Am I actually a fem?

  • NeuralShock

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    Mar 07, 2015 6:24 PM GMT
    Someone said I was a fem and coupled with a pretty severely bad event yesterday I have felt like shit since. Like seriously I feel mind numbingly insecure now about it.
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    Mar 07, 2015 6:37 PM GMT
    Not sure about that, but you are a huge whiner and nagger, which have feminine qualities.

    I read your little rant in the suicide thread and much of your issues are #firstworldproblems.

    Get the fuck over it already. Seriously. Nothing you have can't be fixed with a little time or attitude adjustment. You have your health, education, and all your limbs. Sounds like a good start to me. You are just mad some (probably ugly) guy doesn't like you. Well boo-fuckin-who. The world ain't going to like you. If people aren't going to change you need to change your reaction to them.

    You can start with me. Instead of responding like the typical punk ass, bitchmade, man that you are. You can take my advice and either....


    a) ignore me
    b) grow some balls


    But I really have no hopes for you. So go ahead and eat another cheese burger fat boy, you come in here asking for advice but will probably heed none of it.
  • PRDGUY

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    Mar 07, 2015 6:48 PM GMT
    if you have to ask a question then... uhhh yeah!
  • bobbobbob

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    Mar 07, 2015 6:57 PM GMT
    Dude. Seriously?

    You may know by now I checked your profile for age about another thread and saw your pics.

    You Definitely do not look fem so I'd have to say unless you talk like a squeaky girl... walk like you have $1.50 in change in your butt crack.... wear shirts with poodles on them... wear mascara, more than 2 pieces of jewelry... call your male friends and new acquaitinces "Gurl"... or spin your wrist like a helicopter rotor while you talk...............

    And "fem" has nothing to do with the top and bottom bullshit unless you are trying to pretend it does like many do.

    You aint fem.

    And stop letting people's stupidity screw with your mind.
  • mybud

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    Mar 07, 2015 7:03 PM GMT
    NeuralShock saidSomeone said I was a fem and coupled with a pretty severely bad event yesterday I have felt like shit since. Like seriously I feel mind numbingly insecure now about it.
    Fuck them...Never let others label you..BE YOU...PERIOD.
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    Mar 07, 2015 7:33 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidNot sure about that, but you are a huge whiner and nagger, which have feminine qualities.

    I read your little rant in the suicide thread and much of your issues are #firstworldproblems.

    Get the fuck over it already. Seriously. Nothing you have can't be fixed with a little time or attitude adjustment. You have your health, education, and all your limbs. Sounds like a good start to me. You are just mad some (probably ugly) guy doesn't like you. Well boo-fuckin-who. The world ain't going to like you. If people aren't going to change you need to change your reaction to them.

    You can start with me. Instead of responding like the typical punk ass, bitchmade, man that you are. You can take my advice and either....


    a) ignore me
    b) grow some balls


    But I really have no hopes for you. So go ahead and eat another cheese burger fat boy, you come in here asking for advice but will probably heed none of it.



    Why you have to be always such a jerk?

    It seems like you have some anger issues for some reason. icon_confused.gif

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    Mar 07, 2015 7:57 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    Arnau said
    jmusmc85 saidNot sure about that, but you are a huge whiner and nagger, which have feminine qualities.

    I read your little rant in the suicide thread and much of your issues are #firstworldproblems.

    Get the fuck over it already. Seriously. Nothing you have can't be fixed with a little time or attitude adjustment. You have your health, education, and all your limbs. Sounds like a good start to me. You are just mad some (probably ugly) guy doesn't like you. Well boo-fuckin-who. The world ain't going to like you. If people aren't going to change you need to change your reaction to them.

    You can start with me. Instead of responding like the typical punk ass, bitchmade, man that you are. You can take my advice and either....


    a) ignore me
    b) grow some balls


    But I really have no hopes for you. So go ahead and eat another cheese burger fat boy, you come in here asking for advice but will probably heed none of it.



    Why you have to be always such a jerk?

