Apr 19, 2015 10:13 PM GMT
Hi everybody,
Thought I'd turn to this forum for bits of advice, good or bad.
I met a guy recently, and upon our first meeting there was an incredible explosion of chemistry. We talked for hours, drank, fucked, smoked, not wanting to let each other go. He is on the older range, and is extremely successful. Despite this he's very humble, super positive and encouraging and does not live beyond his means (even though he could if he wanted to). He constantly says something positive every couple mins and he never ever complained or said anything negative. Because of this I've fallen for him despite the short time frame. He's also opened to me about his secrets. He tells me that he wants to be able to say that he loves me and not like me, but then he says that I shouldn't fall for him. He told me to focus on myself first (cause I'm a struggling student) and just live life to the fullest without regret.
When he tells me this, I literally just about ready to cry but I held it off. But I'm also scared because I've never been in a relationship so I didn't feel like I was worthy of him. So out of fear and rejection I decide to phase him out slowly, but then he keeps texting me and says all these nice things even though he works 60-70hrs/wk.
I'm so sad but I don't know what to do. Any thoughts? Am I blinded by false love?
Thought I'd turn to this forum for bits of advice, good or bad.
I met a guy recently, and upon our first meeting there was an incredible explosion of chemistry. We talked for hours, drank, fucked, smoked, not wanting to let each other go. He is on the older range, and is extremely successful. Despite this he's very humble, super positive and encouraging and does not live beyond his means (even though he could if he wanted to). He constantly says something positive every couple mins and he never ever complained or said anything negative. Because of this I've fallen for him despite the short time frame. He's also opened to me about his secrets. He tells me that he wants to be able to say that he loves me and not like me, but then he says that I shouldn't fall for him. He told me to focus on myself first (cause I'm a struggling student) and just live life to the fullest without regret.
When he tells me this, I literally just about ready to cry but I held it off. But I'm also scared because I've never been in a relationship so I didn't feel like I was worthy of him. So out of fear and rejection I decide to phase him out slowly, but then he keeps texting me and says all these nice things even though he works 60-70hrs/wk.
I'm so sad but I don't know what to do. Any thoughts? Am I blinded by false love?
