Is sex with random people fun or stressful what do you guys think?

  • MartinMPL

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    Apr 10, 2015 9:47 PM GMT
  • HottJoe

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    Apr 10, 2015 9:59 PM GMT
    It's better than no sex....
  • MartinMPL

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    Apr 10, 2015 11:06 PM GMT
    pazzy saidcan bet you that most folks that do that shit don't even get tested and half of them have or had some sort of std or bug. if someone is going to spend all their time having fun, then they should spend as much time getting tested regularly. i know how many folks fucking 50 dudes and only getting tested once a year. icon_rolleyes.gif they don't even get tested in full either.


    I KNOW RIGHT! its scary as fuck so dumb!
  • monet

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    Apr 11, 2015 12:42 AM GMT
    Is sex with random people fun or stressful what do you guys think?

    Are you asking because no one is willing to have sex with you a second time?

    Well Martin, you gotta take what you can get, son.
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    Apr 11, 2015 12:55 AM GMT
    MartinMPL said
    pazzy saidcan bet you that most folks that do that shit don't even get tested and half of them have or had some sort of std or bug. if someone is going to spend all their time having fun, then they should spend as much time getting tested regularly. i know how many folks fucking 50 dudes and only getting tested once a year. icon_rolleyes.gif they don't even get tested in full either.


    I KNOW RIGHT! its scary as fuck so dumb!



    What's the point being gay if you never have sex? What you describe is no sex until marriage.
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    Apr 11, 2015 1:13 AM GMT
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    MartinMPL said
    pazzy saidcan bet you that most folks that do that shit don't even get tested and half of them have or had some sort of std or bug. if someone is going to spend all their time having fun, then they should spend as much time getting tested regularly. i know how many folks fucking 50 dudes and only getting tested once a year. icon_rolleyes.gif they don't even get tested in full either.


    I KNOW RIGHT! its scary as fuck so dumb!



    What's the point being gay if you never have sex? What you describe is no sex until marriage.


    In between random sex and sex only after marriage would be serial monogamy when you're with someone you care about (or are at least dating). Problem solved!
  • CX838

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    Apr 11, 2015 1:42 AM GMT
    I think sex with strangers might not be fun. Just screw for need sometimes. Tell you what is stressful. Sex with someone you know.

    Same question like you prefer to have threesome with friends or strangers. Strangers for sure. Right ?
    Screw an hour of my life is much better than screw my networks.
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    Apr 11, 2015 1:46 AM GMT
    Wang Chung

    -only stressful when your boyfriend finds out.

    Shit, now you have to clear the history on the trip computer...damn you Toyota.
  • GiveItTime

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    Apr 11, 2015 1:51 AM GMT
    Not getting anywhere near me unless you earn my respect and love, vice-versa.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Apparition

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    Apr 11, 2015 2:17 AM GMT
    having sex with someone for the first time is very stressful for me, after dating and getting tested a few times and being monogamous, i can have sex every 4 hours and it would be fun every time. i never get bored with one person.

  • MartinMPL

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    Apr 11, 2015 4:57 AM GMT
    Alpha13 said
    MartinMPL said
    pazzy saidcan bet you that most folks that do that shit don't even get tested and half of them have or had some sort of std or bug. if someone is going to spend all their time having fun, then they should spend as much time getting tested regularly. i know how many folks fucking 50 dudes and only getting tested once a year. icon_rolleyes.gif they don't even get tested in full either.


    I KNOW RIGHT! its scary as fuck so dumb!



    What's the point being gay if you never have sex? What you describe is no sex until marriage.


    i know a guy who only had sex in LTR. his 55 now and married and has a awesome relationship with his husband. from what he tells me because im sure his way more experience then me and you is sex with someone you love is way better then having sex with some random dude. the feelings you get when someone you really care about and care for you when they are holding you in their arms is amazing. there is passion, love

    this hook up thing honestly just makes you hungry for more and is not filling at all.

    sex with a another man does not make you gay btw
  • MartinMPL

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    Apr 11, 2015 5:01 AM GMT
    Apparition saidhaving sex with someone for the first time is very stressful for me, after dating and getting tested a few times and being monogamous, i can have sex every 4 hours and it would be fun every time. i never get bored with one person.



    thats normal to be honest. as soon someone plants their seed they get over and move on. its in are DNA to be like that. thats why some man practice Karissa. sex with no orgasm...

    from what i hear its fucking amazing and its like HOURS of sex. you be surprise how many guys swear by it.

    like for me orgasm i feel tired. my perception changes on the person. and i get over them real quick. but because i have not had an orgasm with them. my brain tells me they still adorable lol.

    then again you get guys who are just fucking good in bed that you really dont want to go for anyone els.

    there is no black and white to these things
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    Apr 11, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt's better than no sex....


