Safe inside my Box

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    Jan 23, 2009 2:33 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I could the advice of some seasoned fellows out there. I've never dated (or even kissed), and every time I ask my gay acquaitences what they do to meet other gay guys, they all say the same thing: clubs and bars and thigns of the sort which I don't do.

    I know theres a whole world outside my little box, but I don't know how to get there. Online dating seems awkward, and I've never heard of a Gay Library, and there are no gay gyms in my area.

    Any thoughts or suggestions?
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    Jan 23, 2009 2:47 AM GMT
    Man up. Break your mould, go to a bar. You don't have to drink.

    Or look in the gay rags for some events, there's lots of activities that go on.
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    Jan 23, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    Bars and clubs are great. Everyone is there for one purpose: to meet guys to date and/or sleep with. Very few people are actually comfortable there. Browse a few of the "how do I meet guys?" threads around here read up on a bunch of strategies to meet guys.

    You live right outside Fort Lauderdale and Miami. There are tons of gay organizations, recreational clubs, and sports groups for you to participate in. Find your local GLBT center and they should have a listing. A little googleing should turn up similar results too.

    Happy hunting.
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    Jan 23, 2009 4:54 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidBars and clubs are great. Everyone is there for one purpose: to meet guys to date and/or sleep with. Very few people are actually comfortable there. Browse a few of the "how do I meet guys?" threads around here read up on a bunch of strategies to meet guys.

    You live right outside Fort Lauderdale and Miami. There are tons of gay organizations, recreational clubs, and sports groups for you to participate in. Find your local GLBT center and they should have a listing. A little googleing should turn up similar results too.

    Happy hunting.


    what do you mean "Very few people are actually comfortable there" it's lie my second home lol and when ever i go out everyone is having fun and it's very lively, at least in sd it's like that
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    Jan 23, 2009 8:10 AM GMT
    Whole Foods. Good god, from Craigslist in any major city you'd swear they spray Axe down the aisles.
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    Jan 23, 2009 1:47 PM GMT
    Thanks for the advice everyone~