Straight obsess with bulge

  • sethfr

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    Apr 22, 2015 1:31 PM GMT
    I am gay and I love staring at other mens bulge. Bulge is probably the first thing i'm looking at, after the eyes.
    I do quite a lot of sport, 4 times a week, 2hours. I'm used to locker room but yesterday i had to go to my physiotherapist, I know he is straight, married with a child and not curious at all as he told me but he is always looking at my bulge. trying to be discret he did not realised that I noticed is look on my underwear.
    So I realised that a lot of straight men are staring at other men's bulbe and I Wonder why?
    As a gay man I'm staring at bulge because i'm sexualy attracted to penis ;) what about straight man is it just to compare and make themselve feel secure about their manhood or something???

    Btw I like looking at my physiotherapist staring at my bulgeicon_wink.gif
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    Apr 22, 2015 2:00 PM GMT
    In my experience, men generally consider other men as potential competitors. For many of us, it's all about who's bigger, who's better, who's smarter, who's wealthier, who's taller, who's sexier, etc. Ergo, your observation (which may or may not be true in all instances).
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    Apr 22, 2015 4:00 PM GMT
    I tend to concur with Dominus ..
    Nothing wrong to get a glimpse at the competition , even better if they are freeballing ..lol...
    Your physiotherapist might look at your bulge because he is curious or bi , being married with kids isn't a full proof of heterosexuality !!
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    Apr 22, 2015 4:11 PM GMT
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    Apr 22, 2015 4:13 PM GMT
    maybe we are the 10% after all.
  • secondstartot...

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    Apr 22, 2015 4:13 PM GMT
    so when do WE get to see this bulge of which you speak ?
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    Apr 22, 2015 4:15 PM GMT
    I'm sorry but I NEVER look at women's breasts or vaginas. If he keeps looking he's not so straight.
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    Apr 22, 2015 4:17 PM GMT
    Did you check your zipper?
  • Bunjamon

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    Apr 22, 2015 6:03 PM GMT
    Radd saidI'm sorry but I NEVER look at women's breasts or vaginas. If he keeps looking he's not so straight.


    But women check out other women's breasts all the time and measure themselves up in comparison, even if they are not sexually attracted to other women. Therefore, I don't think it's so strange for men, regardless of sexuality, to do the same thing.
  • secondstartot...

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    Apr 22, 2015 6:15 PM GMT
    Bunjamon said
    Radd saidI'm sorry but I NEVER look at women's breasts or vaginas. If he keeps looking he's not so straight.


    But women check out other women's breasts all the time and measure themselves up in comparison, even if they are not sexually attracted to other women. Therefore, I don't think it's so strange for men, regardless of sexuality, to do the same thing.

    I think breasts can be beautiful ... so too women's bodies they just dont make me sexually aroused
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    Apr 22, 2015 6:19 PM GMT
    Str8 guys are just as much obsessed with cocks and their size as gays. It's just a comparison and macho thing and guys in general want a big cock and like seeing other guys big cocks and their bulges. All guys want a big cock to show off with a bulge to their male friends and girlfriends. But most women could really care less about the size of a guys cock or what it looks like. lol. They are much more into a guy's personality, then any sexual body parts. Women do like healthy fit guys with nice fit bodies, but your cock is about the last thing they want to see, unless they have been dating for quite awhile and like or love the guy a lot and want to get intimate with him. But most women do not have sex with a guy, unless they are in some kind of relationship with him. They normally don't hook up with a guy they just met.
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    Apr 22, 2015 6:26 PM GMT
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  • Svnw688

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    Apr 22, 2015 7:12 PM GMT
    I don't share this experience. I don't see straight men staring at men's bulges.
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    Apr 22, 2015 7:25 PM GMT
    Svnw688 saidI don't share this experience. I don't see straight men staring at men's bulges.


    Come here and you will experience it. Guys are just obsessed with cocks here--anyone's cock, gay or str8. Even str8 guys will post dick pics, so their buddies can see what a big dick they got, even though it may not even be that big, but by the angle and a little photoshop they can make it look big in the pic. lol And str8 guys love seeing their buddies dick so they can crack jokes about it or show others what a big dick their friend has. lol
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    Apr 22, 2015 7:33 PM GMT
    A while ago there was a dick pic circulating on the internet that was supposedly Brett Farve--one that somehow leaked and str8 guys were circulating this pic the most because it didn't look very big. Str8 guys do talk about dicks they have seen on the internet and look at guys dicks on the internet more then anyone realizes and I do catch them doing it in public. Butthey are more discreet about it, so that no one accuses them of being gay by looking at a guy's bulge.
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    Apr 22, 2015 8:46 PM GMT
    It's 95% competition.

