metta8 saidHow a Straight Man in a Gay Relationship Made it Work
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One of the speculations I want to talk about here later, is that the capacity, or even desire for coitus will be impaired for a significant percentage of so-called straight men (and maybe even more than half in the near future). There is a reason that misogyny or the belittling of a partner can exist, in that by such being done it can create or aid in the physiological condition that makes an erection possible and have it maintained while doing coitus, whether that coitus is straight or gay. With this man having gay sex, and probably non-coitus sex acts at that, perhaps he can now find a way to be sexually gratified (whether he continues a technical attraction to females or not). Coitus is the de facto expectation for straight sex, and not what amounts to as "hand jobs and blow jobs", which can obviously be engaged in by males and females together, but of which are far more standard among gay men. When the capacity for coitus, let alone it's desire, is faltering, the self-identify and self-esteem for some men is ruined, and perhaps it is better to be gay or in a gay relationship than suffer from this issue.