Sigh. I hate men

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    Apr 30, 2015 2:38 AM GMT
    Just ranting.


    Met a guy this weekend who I really liked. We hung out all weekend. Really clicked.

    Was glowing all this week until tonight. We were supposed to hang out tonite (his idea) and now he cancels. No real explanation. Just that he's busy. I know he's probably fucking someone else or is just flaky. Which is OK!!! We aren't dating so he owes me no explanation. But a little honesty would be nice.

    He was kinda rude about it too which is why I'm upset. When I texted him about plans tonight he was just like "Sorry shit happens. Don't take it personal" Like WTF kinda answer is that?????


    And here's the kicker. I was talking to a friend of mine just a few hours ago, and he said he almost hooked up with him tonite too. icon_eek.gif He then showed me the texts and it's true.

    I don't want to marry the guy. I just enjoy his company. But like jeez...why does he got to be so rude?Don't you know I'm human too....icon_cry.gif

    BTW, he's super fucking hot....
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    Apr 30, 2015 2:45 AM GMT
    Bienvenidos a Miami.
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    Apr 30, 2015 2:46 AM GMT
    Why does this ONE guy upset me so much though?

    We barely know each other.

    I do the same to guys all the time probably. But I don't do it to guys I like.

    Am I over reacting?
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    Apr 30, 2015 2:53 AM GMT
    I don't believe in karma or any other superstition, but I do believe that shit happens.

    This time the shit that happened just happened to be shit that you've already done to others.

    Maybe I should rethink my anti-superstition beliefs. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 30, 2015 2:59 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI don't believe in karma or any other superstition, but I do believe that shit happens.

    This time the shit that happened just happened to be shit that you've already done to others.

    Maybe I should rethink my anti-superstition beliefs. icon_lol.gif


    Do you think I'm over reacting though?

    We had a great weekend and a guy cancels.

    Maybe I just have too much time on my hands. Maybe I don't.

    I really want to defriend him on Facebook and never talk to him again but that's just what I feel tonight.

    What if he texts tomorrow with some lovey bullcrap?
  • Svnw688

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    Apr 30, 2015 3:01 AM GMT
    The f*ck? I thought your account wasn't really yours, but your former boyfriends, and YOU allegedly hijacked it, and then he found out, outed you, apologized to everyone for your behavior, and then disabled the account.

    what's happening now? Let me fix my weave. I need an update girl, please. This is too f-ing good. icon_cool.gif

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    P.S., sorry about your heartache, it sucks, but you'll live. Trust me. We've ALL been there at one point or another.
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    Apr 30, 2015 3:02 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said...
    I do the same to guys all the time probably. But I don't do it to guys I like.
    ...
    I woulda answered your previous question, but you probably already answered your original question.
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    Apr 30, 2015 3:03 AM GMT
    Svnw688 saidThe f*ck? I thought your account wasn't really yours, but your former boyfriends, and YOU allegedly hijacked it, and then he found out, outed you, apologized to everyone for your behavior, and then disabled the account.

    what's happening now? Let me fix my weave. I need an update girl, please. This is too f-ing good. icon_cool.gif

    tumblr_n2rel1FYPs1t8enhpo1_400.gif

    P.S., sorry about your heartache, it sucks, but you'll live. Trust me. We've ALL been there at one point or another.
    Bienvenidos a Miami. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 30, 2015 3:03 AM GMT
    Svnw688 saidThe f*ck? I thought your account wasn't really yours, but your former boyfriends, and YOU allegedly hijacked it, and then he found out, outed you, apologized to everyone for your behavior, and then disabled the account.

    what's happening now? Let me fix my weave. I need an update girl, please. This is too f-ing good. icon_cool.gif


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    P.S., sorry about your heartache, it sucks, but you'll live. Trust me. We've ALL been there at one point or another.

    That was just something I made up bc I was bored. icon_biggrin.gif


    I know I will live. Just need to vent.

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  • Svnw688

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    Apr 30, 2015 3:14 AM GMT
    Holy F JMUSMC. I'll admit, you had me. I actually belived that false flag. Color me naive. I missed the dang bus. icon_rolleyes.gif

    You are, literally, nuts.

    ......good to have ya back!

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    Apr 30, 2015 4:37 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidBTW, he's super fucking hot....

    And he probably had a big dick as well. You really missed out dude.
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    Apr 30, 2015 5:44 AM GMT
    Dating hook ups getting you down and depressed?? You get what you dish sweet cheeks. I am sure he loves you and you loved that deep hard pounding cock. The NSA game is just that. It's your ass that's gotten emotional here. Bottom boys like you need that constant fucking reassurance! A new one is just around the corner. Cheer up!
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    Apr 30, 2015 6:20 AM GMT
    2bnaked saidDating hook ups getting you down and depressed?? You get what you dish sweet cheeks. I am sure he loves you and you loved that deep hard pounding cock. The NSA game is just that. It's your ass that's gotten emotional here. Bottom boys like you need that constant fucking reassurance! A new one is just around the corner. Cheer up!


