traveling to nyc

  • mikeyaj1994

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    Apr 24, 2015 8:13 PM GMT
    i will be visiting family in NYC this weekend, and I'd like to get away for a safe hookup. I'm a closeted/curious guy in his late 20s. I am looking to meet a nice handsome DILF type of guy. What bar should I go to in order to meet a masculine, handsome guy in his 30s or early 40s (maybe even married and cloested as wel)l? thanks in advance for the help
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 24, 2015 8:21 PM GMT
    Umm, Craigslist would be your best bet for a closet case. Few closet cases frequent known "gay" bars.

    If you do the Craigslist method, I'd recommend meeting in a public place first, just anywhere it's likely to get everyone's face recorded on CCTV (hotel lobby, McDonald's, etc.).

    Have fun. Use a condom.
  • mikeyaj1994

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    Apr 24, 2015 8:28 PM GMT
    doesn't have to be a closeted guy. do you know of any bars that are known for older guys looking for younger guys or vice versa?
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 24, 2015 8:35 PM GMT
    If that's what you're after, go to Brandy's Piano Bar (UES), or Monster (village). Lots of older guys, and most of them love younger guys.
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 24, 2015 8:40 PM GMT
    Oh, and I completely forgot Townhouse. But be warned, you should be wearing business attire (a suit) if you go there. I've been there twice. One of the times Tim Gunn (from Project Runway) was there. I didn't meet him, but that's the kind of scene. Do NOT go in jeans or if you're already drunk.

    It also might be intimidating going alone until you meet someone, but if you want older, well-heeled men looking for younger guys, there you go. Also, you'll notice an inordinate amount of young Asian guys there. I don't mean to make a judgment either way, other than to say you'll see that dynamic there.

  • Apr 25, 2015 6:13 PM GMT

    The man you want is not at gay spaces

    Go to places where there are businessmen and flirt with them until you find one

    Wall Street FiDi

    Or UES

    Go to a cigar bar

  • tj85016

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    Apr 25, 2015 7:24 PM GMT
    don't hook up with an older guy in the city, just don't
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    Apr 25, 2015 7:40 PM GMT
    Happy hour at The Ritz/Posh are full of "older" regulars on the hunt for young meat. Have fun.