Mar 28, 2015 9:17 PM GMT
I'm opening a can of worms here haha...but what advice would you give someone who is shy and sexually inexperienced to meet guys whether it's for sex (hello!) or dating. I guess I don't understand apps. I end up doing a lot of small talk and then the conversation ends pretty quickly. I've met 2 people for lunch from Grindr in the last year. Yes I could be naive but for those that are straight forward and ask about what I enjoy or am into I become ashamed of my lack of experience so I usually stop talking to them. I don't really know how to answer that. (I have no idea if I'm a top, bottom, etc.. Yes, you can laugh now. I know my friends are shocked whenever I tell them any of this LOL.) Granted, I ended up dating one of them though for 5 weeks which was nice. I've been out of the scene (sex, dating, socializing) for about 15 years until recently so hence this awkward but necessary question. Thanks!