I'm married. He's married. He wants to hookup. Should I?


  • Apr 17, 2015 2:15 AM GMT
    So a friend of mine which I've know for a few years randomly started texting me one day. The conversation was normal then out of nowhere he just asks if he can send me some pics. I'm like sure not thinking anything of it. He sends me a naked pic of him, then a pic of his cock. It was completely unexpected. However, it was really really hot! He has a great body and a nice cock. I replied and we went back and forth for a while. He also sent me a few pics of his wife naked as well. He asked for some of me and even my wife. I've yet to give him any. Yesterday he started texting me again. This time s little more graphic with details of things he wants to do to/with me sexually. We are both married but this sounds like it could be fun. Has this happened to anyone before? If so, what did you do and I would like some input on what I should do?
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Apr 17, 2015 2:27 AM GMT
    If your wife, or his wife, found out what would happen?
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    Apr 17, 2015 2:28 AM GMT
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    Apr 17, 2015 2:30 AM GMT
    isn't there a Redpill reddit for this??
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    Apr 17, 2015 2:43 AM GMT
    you might let your wife know about the emails either way. If things are rolling ok with your family i would not invite this into your life. Your wife is your biggest investment.
  • tj85016

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    Apr 17, 2015 7:31 AM GMT
    meh, let him fuck your wife
  • secondstartot...

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    Apr 17, 2015 8:18 AM GMT
    I do not think any of us could make an informed decision without seeing the photos he sent you ...
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    Apr 17, 2015 10:14 AM GMT
    secondstartotheright saidI do not think any of us could make an informed decision without seeing the photos he sent you ...

    this! We wouldn't want you to bang some ugly dude.
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    Apr 17, 2015 10:17 AM GMT
    Is this some kind of a swingers couple thing?
    If not then no offence but this is so dishonourable that I feel sorry for the wives in this situation because it just reeks of disrespect.
    It's like marriage holds no honour or loyalty nowadays with too many "husbands" thinking with their dicks and not with their heads, and especially not thinking of others.

    If this IS a swingers couple thing then whatever to each their own. It's not personally something I'd encourage or do myself but if everyone knows and is actually okay with it, I just highly recommend protection.
  • davfit

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    Apr 17, 2015 3:38 PM GMT
    If you really ..love... your other half... why would you
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    Apr 17, 2015 4:19 PM GMT
    secondstartotheright saidI do not think any of us could make an informed decision without seeing the photos he sent you ...


    THIS!!...
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Apr 17, 2015 4:48 PM GMT
    If you were married to me and I found out you would be out of the door !
  • Inque

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    Apr 17, 2015 5:24 PM GMT
    Bisexuals are disgusting.

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    Apr 17, 2015 6:11 PM GMT
    Run
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    Apr 17, 2015 6:29 PM GMT
    IT'S A TRAP!
  • jaxsurfer

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    Apr 17, 2015 7:39 PM GMT
    This is a troll post clearly. 26, married and stupid and already ready to cheat. Disgusting.
  • TheBaise

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    Apr 17, 2015 8:28 PM GMT
    The dude is asking what we would do? Why give him shade? As for me / I'm in an open relationship. We play together and if a 3rd party / option / presents itself, we meet that person & check out the chemistry. No chemistry = we pass. Chemistry = cool. We go for it. We realize that gays don't necessarily follow hetro-normative monogamous behaviors. Key thing though is communication. If one of us were to sort of fall for the 3rd party / we just cut it off & don't see him anymore. As for doing it with another couple or women / we might be open to that. Depends on the chemistry.
  • toybrian

