Submit and Control

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    Apr 07, 2015 6:29 PM GMT
    Hey guys,
    I've had this desire for a long time to submit to another man, maybe for a weekend or a few days. I'd love to be stripped, inspected, marked as his, collared, have a forced workout and ordered to do as he pleases. Not sure if any of you guys have experience with this kind of thing and wondering how to give this a try? I know giving up control to a guy I know little about could be dangerous, but it also gets me rock hard. Thoughts?
  • HottJoe

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    Apr 07, 2015 6:53 PM GMT
    Are you Catholic?
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    Apr 07, 2015 7:00 PM GMT
    I'm not, but could pretend for you?
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 07, 2015 7:25 PM GMT
    Just find a bar called The Eagle in any city. Shouldn't be hard to find someone into it. Bdsm is a subgroup of the leather crowd. I'm not into it but I'd assume you'd check out the guy the same way you'd check out a guy you'd invite into your home.
  • jeep334

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    Apr 07, 2015 7:35 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidAre you Catholic?


    Thank the Good Lord you're back Joe. You and you're tremendous sense of humor has been missed. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 07, 2015 9:13 PM GMT
    Crank it up and get into having people piss on you.
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    Apr 07, 2015 9:43 PM GMT
    Well, it IS almost April 15... Everybody gets a taste of it.
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    Apr 07, 2015 11:11 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidWell, it IS almost April 15... Everybody gets a taste of it.

    That would be scat, no?
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    Apr 08, 2015 1:08 AM GMT
    Thank, I look for an Eagle place.
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    Apr 08, 2015 1:41 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    mindgarden saidWell, it IS almost April 15... Everybody gets a taste of it.

    That would be scat, no?


    Pretty much. I'm also getting violently raped this week - my former employer is baling out of my pension plan and sent me a long packet describing my options. Cool. Getting raped and they want me to choose which position. icon_redface.gif

    Interesting to note that they have decided that I will die in 2032. Do they know about stuff that I was exposed to that they haven't told me? Or are they using some of the money they're saving to put out a hit? icon_eek.gif

    Oh, on-topic. Last time I was in "The Eagle," they had gimp cages in the bathrooms. I'm not sure if you were supposed to park your sub in there while using the urinals, or if that was actually supposed to be an alternative to the urinals...
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    Apr 08, 2015 2:44 AM GMT
    mindgarden said
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    mindgarden saidWell, it IS almost April 15... Everybody gets a taste of it.
    That would be scat, no?
    Pretty much. I'm also getting violently raped this week - my former employer is baling out of my pension plan and sent me a long packet describing my options. Cool. Getting raped and they want me to choose which position. icon_redface.gif

    Interesting to note that they have decided that I will die in 2032. Do they know about stuff that I was exposed to that they haven't told me? Or are they using some of the money they're saving to put out a hit? icon_eek.gif

    That sucks.

    That's one of my fears, that my pension plan will dry up. They've already "borrowed" from it, whatever that means. I turn 62 this summer and was thinking of starting my social security payments then and just putting it in a mutual fund since I don't need it. But it goes up a nice amount if I wait until 66, and then a lot more if I wait until 70. All my life I feel like I've been lucky making the right decision following my hunches so I think I'm going to wait until 70 if my pension plan doesn't belly up.
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    Apr 08, 2015 5:02 AM GMT
    The company that my Dad worked for started out as a solid family company - great benefits, sports facilities, etc. Then they made the mistake of issuing stock to expand. Suffered a hostile takeover by a "defense" contractor, got stripped away in their takeover wars, then got batted around between Romney-style leveraged-buyout swindlers and bankruptcy lawyers. The pension fund vanished into some sleazy lawyers' pocket.

    So, after that experience, I never really figured that I'd get anything in the end. Anyhow, whatever I can get out of the rape situation, I'll roll into a mutual fund, of which I'm still a member, despite having lost most of my deposits due to vesting issues in another rape, some years ago. One of those funds (in which I have a zero balance) made 24% last year! And is well on the way to doing the same this year... Ah well. Still not counting on it.

    Oddly enough... still on-topic.
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    Apr 08, 2015 2:00 PM GMT
    on topic:
    in any loving relationship you have two people grinding away on each other. Normal process. It takes a lot of forgiveness to get things to work. Seems initially the partner does something sooo bad; given enough time you too will do something similar.
    I see no reason to add to the situation; SUBMIT & CONTROL is bull shit. there is already enough.

    off topic:
    A really nice thing you can do for your self is plan to start paying off your debt once you hit 50. Clean up stalled relationships and loose personal bad habits.