White guys that only date Black guys

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    Mar 19, 2015 3:23 AM GMT
    I have met many Black guys that only date white guys, but never the other way around.

    is there any White guys that only date black guys?
  • Eli_jah

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    Mar 19, 2015 3:50 AM GMT
    *crickets*

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    Mar 19, 2015 3:52 AM GMT
    This thread is even worse than Spazzy's push up challenge thread...icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 19, 2015 3:58 AM GMT
    Twice in my life I've had gay white friends whom I was attracted to but they were only interested in being friends because they were only interested in dating black men. So, yes, it happens.
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    Mar 19, 2015 4:35 AM GMT
    yea I mean those people are really rare that they are unwavering in what they like, considering that media and social norms say that white is the most attractive. I've met men who were only attracted to Black/Asian/Latino but not white?

    I went to Germany once and man, if you have a tan skin color you're pretty much a rare commodity there, as people have to travel really far to get some sunlight/tan.
  • smegnificient

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    Mar 19, 2015 4:39 AM GMT
    Why would you want those anyway
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    Mar 19, 2015 5:01 AM GMT
    I've know a white guy like that. He has absolutely no interest in white guys. He moved away, but when he lived close, he was always hitting me up.
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    Mar 19, 2015 5:02 AM GMT
    Any person who prefers to remain exclusive to a certain color/race/religion, regardless if they are or not part of those, they are shallow.
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    Mar 19, 2015 5:14 AM GMT
    HelloPeople saidAny person who prefers to remain exclusive to a certain color/race/religion, regardless if they are or not part of those, they are shallow.


    I hate when people said things like this... People like what they like... that is it.... Just like a fat guy cannot get mad at you if you do not want to date him, a black guy can't get mad if another black guy does not want to date him. that is just life...


  • Zigs_01

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    Mar 19, 2015 6:37 AM GMT
    I was browsing through dating profiles and I saw white guys that were exclusively into other ethnic groups.
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    Mar 19, 2015 7:02 AM GMT
    Zigs_01 saidI was browsing through dating profiles and I saw white guys that were exclusively into other ethnic groups.

    Yup. I'd say this is more common than ethnic guys chasing after white guys.
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    Mar 19, 2015 8:22 AM GMT
    btb900 said
    HelloPeople saidAny person who prefers to remain exclusive to a certain color/race/religion, regardless if they are or not part of those, they are shallow.


    I hate when people said things like this... People like what they like... that is it.... Just like a fat guy cannot get mad at you if you do not want to date him, a black guy can't get mad if another black guy does not want to date him. that is just life...



    No, it isn't the same thing. Fat guy can work on his fatness, black guy can work on his...?? I am tired of people using such stupid arguments.
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    Mar 19, 2015 9:15 AM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    btb900 said
    HelloPeople saidAny person who prefers to remain exclusive to a certain color/race/religion, regardless if they are or not part of those, they are shallow.


    I hate when people said things like this... People like what they like... that is it.... Just like a fat guy cannot get mad at you if you do not want to date him, a black guy can't get mad if another black guy does not want to date him. that is just life...



    No, it isn't the same thing. Fat guy can work on his fatness, black guy can work on his...?? I am tired of people using such stupid arguments.


    I have to agree, someones weight can't be.. weighed to the same degree as someone's ethnic background. It's like comparing an apple to a tuna can. They are two separate issues, and no way related at all.

    However I do agree that- who one prefers is no ones business but their own, however, there is a notorious back lash and irony that those who claim these thoughts are the very ones who pose arguments such as "why don't white men like me?" or "why don't white guys like X race" (substitute X for desired race).
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    Mar 19, 2015 9:34 AM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    btb900 said
    HelloPeople saidAny person who prefers to remain exclusive to a certain color/race/religion, regardless if they are or not part of those, they are shallow.


    I hate when people said things like this... People like what they like... that is it.... Just like a fat guy cannot get mad at you if you do not want to date him, a black guy can't get mad if another black guy does not want to date him. that is just life...



    No, it isn't the same thing. Fat guy can work on his fatness, black guy can work on his...?? I am tired of people using such stupid arguments.


