threesome, good idea or bad?

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    Apr 13, 2015 3:50 PM GMT
    Hey guys,

    I'm a Marine here at Camp Pendleton, and I'm actually planning a threesome with my civilian boyfriend who I love very much. We've been going out for a little over a year now and have been recently talking about having a threesome with another Marine buddy of mine.

    It would be two tops (myself and the other marine) and my bottom boyfriend. Just wondering if anyones been in this scenario before? I've always thought two hot Marines dominating a bottom would be extremely hot, but I don't know how it would affect my relationship with my boyfriend. Were both extremely secure with each other and have already laid out rules and have agreed that it would just be this once with this guy before I get out of the military.

    Does anyone else have any advice?
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    Apr 13, 2015 3:54 PM GMT
    socalmarine saidDoes anyone else have any advice?
    Yes. Get video.

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    Apr 13, 2015 4:58 PM GMT
    lol thanks for the advice
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 13, 2015 6:14 PM GMT
    You have been a member all of 24 hours and are asking about military three sums?

    Go troll in the 1996 AOL Chatroom M4M please. You're two decades too late to pull that here girl.
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    Apr 13, 2015 6:16 PM GMT
    Personally I wouldn't suggest it. Even if both of you are secure right now, adding a third will more than likely shake things up. Your boyfriend could find the other guy more desirable than yourself over time, or your feeling could change towards your boyfriend after seeing him give himself to another guy. If thought like those don't bother you than have at it, but if they do maybe you should take a step back an re evaluate what your about to get yourself into
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    Apr 13, 2015 7:07 PM GMT
    Svnw688 saidYou have been a member all of 24 hours and are asking about military three sums?

    Go troll in the 1996 AOL Chatroom M4M please. You're two decades too late to pull that here girl.
    The military has technology that's 20 years ahead of civilian technology, yet the enlisted ranks are held 20 years behind civilian advancements.

    Give him a break.

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    Apr 13, 2015 7:31 PM GMT
    DO it do it!!!
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 13, 2015 7:38 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidDO it do it!!!


    .....AND film it and share it icon_lol.gif
  • Iakona

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    Apr 13, 2015 7:38 PM GMT
    Hey if you all agree to it, and if you are all into each other, it can be very hot. I've done a few 3somes, and as long as everybody is onboard.....then it can be fun!
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    Apr 13, 2015 8:02 PM GMT
    Svnw688 saidYou have been a member all of 24 hours and are asking about military three sums?

    Go troll in the 1996 AOL Chatroom M4M please. You're two decades too late to pull that here girl.


    It's an actual question. That's pretty much the only reason I joined the site is to ask for advice. Don't be an asshole bro
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    Apr 13, 2015 8:03 PM GMT
    thanks for the advice guys!
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 13, 2015 9:48 PM GMT
    I think anytime you open up a partnership there are dangers. Be prepared for some trouble down the road because of it but it doesn't have to be fatal. My partner and I say we have an open relationship (within rules) but in fact we seldom have acted on it. One rule we have which I think is the key to it all (for us) is that either partner has the right to simply close it for 6 months without discussion. No questions asked. That solves any jealousy or anger welling up instantly and that the other is honoring the deal reinforces the bond between us. Have fun!
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    Apr 14, 2015 2:16 AM GMT
    it doesn't matter what anyone on this site thinks. the only thing that matters is between you and your boyfriend. open, honest communication with him is what you should be doing. if you both agree, then do it. if you both do not agree, then don't do it.
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    Apr 14, 2015 2:41 AM GMT
    socalmarine saidHey guys,

    I'm a Marine here at Camp Pendleton, and I'm actually planning a threesome with my civilian boyfriend who I love very much. We've been going out for a little over a year now and have been recently talking about having a threesome with another Marine buddy of mine.

    It would be two tops (myself and the other marine) and my bottom boyfriend. Just wondering if anyones been in this scenario before? I've always thought two hot Marines dominating a bottom would be extremely hot, but I don't know how it would affect my relationship with my boyfriend. Were both extremely secure with each other and have already laid out rules and have agreed that it would just be this once with this guy before I get out of the military.

    Does anyone else have any advice?

