Mar 08, 2015 6:23 PM GMT
So I’m pretty new to most of this, mostly just looking for advice or others’ input. Here’s my dilemma I’m 26 years old I’ve been living with my parents for several years to save up money to buy a house, I’m not out mostly for the reason of living at home. I have an ok job working in a bank but it doesn't pay that great in a small rural town of about 3500 in central Nebraska. I’ve never really done anything with a guy until a few weekends ago I stayed with a guy from Omaha, we didn't do anything wild, but it was so nice to just cut loose and have no worries, went to some bars and just hung out. I’ve always thought I wanted to live in a small town (my family has been here for 130 years), but the more I think about it the more I realize there is really nothing here for me, don’t really have many friends outside of work and even if I did come out and have my own place, the dating opportunities I figure are virtually nonexistent. I’ve been using Grindr and Scruff for a while now but it just confirms how few guys there are in my area. Grindr picks up guys 150+ miles away, the closest are usually 50 miles away. Since I stayed with my friend in Omaha, I’ve been thinking about quitting my job and moving away. I know I have to make the decision for myself, just looking for some insight or to hear from other small town guys. Thanks for any input!