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    Apr 17, 2015 8:30 PM GMT
    The wives I would leave out becase they have nothing to do with the situation and should not be inclded unless he gets off on pics of her. The only bad thing is the timing of 2 married guys because of schedules and other things that go with married life. He should keep it between you both until you are comfortable with showing him pics of your family. Another problem wold be what you want to do with each other. After that then it is a matter if you two get along in bed or not and if not could you look at each other in work... Tell him no phones dring sex so he or you do not take any pics of the other sucking each others dick and will not appear at work if problems arrive. Good luck to you...
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    Apr 17, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    Can you imagine the tension of living with a secret in the relationship with your spouse? Secrets create distance and emotional separation. The excitement of a secret hook up is strong. Is there something with your spouse that you are not getting? Can you talk about this with your spouse? To be very bold, what if you share all of this with your spouse instead of hooking up with the friend? Jumping into behavior can short circuit all of the complex feelings that are underneath the fantasy of the hook up. Share the allurement and fantasies of excitement with your spouse. That may sound nuts and to many it will. Naturally, is there a bond of trust and security that can allow for such bold, honest and authentic communication? If so, you will strengthen what you have with your partner. In going vulnerable, you grow.
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    Apr 17, 2015 8:47 PM GMT
    wrslmuscle saidCan you imagine the tension of living with a secret in the relationship with your spouse? Secrets create distance and emotional separation. The excitement of a secret hook up is strong. Is there something with your spouse that you are not getting? Can you talk about this with your spouse? To be very bold, what if you share all of this with your spouse instead of hooking up with the friend? Jumping into behavior can short circuit all of the complex feelings that are underneath the fantasy of the hook up. Share the allurement and fantasies of excitement with your spouse. That may sound nuts and to many it will. Naturally, is there a bond of trust and security that can allow for such bold, honest and authentic communication? If so, you will strengthen what you have with your partner. In going vulnerable, you grow.
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    Apr 17, 2015 10:37 PM GMT
    If your wives know and don't care, then no problem.
    If not, then you are cheating and not recommended.
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    Apr 17, 2015 10:53 PM GMT
    bri_66 saidIf your wives know and don't care, then no problem.
    If not, then you are cheating and not recommended.


    Basically this.

    I just don't understand people who get married and make that kind of commitment to someone when they know they are going to cheat. I understand that things can change, you can fall out love with someone and into love with someone else, etc (not that this is justifiable for cheating either). But this just sounds like some random dude you wanna stick your dick in.

    If you really love your wife and know she'd be hurt by this, then I think you know what the right thing to do is. If you don't love her and don't care if she'd be hurt and would possibly even end your marriage, then get a divorce and then you can fuck whoever you want.

    Society/tradition tells that by a certain age, we should all "settle down", get married, buy a house, have kids, and all of that. But if that's not what you truly want, there is nothing wrong with being single until/if you find someone you truly can be faithful to, no matter how old you are when that person comes along. Don't play house and live a lie with someone who thinks you are faithful to them when you aren't. Betraying people doesn't paint a nice picture of you.
  • Latinman27

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    Apr 18, 2015 12:57 AM GMT
    Mysteryman2010 saidSo a friend of mine which I've know for a few years randomly started texting me one day. The conversation was normal then out of nowhere he just asks if he can send me some pics. I'm like sure not thinking anything of it. He sends me a naked pic of him, then a pic of his cock. It was completely unexpected. However, it was really really hot! He has a great body and a nice cock. I replied and we went back and forth for a while. He also sent me a few pics of his wife naked as well. He asked for some of me and even my wife. I've yet to give him any. Yesterday he started texting me again. This time s little more graphic with details of things he wants to do to/with me sexually. We are both married but this sounds like it could be fun. Has this happened to anyone before? If so, what did you do and I would like some input on what I should do?
    Dude you're married and a grown man.You should know right from wrong.If you really love,respect and care about your wife,you wouldn't be asking such a question.If she was thinking about cheating on you would you like it?icon_rolleyes.gif
  • MixedJock91

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    Apr 18, 2015 1:02 AM GMT
    Look back to the day you said "I DO" to your wife. Now re-ask yourself the question you just asked us. Why would you even consider cheating,yuck...
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 18, 2015 1:13 AM GMT
    I could give you better adivice if I could see his and your nudes icon_twisted.gif