    Ain't that the truth! But to answer the thread question….it's only stressful if either guy (or both) makes it stressful instead of fun!
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    Apr 11, 2015 8:19 AM GMT
    I definitely feel where the guy in the video is coming from. The waiting and the testing processes are incredibly stressful, and I've found sex with someone I'm not in a relationship to be unfulfilling anyway. Best to just keep it in my pants! Sure, waiting for the right person isn't exactly fun, but it sure beats waiting to find out if I've contracted something that would impact the rest of my life!
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 11, 2015 8:39 AM GMT
    Hmm intuitive fuckin post. I think it's both. When I was 23 it was fun fun fun! But at 27 it's both (quite equally)
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 11, 2015 8:40 AM GMT
    pazzy saidcan bet you that most folks that do that shit don't even get tested and half of them have or had some sort of std or bug. if someone is going to spend all their time having fun, then they should spend as much time getting tested regularly. i know how many folks fucking 50 dudes and only getting tested once a year. icon_rolleyes.gif they don't even get tested in full either.


    Don't talk out of your ass, Pazz. A lot of guys get tested. I get tested every 3-6 months, even though I'm not that sexually active any more.
  • secondstartot...

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    Apr 11, 2015 1:28 PM GMT
    sex is fun and jolly ...it doesnt have to be a huge Epiphany each time..it can be ...but sometimes you just need a good old rogering .. simple as that
  • Breeman

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    Apr 11, 2015 1:44 PM GMT
    I've only had a few random encounters. Only one was unsafe. Yes, a huge stress waiting in the clinic. Never again!
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    Apr 11, 2015 2:02 PM GMT
    If you think it's stressful, then don't do it. If you think it's fun, then do it. What's the big deal here? who cares if people disagree with you?
  • Import

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    Apr 11, 2015 11:47 PM GMT
    I think most of us hear have enegaged in some good ol fashion no strings ass sex before.... I guess, if u were fucked by a complete stranger and they did not know their status on any STD's and this person just blew a hot creamy load in your shit-pussy.... perhaps that could be stressful.

    However, u can eliminate the stress by just protecting yourself. So it doesn't have to be stressful. I dont know about everyone else, but I wake up everyday like.... stoked about not having any STDs... And yes, I even have sex sometimes.

  • Apparition

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    Apr 12, 2015 4:10 AM GMT
    Import saidI think most of us hear have enegaged in some good ol fashion no strings ass sex before.... I guess, if u were fucked by a complete stranger and they did not know their status on any STD's and this person just blew a hot creamy load in your shit-pussy.... perhaps that could be stressful.

    However, u can eliminate the stress by just protecting yourself. So it doesn't have to be stressful. I dont know about everyone else, but I wake up everyday like.... stoked about not having any STDs... And yes, I even have sex sometimes.



    for me it is not that sex is stressful, it is the whole "is this going to kill me" that is stressful. if there were no diseases, i would pretty much fuck everything that moved and it would fit into. Unfortunately
  • Import

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    Apr 12, 2015 4:27 AM GMT
    Apparition said
    Import saidI think most of us hear have enegaged in some good ol fashion no strings ass sex before.... I guess, if u were fucked by a complete stranger and they did not know their status on any STD's and this person just blew a hot creamy load in your shit-pussy.... perhaps that could be stressful.

    However, u can eliminate the stress by just protecting yourself. So it doesn't have to be stressful. I dont know about everyone else, but I wake up everyday like.... stoked about not having any STDs... And yes, I even have sex sometimes.



    for me it is not that sex is stressful, it is the whole "is this going to kill me" that is stressful. if there were no diseases, i would pretty much fuck everything that moved and it would fit into. Unfortunately


    wow, not to get off topic, but I remember u being my age..... and u lived in San Diego?
    what happened?
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    Apr 12, 2015 11:55 AM GMT
    My attitude toward sex change a bit over the year. When I first came out, it was all about having sex with the cutest/hottest guys and hooking up non-stop. Lol, I had my share of fun in my 20s. After being in about 2-3 semi/serious relationships, I can honestly say that I prefer having sex with the same partner over and over. The more you do it with the same person, the more he knows exactly what you want and you know what he wants. If you're both negative, then that's great! I'm not saying it's bad or judging guys who have random sex with strangers though. It should and can be a lot of fun. For me, I just can't be intimate and have sex with him right off the bat unless I know him well in some sort of intimate way and I have to feel attraction/excitement toward him sexually (meaning if he doesn't turn me on, then no way (vice versa), I had several dates/guys whom fell into this category in the past. Look great on paper, bad in the bedroom) so I'm skeptical now haha... lol. I guess I'm more old-fashion than I thought. But yeah, all the more power to guys who just want random new hook up sex. (just be safe).

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    Apr 12, 2015 3:39 PM GMT
    Yeah, I just want slightly more than show up and fuck. I don't want to make strings or life long friends here, I just want to talk a bit and then I am good.

    But, apps like Grindr/Scruff enable people to be SO picky and passive that it doesn't seem worth it most of the time.
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    Apr 13, 2015 12:39 PM GMT
    pazzy said
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    MartinMPL said
    pazzy saidcan bet you that most folks that do that shit don't even get tested and half of them have or had some sort of std or bug. if someone is going to spend all their time having fun, then they should spend as much time getting tested regularly. i know how many folks fucking 50 dudes and only getting tested once a year. icon_rolleyes.gif they don't even get tested in full either.


    I KNOW RIGHT! its scary as fuck so dumb!



    What's the point being gay if you never have sex? What you describe is no sex until marriage.


    you obviously don't understand what being gay is if you think it's all about sex. you don't have to have sex in order to know that you're gay or to enjoy being gay as well. if you think that's what you think is great about being gay then you're cheating yourself.

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