    The same can be said about a girl. If you are gay and a girl want to date you, should you date her ? No... and there nothing a Girl can do about it...

  • Rene_Aensland

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    Mar 19, 2015 9:40 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidThis thread is even worse than Spazzy's push up challenge thread...icon_lol.gif


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  • BloodFlame

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    Mar 19, 2015 10:11 AM GMT
    Yes, there are white guys who prefer black or ethnic guys but in my experience, a lot tend to be on the older side. But this is just my experience.

    Varus saidyea I mean those people are really rare that they are unwavering in what they like, considering that media and social norms say that white is the most attractive. I've met men who were only attracted to Black/Asian/Latino but not white?

    I went to Germany once and man, if you have a tan skin color you're pretty much a rare commodity there, as people have to travel really far to get some sunlight/tan.


    I remember hearing something like this from a German friend who said that black or tan skin was a very rare thing in his home town and it was considered "beautiful" or "exotic." It really surprised me because I thought pale skin color would be more revered in a country like that.

  • Mar 19, 2015 10:54 AM GMT
    Are any of you even capable of thinking post colonially?
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    Mar 19, 2015 11:04 AM GMT
    btb900 said

    The same can be said about a girl. If you are gay and a girl want to date you, should you date her ? No... and there nothing a Girl can do about it...



    Once again, bad analogy. Gender and Race are two different social constructs. Sexual orientation and racial preference aren't the same. Do you believe that no attractive men of non-white race will make your dick hard? I would say that's really hard to believe. Yeah, I have interacted with some pretty ladies, but they never aroused or attracted me sexually. Most of the gay guys try to give the straight attraction a chance. So it's not like we are actively avoiding girls.

    If you want to compare race based attraction, I would say most of the other preferences, like muscled men or big dick guys would be the closest comparison. Those are both the kind of preference which you have developed over the time and choose actively.

    I am not questioning your attraction, but bracketing yourself in some specific preference isn't good. I get it you may have strong attraction towards white guys, but you aren't born with such kind of preferences. Actively looking for white guys who are into black guys is just too restrictive. There is a higher chance that you'll be met with disappointment. May be, give chance to people from other race too. You never know, you might surprise yourself. You don't have to marry every guy you meet, just meet people and see how it goes.
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    Mar 19, 2015 11:12 AM GMT
    I don't think anyone "only" dates a spacific race. Most just have preference and find more people of one race more attractive than the others. If they met someone that isn't their norm but hot as hell, I'm sure they would date them if the feeling was mutual

  • Mar 19, 2015 1:13 PM GMT
    Decolonization
  • bishop65

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    Mar 19, 2015 2:08 PM GMT
    Sure there are... they are a rare breed, though.
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    Mar 19, 2015 2:34 PM GMT
    Anyone who goes out of there way to say they only want one colour I usually am not interested in. I have preferences of what I want it does appears to be narrow minded to say it on a public forum, so I express it only with those close to me. That being said I have been attracted to someone of almost every race; the fact of the matter is that there are good looking people of every kind.
  • fitartistsf

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    Mar 19, 2015 3:15 PM GMT
    I'm "colorblind"... meaning, I am open to any race or ethnicity (except asian, sorry, I've had bad experiences with asian men, and am permanently put off by them...) that finds they are interested in me, hence the long, detailed profile...
    But I prefer, adore, admire, worship, love, black men... well, black men with in-shape, well-defined to muscular physiques... Lean to thick. Sorry, I just do. I would prefer to find a muscled Nubian guy to permanently settle down with, but won't turn away any guy that is interested in getting acquainted... (Except as previously mentioned)
  • ASHDOD

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    Mar 19, 2015 3:53 PM GMT
    the world is big ,and there's a taste for everything and evey combination , i''m sure there are asian guys who are attracted only to red heads for example [and i didnt do any survey]
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    Mar 19, 2015 4:33 PM GMT
    I only date Mexicans who are 5'7" tall, brown hair, red beard, brown eyes, uncut, from the state of Chihuahua.

    Yes, he's my boyfriend. Soon to be my husband.