Flirting in Spanish

  • hartfan

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    Mar 17, 2015 2:35 PM GMT
    Hola todos!

    I will be visiting Spain soon and I would like to learn some Spanish phrases for flirting with guys in the bars. I already know some Spanish but they are of the vanilla, textbook, everyday conversation type, so they would be inadequate for a real conversation with los muchachos guapos. I definitely do not know any "inappropriate" expressions.

    If anyone has any tips for flirting in Spanish, please do share. Thanks and much appreciated.
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    Mar 17, 2015 6:08 PM GMT
    ¿Tienes un pene grande? or, alternatively, ¿Es el gran pene?

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    Mar 17, 2015 7:28 PM GMT
    Lonely Planet phrasebooks have a section for dating and a page of phrases to use during sex. Also a handy page right in the front, of phrases to use when talking to the Police!
    BTW: I purchased the Lonely Planet smartphone app last year, and it did not have these pages. Relatively sparse, compared to the printed version.
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    Mar 17, 2015 8:19 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said¿Tienes un pene grande? or, alternatively, ¿Es el gran pene?

    translate.google.com is your friend.

    pene is too formal.

    Spanish guys use:
    1. Tienes un buen rabo/polla? (if you go by spanish dictionary rabo is tail, but rabo is also the slang word they use for dick.)
    or, eres dotado? (are you hung?)
    2. Me das morbo! (you make me horny)
    3. Estoy cachondo ( I am horny)
    4. Quieres follar? (Wanna fuck?)
    5. Vamos a follar! (Let's fuck!)


    Hola guapo (Hi handsome) is a good start.
    Estas bueno (You're fine!)
    Que te va en sexo? (What do you like in sex?)

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    Mar 18, 2015 12:33 AM GMT
    Just don't ask him ¿Cuánto tiempo es su pene? since that would require knowing how to count in Spanish, and you'd probably have to convert from metric to imperial.
  • hartfan

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    Mar 18, 2015 2:34 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidJust don't ask him ¿Cuánto tiempo es su pene? since that would require knowing how to count in Spanish, and you'd probably have to convert from metric to imperial.


    Haha, I do know how to count in Spanish, and I also happen to know how to convert from metric to imperial, but thanks for the tip!
  • hartfan

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    Mar 18, 2015 2:41 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    Lumpyoatmeal said¿Tienes un pene grande? or, alternatively, ¿Es el gran pene?

    translate.google.com is your friend.

    pene is too formal.

    Spanish guys use:
    1. Tienes un buen rabo/polla? (if you go by spanish dictionary rabo is tail, but rabo is also the slang word they use for dick.)
    or, eres dotado? (are you hung?)
    2. Me das morbo! (you make me horny)
    3. Estoy cachondo ( I am horny)
    4. Quieres follar? (Wanna fuck?)
    5. Vamos a follar! (Let's fuck!)


    Hola guapo (Hi handsome) is a good start.
    Estas bueno (You're fine!)
    Que te va en sexo? (What do you like in sex?)



    Muchas gracias. These are nice but I'm looking for something more subtle, maybe something containing innuendo that doesn't just signal "I'm flirting with you", but also "I'd like to get to know you a bit more as a person than just as a vehicle to get off", which I think can be gotten with a minimal of sign language. What are Spanish guys like and what do they like?
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    Mar 18, 2015 2:58 PM GMT
    hartfan said

    Muchas gracias. These are nice but I'm looking for something more subtle, maybe something containing innuendo that doesn't just signal "I'm flirting with you", but also "I'd like to get to know you a bit more as a person than just as a vehicle to get off", which I think can be gotten with a minimal of sign language. What are Spanish guys like and what do they like?

    If you're just visiting Spain, then why would you like to beat around the bush instead of getting to the point. Spanish guys won't mind, you trying to get in their pants, they say it Vamos al grano (let's get to the point)
    I would say they are like every other gay men out there. They like big dicks, good looks, good body, sex etc. Seriously, there isn't special secret. Only thing I would say is you need to be bit aggressive, like you need to approach the guys instead of waiting. They can be bit self-concious about their English. Other than that, a simple Hola! Que tal? is a good start. For showing more interest, using guapo often won't hurt.
  • hartfan

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    Mar 18, 2015 3:17 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    hartfan said

    Muchas gracias. These are nice but I'm looking for something more subtle, maybe something containing innuendo that doesn't just signal "I'm flirting with you", but also "I'd like to get to know you a bit more as a person than just as a vehicle to get off", which I think can be gotten with a minimal of sign language. What are Spanish guys like and what do they like?

    If you're just visiting Spain, then why would you like to beat around the bush instead of getting to the point. Spanish guys won't mind, you trying to get in their pants, they say it Vamos al grano (let's get to the point)
    I would say they are like every other gay men out there. They like big dicks, good looks, good body, sex etc. Seriously, there isn't special secret. Only thing I would say is you need to be bit aggressive, like you need to approach the guys instead of waiting. They can be bit self-concious about their English. Other than that, a simple Hola! Que tal? is a good start. For showing more interest, using guapo often won't hurt.


    Thank you for the wise words. I guess I'm asking because I've never been to Spain and I don't know how Spanish guys are really like. I hope they are also friendly because I'd really appreciate some company since I'll be traveling alone.
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    Mar 18, 2015 4:13 PM GMT
    Well, one problem is that if you try out some "subtle" phrases, or even some non-so-subtle ones, they are likely to respond with a paragraph or two that you will not understand one word of... icon_eek.gif Then what?

    There are two-way translation apps for smartphones. I downloaded a couple, but never got around to trying them out "live." Although I did use them a little bit for practice.
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    Mar 18, 2015 4:49 PM GMT
    hartfan said
    Thank you for the wise words. I guess I'm asking because I've never been to Spain and I don't know how Spanish guys are really like. I hope they are also friendly because I'd really appreciate some company since I'll be traveling alone.

    They are usually friendly, but as it is for gay men, level of friendliness will depend on how attractive they find you. Also, they are much more patient with foreigners trying to speak Spanish. So if you know decent bit of Spanish, use it. It's better than trying to speak with them in English. It'll make them feel more comfrotable.

    I don't know about what kind of company you would be able to get. One thing I would like to warn you about is money seekers, in Spanish Chaperos. With crisis and unemployment, there are way too many guys trying to make quick bucks either as a masseur or a chapero. Just look out for them. Otherwise, it's a very nice country. You'll enjoy it. Have fun!
  • ai82

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    Mar 18, 2015 7:50 PM GMT
    My favorites are.... quiero su penga in mi boca/in mi culo...or maybe quiero mi lingua a su cabeza...but they're definitely more perverse than what you're looking for. If you know the parts of the body...labios, manos, culo, ojos... you can definitely come up with something creative. Tienes un buen tiempo.