    Only been going out for a year and thinking about a 3-way? I don't think you guys will last long regardless. So go for it. Might as well end the relationship in a big way. #YOLO.
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    Apr 14, 2015 2:55 AM GMT
    Yeah, sounds HOT.
    Looks even hotter in porn; in real world--not so much, but you're young and will need to experience it to find this out.
    I feel it works best if the "third" is a random guy you both find attractive and neither will see again...some pretty hot rent boys in your area.
  • Unnamed6

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    Apr 14, 2015 4:15 PM GMT
    willular saidit doesn't matter what anyone on this site thinks. the only thing that matters is between you and your boyfriend. open, honest communication with him is what you should be doing. if you both agree, then do it. if you both do not agree, then don't do it.


    Perhaps his concern is the very idea that his boyfriend is ever enough for him? If for example if one was able to survive, if not still save on minimum wage, would the idea of just making minimum wage ever be enough for most people? Ha ha, a lot of these issues that people here seem to have is 'coveting', what amounts to as excessive desiring and concern over things, something that is well covered in Christianity and Buddhism, in fact, these religions have traditionally been so concerned with such a thing that they were seen as atheistic by the adherents of other religions in the time that they first began. While such religions provide a very poor foundation for theism that are often used to invalidate there importance, especially Christianity in today's world, a decent background in Christianity wouldn't hurt (and not from a place or persons more guilty of 'coveting' than any gay man considering or doing threesomes).
  • HottJoe

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    Apr 14, 2015 4:22 PM GMT
    It's highly unusual for any man to want another guy to stick his dick inside the person he "loves very much."
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    Apr 14, 2015 4:38 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt's highly unusual for any man to want another guy to stick his dick inside the person he "loves very much."


    I have never done a three some and probably never will. But IF I did one iron clad rule would be no bottoming for anyone else. I realize this probably means I have ingrained patriarchy issues. i probably subconsciously associate bottoming with a female role and don't want the paternity of my children being confused. Though in my conscious mind I believe that bottoming is no less masculine than topping, I still would never want my man to bottom for anyone else. And I would never bottom for anyone else!!
    I'm not claiming my hangups make sense or are right. Just stating what they are.
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    Apr 14, 2015 4:46 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi said
    HottJoe saidIt's highly unusual for any man to want another guy to stick his dick inside the person he "loves very much."


    I have never done a three some and probably never will. But IF I did one iron clad rule would be no bottoming for anyone else. I realize this probably means I have ingrained patriarchy issues. i probably subconsciously associate bottoming with a female role and don't want the paternity of my children being confused. Though in my conscious mind I believe that bottoming is no less masculine than topping, I still would never want my man to bottom for anyone else. And I would never bottom for anyone else!!
    I'm not claiming my hangups make sense or are right. Just stating what they are.

    For me, it's not a matter of male/female roles. Random sex is very different from sex with someone you love. It would be like converting my home into a bus stop. It would never feel like a private abode again.
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 14, 2015 4:47 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    Svnw688 saidYou have been a member all of 24 hours and are asking about military three sums?

    Go troll in the 1996 AOL Chatroom M4M please. You're two decades too late to pull that here girl.


    icon_neutral.gif well....... to be fair, for a second, you were having some other members yanking your credibility through some shit about your boyfriend's height and him being in the air force. let's not rush to judgement.


    That's a false equivalency. This new guy is obvious troll bait, whereas I'm a KNOWN quantity, and everything I've said about my life is true. I've even uploaded a pic of my and my b/f for those who'd like to see my kissing him.

    I could care less about my "credibility" in the eyes of dorks, conservatives, and paid wonks for the right. Haters will always hate. Let's me know I'm doing something right.
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    Apr 14, 2015 5:10 PM GMT
    The BS was not very effective....
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 14, 2015 5:16 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi said
    HottJoe saidIt's highly unusual for any man to want another guy to stick his dick inside the person he "loves very much."


    I have never done a three some and probably never will. But IF I did one iron clad rule would be no bottoming for anyone else. I realize this probably means I have ingrained patriarchy issues. i probably subconsciously associate bottoming with a female role and don't want the paternity of my children being confused. Though in my conscious mind I believe that bottoming is no less masculine than topping, I still would never want my man to bottom for anyone else. And I would never bottom for anyone else!!
    I'm not claiming my hangups make sense or are right. Just stating what they are.

    Ya, I tend to agree with this. All of it. The ultimate intimacy.
  • Apparition

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    Apr 17, 2015 4:37 AM GMT
    it usually ends badly for the relation ship. threesomes are better when you are single. they are also not very fun, 4 is better.

    although if you must, the bottom floating in a hot tub getting fucked and fed, is fun.