    It seems like you have some anger issues for some reason. icon_confused.gif



    he's basically a douchebag that takes pride in putting other people down in order to make himself feel good because he's lacking in something.

    he does this to damn near everybody on the forum and somehow, someway, folks in here actually cave in and support him despite hitting the spam and report user button. i've even seen people blame the folks that he brings his bs too talking about how they should "ignore him" despite the fact he follows around folks.



    Totally true, at least its what it seems...

    I hope he stop annoying you the once of all, the matter is begining to be sick. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 07, 2015 8:12 PM GMT
    Yay!!! A thread about me!!!icon_biggrin.gif
  • buddycat

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    Mar 07, 2015 8:18 PM GMT
    You don't come across as overtly feminine to me perhaps you need to consider the source. Maybe coming from a flaming queen who is internally homophobic?
  • mystery905

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    Mar 07, 2015 10:35 PM GMT
    I actually agree with jmusmuc's post, although he could have worded it more nicely, but maybe the OP needs a kick in the butt.

    How many 'how come I don't have a boyfriend'/'am I am a fem'/'what's wrong with me'/'how come I don't have self-respect after not having the police arrest the guy who raped me' threads do we have to endure?

  • BloodFlame

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    Mar 08, 2015 11:45 AM GMT
    NeuralShock saidSomeone said I was a fem and coupled with a pretty severely bad event yesterday I have felt like shit since. Like seriously I feel mind numbingly insecure now about it.


    Please tell me you are joking? *sigh* Look, appearance-wise, you don't look "fem" at all. And even so, why dread? You are who you are.

    I haven't seen many of your threads but it sounds like you have some inner doubt in yourself. It's okay, it's human and most of us will get those feelings from time to time, you just have to try to keep it under control.

    So what if one guy thought you were fem, are you really going to get depressed over ONE guy's thought? SNAP OUT OF IT! You know yourself better than anyone.

    As a feminine guy here who has gotten a fair share of rude comments and remarks from people I don't even know, after awhile, you just get desensitized. So come on, snap out of it. Stop worrying! Give yourself a break and relax. I can't help you on the "Why you don't have a boyfriend" bit but you're the same age as me! You have plenty of time to meet guys but if you wallow in self defeat and depression, it'll never happen or you're going to attract the wrong kind of people.

    Like I told you in another post, instead of worrying about dating, focus on something the makes you happy. Or find something that does. And down the line, your new found confidence will attract guys eventually.

    Hey, if I can do it. So can you. Yeah, I have my down days but at the end of it, there's a light at every tunnel. So I'm going to say again, STOP WORRYING!
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    Mar 08, 2015 11:46 AM GMT
    post a video of yourself and let RJ judge you.

    it'll be fun
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    Mar 08, 2015 1:26 PM GMT
    patito saidpost a video of yourself and let RJ judge you.

    it'll be fun


    Let RJ judge you?
    If you weren't suicidal before, you will be once they finish with you.

    Jmusmc85 is already cackling with fiendish glee.
  • monstapex

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    Mar 08, 2015 3:24 PM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    patito saidpost a video of yourself and let RJ judge you.

    it'll be fun


    Let RJ judge you?
    If you weren't suicidal before, you will be once they finish with you.

    Jmusmc85 is already cackling with fiendish glee.


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    Mar 08, 2015 3:41 PM GMT
    aw. i love that
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    Mar 08, 2015 3:51 PM GMT
    honestly, no offense intended, but you have to ask, you probably are.....

    But instead of being "mind numbingly insecure about it", you should probably just get over it and be who you are and focus on other things. You seem to have serious self esteem issues (which are not conducive to finding a boyfriend btw). You know what is conducive? Some self confidence.
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    Mar 10, 2015 3:32 AM GMT
    bobbobbob said.... wear shirts with poodles on them...

    Hey. I wear shirts with poodles on them. These poodles.

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    Speaking of shirts, OP's butchest photo's t-shirt says "Popeye's I Am What I am."

    Which brings to mind:

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