    I know. It's just that for once I thought we had s connection. And it was all his idea to continue hanging out. It's not like I made all these plans myself.

    And I'm kinda over it already. Hopefully tomorrow I'll wake up with a new outlook...
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    Apr 30, 2015 6:23 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    2bnaked saidDating hook ups getting you down and depressed?? You get what you dish sweet cheeks. I am sure he loves you and you loved that deep hard pounding cock. The NSA game is just that. It's your ass that's gotten emotional here. Bottom boys like you need that constant fucking reassurance! A new one is just around the corner. Cheer up!


    I know. It's just that for once I thought we had s connection. And it was all his idea to continue hanging out. It's not like I made all these plans myself.

    And I'm kinda over it already. Hopefully tomorrow I'll wake up with a new outlook...


    Trust me on this.....bigger and better is always at the end of a dark tunnel

    P.S. He might like really you too. He might just needed to take a break and recalculate your hotness!! Yup....
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    Apr 30, 2015 6:35 AM GMT
    2bnaked said
    jmusmc85 said
    2bnaked saidDating hook ups getting you down and depressed?? You get what you dish sweet cheeks. I am sure he loves you and you loved that deep hard pounding cock. The NSA game is just that. It's your ass that's gotten emotional here. Bottom boys like you need that constant fucking reassurance! A new one is just around the corner. Cheer up!


    I know. It's just that for once I thought we had s connection. And it was all his idea to continue hanging out. It's not like I made all these plans myself.

    And I'm kinda over it already. Hopefully tomorrow I'll wake up with a new outlook...


    Trust me on this.....bigger and better is always at the end of a dark tunnel

    P.S. He might like really you too. He might just needed to take a break and recalculate your hotness!! Yup....


    Thanks.

    I know sometimes I can be a clingy bottom. I usually have a love them and leave them attitude but we really had a great weekend.

    Whatever. I'm just going to let it be. We'll see what happens...
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    Apr 30, 2015 6:40 AM GMT
    You never really know what's going on inside a person's head. It's quite possible it has nothing to do with you. He could be having a bad day or something. But if your friend said he almost hooked up with him the same night, well that's a different story I guess. But if it was supposed to be just a hookup you can't really expect too much from it. If you're wanting to date, I suggest reducing your hookups and increasing your actual dates.
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    Apr 30, 2015 6:59 AM GMT
    so you got the taste of your own medicine.
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    Apr 30, 2015 7:04 AM GMT
    __morphic__ saidso you got the taste of your own medicine.


    Perhaps.

    But like I said, I maybe over reacting. I can't expect the world from him.

    Most likely he will text me tomorrow. Hopefully I'll feel differently.
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    Apr 30, 2015 7:07 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    __morphic__ saidso you got the taste of your own medicine.


    Perhaps.

    But like I said, I maybe over reacting. I can't expect the world from him.

    Most likely he will text me tomorrow. Hopefully I'll feel differently.

    yeah, that's how it works usually. Good luck!
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    Apr 30, 2015 8:00 AM GMT
    Maybe you saw the whole picture in your head already...

    Dating/Hooking up, all is fun. Ya'll Date/hook up some more, he starts to get the feels. So do you, and BAM relationship.


    Buuut that didn't happen. And then your friend is like, 'But he wanted to hook up with me'

    And that's where you got stabbed in heart, you were afraid and petrified. Kept thinking you couldn't live without him by your side. And spend all those many nights thinking how he did you wrong, but you grew strong and learned how to get allong. But then he's back from outer space, and you'll walk in to find him here with that sad look upon his face. But you changed that stupid lock, and made him leave the key. 'Cause you knew for just one second he'd be back to bother you.

    But you'll surive icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 30, 2015 5:47 PM GMT
    or you should think it another way. You should appreciated that you knew what kind of guy he is earlier. You would feel better this way. You would get hurt if he hooked you then shitty come after
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    Apr 30, 2015 5:53 PM GMT
    The solution is not to develop expectations from "hanging out." Save that for something more formal ... i.e., dating ... or doesn't anyone do that anymore?
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    Apr 30, 2015 6:22 PM GMT
    Gorl...

  • BloodFlame

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    Apr 30, 2015 6:29 PM GMT
    Sorry that happened Jmusc but like you said, it was just a hookup and I'm very certain you'll have no trouble finding another guy.

    I would think that he needed a break for a day or two until you mentioned your friend got hit up by him. If that's the case and you don't want to hook up with him anymore, just find someone new.

    Good luck!
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    Apr 30, 2015 7:31 PM GMT
    Quit playing hard to get; drop your drawers and grab your ankles.