationship so for them not to kiss while they fuck would be wierd.







    Not as weird as your troll posts dude...
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    Mar 10, 2015 4:12 PM GMT
    I've only experienced this a few times and the guys that pulled that shit on me got my patented "RAPE KISS®." I basically hold their head with both hands and kiss them anyway. After 5 seconds they realize they suddenly have a convenient excuse and kiss me back with fervor. They just needed that "well he made me do it" bullshit. icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 11, 2015 4:22 AM GMT
    They've got to kiss, plus I am a master kisser. Once a guy starts kissing with me, there is no stopping. Also, many of the cops or military men I've been with want to bottom, but they do usually kiss.
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    Mar 11, 2015 6:54 AM GMT
    been told my lips are amazing… its a deal breaker if they don't… unless they are bad kissers, then they don't get a 2nd chance to fix that...icon_eek.gif