Weekend With My Friend

  • Barthemel

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    Mar 30, 2015 7:50 PM GMT
    So I need advice , I'm going away for the weekend with a close friend of mine , I'm really curious and would like to experiment with him , he is very conservative and a guys guy , very straight , I'm 25 he's 22 , I want to subtlety suggest messing around with out freaking him out , sought of ease him into the idea .

    Should I just leave the kid alone and let whatever happens happen if any or should I pursue the idea , if so how ?
  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 30, 2015 7:58 PM GMT
    Does he know you're gay? If yes, then ask him if he's ever considered experimenting with a guy. If he doesn't know your gay, use the opportunity to confide. He is a close friend, no? Then just see what happens.
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    Mar 31, 2015 6:57 AM GMT
    This has all the elements of a disaster. (Look up "Irwin Allen".) Most likely you should expect to just go as friends and have fun. If he is basically straight, he doesn't know about you and you come on strong to him, you might ruin the trip and the friendship. In some situations things can progress organically, but you really don't want to push it. If he doesn't know about you, the weekend might not be the best time to tell him. Do it when he can take time to think about it and put things in perspective. Of course if the whole point of being his friend is to get him to sleep with you, then who cares what hapens long term.
  • Barthemel

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    Mar 31, 2015 10:20 AM GMT
    Yeah I guess his friendship means more than that , he's super hard to read , So I'm just going to enjoy the weekend whatever happens happens
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    Mar 31, 2015 11:40 AM GMT
    I suggest you to not make any bold moves like confessing, asking for sex, coming out, etc. Just follow the flow, unless he confessed or if you are sure that he's 'part of the community'.
  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 31, 2015 1:40 PM GMT
    Barthemel saidYeah I guess his friendship means more than that , he's super hard to read , So I'm just going to enjoy the weekend whatever happens happens

    Ya, on second thought, I think this makes more sense. At least while you two are trapped together out of town. But once you're back home and there's a quiet opportunity to talk, you should come out to him. Not with the intent of hitting on him, but because you deserve to have friends that you don't have to hide something so important from. My guess is he won't be surprised. When I came out, pretty much no one was surprised though many hadn't suspected. And no one I cared for turned away from me because of it. Life is better out. Not because you will live any differently because of it but because you'll be much more at peace with yourself. Truly.
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    Mar 31, 2015 1:51 PM GMT
    -your friend... err acquaintance, is a wast of your romance. If he was your friend you be out to him already.
    -too late to announce your gay, just enjoy the week end with him
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Mar 31, 2015 6:43 PM GMT
    You seem to have decided to go with the flow, which is exactly what I would be doing if I were in your shoes.

    Whatever you do, do not allow him to start feeling trapped with a guy whom he did not know was gay, and who may be using your time together to hit on him. This is kinda desperate and uncool to start with...

    It looks like that your friend does not know that you are into guys. This probably indicates that you do not live openly as a gay guy. Under the circumstances, it may be wise to avoid the big gay coming out thing.

    If things go the way you obviously would want them to, do not spend any time elaborating on it. Situational homosexuality happens pretty often, and it may be simply too soon to ruin it all by projecting your being gay into this.

    Avoid the excess of enthusiasm...

    SC
  • monstapex

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    Apr 03, 2015 11:12 PM GMT
    Just dont end up like these 2 guys.

    http://www.xvideos.com/video5734832/gay_scene_-_skoonheid
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    Apr 04, 2015 12:24 AM GMT
    Just get him so drunk, until he passes out and you can rape him. **Ok, I'm watching too much Frat Pad drunk porn !! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 06, 2015 11:50 PM GMT
    monstapex saidJust dont end up like these 2 guys.

    http://www.xvideos.com/video5734832/gay_scene_-_skoonheid


    That was actually disturbing.
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    Apr 07, 2015 12:12 AM GMT
    If you're going to post a link to a video of rape a warning would be appreciated.
  • Barthemel

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    Apr 08, 2015 1:39 PM GMT
    That vid was actually kind of scary
  • TheBaise

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    Apr 08, 2015 3:45 PM GMT
    Not understanding why the victim just went silent / still and stopped fighting. I actually thought the dude was dead / heart attack / and then at the end he starts moving a bit. Was he in shock and just decided to quit fighting and let it happen? Brutal. I'd have killed the bastard.
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    Apr 08, 2015 4:56 PM GMT
    TheBaise saidNot understanding why the victim just went silent / still and stopped fighting. I actually thought the dude was dead / heart attack / and then at the end he starts moving a bit. Was he in shock and just decided to quit fighting and let it happen? Brutal. I'd have killed the bastard.


    Most rape victims actually freeze in shock that it's actually happening to them. Especially since it's usually someone they know. "I can't believe my brother/cousin/uncle/friend is doing this to me."