Varus saidI agree with a bunch of what the guys in this thread are getting at, where gay men can be flaky, rude, and judgmental. I was in another thread here were some guy was saying fat people are pretty much worthless and going to die anyway, however when looking at his pictures, he wasn't all that either, and had no reason to talk about being desired.
All in all I can say is that, you pretty much dodge bullets when people like that show their true colors early on, instead of leading you on and wasting your time.
I like this statement, very important......"All in all I can say is that, you pretty much dodge bullets when people like that show their true colors early on, instead of leading you on and wasting your time."
You can imagine if it comes up after you have invested in every way...emotionally, physcally, economically etc.
One truth we rarely see is that friendship/love is an investment like any other and when it breaks, we lose beyond emotional loss which is what most people consider.
The time you may have done something better with youself was spent on someone who never quite liked you.....oh my!!
Chatting is not free, you pay for it but we never quite count such costs as the total cosst of friendship/love. The opportunity cost(what you would have had during all the time the time you struggled to make it work), all these are important.
I love to be ignored at the beginning tan at the end or midway...I may not even notice it since I feel full of positive energy.
Count it all joy that they do not let you go too far before they produce that danger card my dear.