Being a gay virgin

  • itsAllen

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    Apr 10, 2015 8:25 PM GMT
    So, I am a gay virgin. My name is Allen and I am 20 years old. And I am not that attractive. My Instagram is;itsALlen for reference. I don't know. I really need some constructive advice on what I can do to make myself more attractive. I realize this may seem stupid and childish to even post on a forum such as this. But I am struggling and just need some help.
    I have lost 75 pounds in the past year, and I have a hit a road block. Nothing seems to get rid of this layer of fat that I have and I am wondering if I need to consider getting surgery? Or maybe I am one of those guys who can't get a flat stomach? I don't know! But I am not this lazy fat ass that gay men tend to generalize me just because Im not anorexic or extremely muscular. I do build muscle easily but I am losing my ability to burn fat.
    I am also a virgin and when I get on apps like grindr, tinder, etc. I am at a loss of what to do or what to say when the few guys that message me. I really want sex to be special as corny as it sounds and not just an activity but I feel like I have no choice but to learn how to have sex before it is too late because guys don't care if I am a virgin or not. Or rather they do care cause I can talk to a guy for a while and he finds out and then suddenly drops me.

    I just really need some help on how to become more attractive and maybe gain the attention of guys. Please be polite, I am asking for constructive criticism not bigotry.
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    Apr 10, 2015 9:07 PM GMT
    You're a very nice looking man, so don't sell yourself short. You don't have to rush into having sex, it's not a big deal if you wait. I didn't do anything until I was 27, and even though I waited quite a long time, it was the right thing. Unless you really want to do it, don't be an a hurry, as there is no harm in waiting.