Going Through A Slut Phase

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    Apr 02, 2015 9:39 PM GMT
    Whenever I think about it, I presume it's something you go through or you don't. icon_neutral.gif Then again, I'm a late bloomer so I never really gone through your "usual gay experience".
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 02, 2015 9:44 PM GMT
    Most guys do. Be careful of disease but also places, situations. Theft. There are some bad dudes out there and some of them are gay.
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    Apr 02, 2015 11:52 PM GMT
    If it is something you go through, protecting yourself is a given, but also preserve your mental health. Don’t get to a place where you feel sex is all you have to offer. While you are being a slut, keep other areas in your life going, and stay interested in your pursuits so you stay interesting.

    The phase can also be used as a learning experience while you’re having fun. Improve skills, pick up techniques, and explore new sexual acts. With a trick, it does not really matter if you are initially bad or don’t enjoy something new.

    Stay safe.
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    Apr 03, 2015 1:28 PM GMT
    Thank you guys. But how does one initiate it? I'm not saying one can't make opportunity but sexual opportunities never came across me. Does it just come naturally? I feel like a fish out of water at my age.
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    Apr 03, 2015 2:34 PM GMT
    Junny saidThank you guys. But how does one initiate it? I'm not saying one can't make opportunity but sexual opportunities never came across me. Does it just come naturally? I feel like a fish out of water at my age.


    Download grindr, scruff, adam4adam, hornet, etc.
    start fucking.
    come back here and let us know how it goes.
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    Apr 03, 2015 6:54 PM GMT
    I think I missed out on this whole 'Slut Phrase' thing, spent all my younger years wondering why I was't interested in women,then lost intest in sex in general, now 22 and only relatively recently worked out why icon_redface.gif, Oh well, maybe i'll have my first gay experience if I can be bothered
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    Apr 05, 2015 7:17 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi said
    Junny saidThank you guys. But how does one initiate it? I'm not saying one can't make opportunity but sexual opportunities never came across me. Does it just come naturally? I feel like a fish out of water at my age.


    Download grindr, scruff, adam4adam, hornet, etc.
    start fucking.
    come back here and let us know how it goes.


    In a matter of contradicting myself, I really wish I had the courage to indulge in Grindr. I've had thoughts of actually downloading it, but also heard so many nasty things about it as well as the people.
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    Apr 05, 2015 7:19 PM GMT
    JonDyn saidI think I missed out on this whole 'Slut Phrase' thing, spent all my younger years wondering why I was't interested in women,then lost intest in sex in general, now 22 and only relatively recently worked out why icon_redface.gif, Oh well, maybe i'll have my first gay experience if I can be bothered

    I see where you're coming from. I realized I'm not putting myself out there to meet people, but at the same time figuring out what I actually have that's attractive of me.
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    Apr 08, 2015 11:25 AM GMT
    Im 34 and have had my slut phase.
    my boyfriend is 25 and he is still experimenting.

    I think its important to experiment and get it out of your system.
    He is still in that phase where he loves the idea of getting fucked by other guys gut currently only gets fucked by me or his ex boyfriend.

    I know he loves me so our relationship is fine but he is a cum slut so when he has the opportunity for a group of guys to cum dump he would love to take it, and theres a risk there.

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    Apr 08, 2015 11:47 AM GMT
    never had this "need" "urge" for a slutty fase or whatever xD , did adventure a couple of times but it was because I was inside the closet at the time and wanted to try sex with a men. Was not exacly amazing compared to sex with a BF you like/love. doesnt add anything to one´s character and doesnt make you better at sex really, there´s some people out there who have been with a LOT of others in bed and are not particulary good at it...you wanna be good at it, inform yourself only after put it in practice.
    point is, if you think you want it, do it, but be always safe, but if you´re doing it because you thinking you´re missing out on something just because others do, then dont.
    sexuality is a complicated thing, not all enjoy sex with 0 emotion/attachment to the person they are having sex with.
    best of luck, be safe =)dont do drugs, and drink just a bit to relax, dont do trashy shit, usualy hook ups lead to it if not done right
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    Apr 20, 2015 8:51 AM GMT
    i guess i am at the peak of this phase at the momenticon_razz.gif
  • djacobs

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    Apr 27, 2015 12:19 AM GMT
    I'm also at that Phase, as much as I love it I also hate this. but sometimes you just need to fuck in order to forget...