Destinharbor saidWhen I fell in love with my guy, of Asian heritage 100%, I wondered for a while. I started noticing so many handsome Asian guys and some frequent features suddenly were real turn-ons, but then shortly after I went to China for the Olympics and I discovered, no, there are handsome and ugly guys in about the same proportion as anywhere else. My guy is not a fetish, sad to say.
I believe you, but you fit the stereotypical white-asian older-younger couple. Most people are going to lump you with the rest, more your American brethrens.
I have this white American friend who will always point out, whenever some white guy shows interest in me, that the interest is due to white guy's "dark" meat fetish. I don't deny that possibilty, but jumping directly to that conclusion is kind of racist. After reading things here about race dynamics in USA, I understand where he is coming from. Otherwise, he is a good friend. So I just brush it off.