giodude saidshit i posted the quote before i wrote my message.
Anyways college dude you've pretty much expressed the concept I was struggling to find the proper words for - vulnerability. That's so attractive to me. Blushing when getting a kiss on the cheek or some cute ass shit like that. I guess it's because opposites attract. I'm sort of an icy person when it comes to attachments. I'll talk to you, but ti doesn't mean I'm attached to you in any way at all. So people who are the exact opposite are really attractive to me. It's fascinating and horrifying at the same time because if you hurt them it'l take a long time to rebuild that trust plus you'll feel like an asshole for hurting a vulnerable person, which sucks to the maximum exponent
Lol yea I love that shit. And i think it is a bit of the opposite's attract thing. even though my bf is outgoing i'm definitely more outgoing lol. and even tho i can be shy on the rare occasion, he's a little more shy than me. so maybe were both in the middle but on opposites sides if that make sense lmao
as far as attachments go if you mean relationships, you just gotta find the balance. clingy is annoying but it shouldnt be a oneway relationship either. if you mean friendships i'm the sorta the same tho. i'll talk to everyone but if im out with friends or even by myself and i'm talking to a group of people, usually some are more social than others. so if its all goin good after awhile ill try to talk to the people who havent said much almost like it's a challenge lol. some people get really intimidated i guess so i just go and talk to em to show em its all good lol i'm not gonna bite you haha