DryMoan saidIF it is true then that husband is a real dick head...sickening...waste of space
I won't bother finishing the quote.
But don’t be so quick to judge others.
Here’s the bottom line: You just don’t know.
You just don’t know what’s going on in another person’s life.
You just don’t know the entire situation and the circumstances that are involved.
You just don’t know what’s going on in another person’s head.
As humans we instinctively gather as much information as we can about a person. And based on that information, which is akin to the size of a small puzzle piece, we try to construct the entire jigsaw puzzle of that person using only that small puzzle piece. You can’t. You just can’t do that.
Let me be clear: Lies and cheating can't be condoned. But don't ever think that life is as black and white as your summary judgement of the person is. Maybe he is a coward. And maybe he's a victim of a life of religious or social pressure that made him completely deny his nature. I can think of at least a dozen reasons why an otherwise great dude might find himself in this situation, and be so deep into it that finding his way out seems an impossible hurdle. Especially without help and support.
Congratulations on being such a well-adjusted individual, it's why you can't feel empathy for this person. But I believe that he MAY deserve sympathy and a support structure that will help him sort himself out. Help him stop the lies and cheating.
Or maybe he's simply a dickhead and a waste of space. Point is: We just don't know.