Tops: What does it feel like for you when the bottom cums?


  • Apr 01, 2015 4:10 AM GMT
    When you're inside your bottom and he cums, what do you feel? Can you feel anything? Does it feel good? I always feel like my hole is squeezing hard on my top's dick but he never says anything. Does it feel good for you or not? Curious!
  • Buddha

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    Apr 01, 2015 4:22 AM GMT
    There is a difference in feeling between cumming in an ass and in a condom, since the cum will shoot further inside. But more than that it's more of a psychological feeling of dominance.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Apr 01, 2015 4:32 AM GMT
    Ideally, when cumming, the bottom dude tends to tighten his sphincter muscles triggering ejaculation, and possibly orgasm of the top dude.

    Sure, this does not happen every time. And it probably is not even a default, but it happens and is very satisfying.

    For most tops I have talked about this, the matter is more that one of a dominance in psychological terms than anything related with the physics of the actual intercourse.

    There is a great degree of self-validation in the notion that another guy wants you to fuck him, and that your actions help him reach ejacualation, and hopefully, orgasm, too.

    A few tops obsess about their duty to bring their bottoms to the point of no return. Not every bottom is either willing or capable of reaching that stage just because the top guy is doing a good job. Hence, to a degree, a bottom's orgasm is a desirable default but not an absolute must. The same applies to the tops, too!

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    Apr 01, 2015 5:01 AM GMT
    Some of them just yank completely off your dick when they cum icon_sad.gif
    The good ones have been milking your dick with their ass muscles the whole time and sort of go in to convulsions when they cum

    The best ones, you're never quite sure what they're doing, because you're cumming furiously at the same time icon_surprised.gif

    If your fingers are up in there, you can sometimes feel the tubes from the prostate filling with fluid and getting hard, just before he cums. But I doubt that you could feel that with your dick unless it were in exactly the right position.
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 01, 2015 9:13 PM GMT
    Back when I topped, it just felt like repeated clenching 4 or 5 times. Then it's bottom specific, either the bottom completely tightens up like a vice grip, or his hole goes completely loose like it's given up. The latter feels much better, and as a bottom it's what I do naturally. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 11, 2015 12:20 AM GMT
    It depends on the partner. The last guy I did it with, I didn't feel him come I'm guessing probably because I started to come just before he did and the experience was really physical & intense so I might just not have been paying attention.

    My ex I could always feel come. His dick was a bit bigger than mine and maybe a little stronger too. I would lay on top of him and we would do frotting until we came. He had nice strong shots.