Do you ever get attached to guys you hookup with?
No, never, I don't even know what you are talking about
Only once that I recall, well, outside of my late teens--young dumb and full of cum--when I "fell in love" with everyone, before I recognized that my bod is not my mind, that I might love dick but that doesn't mean dick is love. I had that mostly sorted out by 19 or 20.
The guy was obviously just a trick to me and I was just a trick to him but I thought something clicked. We both seemed to think the sex was really good as we went at it for a long time. Talking a break and talking in between and going back to town at each other. Hanging by the pool, then more sex, lather rinse repeat. I thought we had a real connection there. We exchanged numbers before parting after probably about 1/2 a day with each other, but he never returned my call.
I did later see a mutual acquaintance, well, an acquaintance of mine but I think a friend of his though I don't know how close (they could have been lovers screwing with me for all I knew), I inquired about him and I don't recall just what was said but I remember thinking it bullshit. So, whatever. It was a fun night well into the morning and then a week or two of unfulfilled expectation. And that was the only time as a maturing (though then still young) man that I recall that being an issue.
I've not made that mistake again. I learned that sex can express love but so can breakfast. Sex is not love. A good cup of coffee is.