    Since I dropped 20lbs the past 2 months I've gone from invisible to attention-getter, garnering a form of "gym celebrity," getting checked out by guys, particularly ones in their 20s. They can't all be gay and in fact, few if any are. My social interactions have changed even as my personality hasn't - I'm treated very differently. Just as there's a bias against obesity there's a bias against average.

    An interesting observation I once made at my local dog run, which is a sloping, open 30 or so acres:

    At the bottom of the hill I could look up and observe all activity. One day at prime time, a jacked, 'roided bodybuilder in his forties in bermuda shorts and a wifebeater stood in a relatively vacant spot, at least a full acre of unoccupied land around him in an area 5 open acres wide, chain-smoking cigarettes with a small white dog at his feet, his pet nothing special, a common breed like a terrier or a Maltese, not particularly well groomed.

    As I made my way up the hill I saw people of all types - women, men, elderly couples - obviously changing their courses, whether just arrived from the upper parking lot or making their way uphill as I was - to make a beeline to him and make a big show of fussing over his dog and spending lots of time talking to him. Unlike the others, my DOGS made a beeline for his so I followed them to regain control and we chatted a minute. He had the intelligence, wit and personality of a turnip.
  • secondstartot...

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    Apr 22, 2015 8:52 PM GMT
    I read an article a while ago , (I cant for the life of me remember where I read it) I am looking - it basically said that all males check out the genital area of other males ...not just humans but other animals and also inter species ! so instinctively a male animal will check out the genital area of another male animal ...first like involuntarily that will be where your eyes first look - trying to find this article
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    Apr 23, 2015 3:22 AM GMT

    Man bulge through pants or shorts can be deceiving. There are so many factors when sizing up a bulge. One of my friends years ago told me he had a crush on one of his male friends and wished one day he could hook up with him, one of his factors was his friends bulge he could not stop talking about. Just seeing it, in jeans, while the man was seated drove my friend crazy, he said.

    He eventually hooked up with the guy and was extremely disappointed to learn that his friends bulge was not what he expected. 1) his friend had big thighs 2) his friend had large testicles 3) his friends testicles were much larger than his penis

    Conclusion, combine big leg thighs that touch, large balls and tight jeans, you have the appearance of a large bulge. I believe this is why skinny guys hide their bulge better, thigh gap, larger than average penis with smaller testicles.

    Going commando, now that is a real bulge (see John Hamm)icon_razz.gif


  • sethfr

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    Apr 23, 2015 8:01 AM GMT
    Next time my physio will look at my bulge, I will ask him what is he looking at?
    He is super hot so if he is interresting in some fun with me, i am totally his man ;)
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    Apr 23, 2015 9:12 AM GMT
    LOL OMG , that's hot! I do that from time to time, your doctor, he's probably bi! Lol IF he stares at it more than 5 seconds and has that **Oh Puppy dog, I wanna suck your dick look** in his eyes !! icon_lol.gif Can I get an amen for Nick Jonas !! icon_evil.gif

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  • sethfr

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    Jun 04, 2015 2:22 PM GMT
    I asked my pysio if he was interested in man on man action.
    he is definitively not interested icon_sad.gif(
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    Jun 05, 2015 4:05 PM GMT
    sethfr saidI asked my pysio if he was interested in man on man action.
    he is definitively not interested icon_sad.gif(



    You did !!! i for sure would have love to see the expression on his face when you suggested him ..icon_smile.gif
  • TheBaise

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    Jun 05, 2015 5:22 PM GMT
    sethfr saidI asked my pysio if he was interested in man on man action.
    he is definitively not interested icon_sad.gif(



    Dude, you probably put the fear of God in him. He may have gone into self protective mode when you asked him that. He's no doubt thinking of his profession / his license to practice / his standing with his family. Now / he may still be wanting to get into your pants, but he knows his code of ethics prevents any partying between the two of you.
  • bro4bro

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    Jun 05, 2015 11:56 PM GMT
    Don't know why this has never occurred to some of you before, but ALL porn films, gay and str8, end with a cum shot - an extreme close-up of a guy's dick blowing out a nice thick juicy load. Obviously str8 porn films end that way because that's what str8 guys want to see.

    In fact, cock size is even more important to "actors" in str8 porn than in gay porn - because no str8 guy is ever gonna say (out loud), "Wow, that guy's hot!" Johnny "The Wad" Holmes is still a legend in the str8 world, and he's been dead for something like 35 years.

    The movie M*A*S*H (1970) features a scene where soldiers are lined up at the shower tent to get a peek at a guy who has a famously enormous dick. At no time did the filmmaker intend - or the audience interpret - that this had anything to do with homosexuality.

    The only conclusion I can draw from all this is that str8 guys love looking at other guys' cocks.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 06, 2015 2:19 AM GMT
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