Feeling Depressed :(

  • Deri245

    Posts: 239

    Apr 09, 2015 7:48 AM GMT
    So these past couple of weeks I have been feeling depressed I guess because I will be 25 soon and although I have been successful college wise I have yet to have a relationship with someone or go on a first date icon_sad.gif

    During my teenage years I didnt have a happy/rewarding time, I was teased a lot and made fun of for my weight[i] " had a form of epilepsy so meds made me gain weight due to steriods"[/i]
    Anyway I was always teased for being the chubby black guy that no one wanted to be with so during high school I never got the chance to go to dances etc.. because I have low self esteem about my appearance. Since I had a darker skin complexion that made things worse I would be called african jamacin,Crispy etc...
    Anyways ppl would always tell me I would nevr find anyone to date and lately I have been thinking they may be correct icon_sad.gif
    idk it just sucks I always feel like I'm alone and no one cares icon_sad.gif I just wanna find someone who makes me happy icon_smile.gif
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 09, 2015 8:32 AM GMT
    I understand how you feel, but are you just waiting for someone to walk into your life or are you actively "looking"?

    You are very young. In five years, you'll probably have more perspective on this and realize you weren't ready anyway.
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    Apr 09, 2015 5:58 PM GMT
    Deri245 said... I have been successful college wise...

    more important than anything so congratulations!!
  • Import

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    Apr 10, 2015 12:18 AM GMT
    pellaz said
    Deri245 said... I have been successful college wise...

    more important than anything so congratulations!!

    Exactly.


    OP, continue doing well with urself and things will happen. At least you're educated and no one can ever take that from you.

    Focus on making urself happy and looking out for number one... and it will happen. U just gotta be patient and in the meantime, do you and do it well, u dont need no man anyway. Like havin a ball and chain anyway. Always whining...hungry... U have to like..care about him all the time. it's actually annoying. You're not missing a whole lot. Ask Art, he'd agree.
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 10, 2015 12:29 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Import said[/cite]
    pellaz said
    Deri245 said... I have been successful college wise...

    more important than anything so congratulations!!

    Exactly.


    OP, continue doing well with urself and things will happen. At least you're educated and no one can ever take that from you.

    Focus on making urself happy and looking out for number one... and it will happen. U just gotta be patient and in the meantime, do you and do it well, u dont need no man anyway. Like havin a ball and chain anyway. Always whining...hungry... U have to like..care about him all the time. it's actually annoying. You're not missing a whole lot. Ask Art, he'd agree.

    lol