meninlove said WRONG These femmes are setting us back because of the negative stereotype that all us gay men are getting among mainstream society and don't give me that nonsensical internalized homophobia bullshit. That is definitely not the case.
Jitz627 saidYes. Yes. And I don't see them as setting us back. I want someone who is secure in themselves. Fem bashing is a turn off.
lol, bullshit in spades and aces. Effeminate attributes in men have been around, and quite public, longer than you've been alive. Your real beef is with the media that focuses solely on effeminate gays because it sells to the tabloid crowd of haters, and people who are looking for sensationalism and outrageousness.
From what you're saying, you wish to bow down to the screwball bible thumpers and hide the fems so you'll get your equal rights.
Surprise, it wouldn't matter if all the US gays were knuckle draggin cavemen, or butch beyond belief beefcakes. The ones you wish to impress only see butt fuckers and dink lickers. That won't change no matter what kind of gay man you present them with.
Sheesh, Rob, this is pretty basic stuff.