Did any gals hit on you ?

  • CX838

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    Apr 30, 2015 6:06 PM GMT
    I think no matter how gay we are but still some blind gals got a wrong feelings into us. How many gals did you had and how did it happened ? Or how to end it ?

    I think I am super gay but I had 4. 2 from high school and 2 from college.

    The craziest one was in college. She was the first one knew that I am gay in the class. And she is a totally church person. We were really good friends and I didn't expect she loves me. She told everyone I am a fake gay try to get gals by the gay way them everyones hate me. My ex bf came to school everyday and one day he kissed me in the door way after class.
  • BloodFlame

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    Apr 30, 2015 6:23 PM GMT
    Some guys would find it hard to believe someone like me got hit on by a girl but I have. It was about a year or two ago where I was out with a friend at a concert for an Aerosmith tribute band. I was just hanging around and enjoying the music and out of nowhere, some girl ran up to me and said her friend found me "sexy" but was too shy to approach and slipped me the girl's phone number. I took a look and she was pretty in my opinion but you know, gayness and all.

    It was awkward since that's never happened to me before lol.
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    Apr 30, 2015 7:25 PM GMT
    I've had that happen from time to time. Honestly, I am viewed as automatically viewed as straight most of the time.
  • jo2hotbod

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    May 01, 2015 1:21 AM GMT
    All the time, it's fun
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    May 01, 2015 2:24 AM GMT
    Lol yes all the time when I go out, I guess because I look *straight? the last time I was in WeHo, some chick was like so drunk and grabbed my crotch in front of the ANdrew Christian undies store lol. Weird.

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    May 01, 2015 3:27 AM GMT
    Girls often sit beside in big science and math courses. I usually go along with it until "what are you doing this weekend?" comes up, then I'll say I'm going to the gay bar or I have a date with a dude (even if I have neither planned, I just don't want to leave home girl hanging).

    But my favorite is at bars when I say two sentences tops and a girl says "I have a boyfriend" and I'll say "me too", it's funny to see them go from pretend creeped out to hugs and wanting to go shopping
  • Wendigo9

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    May 01, 2015 3:59 AM GMT
    Not alone boys, I've had about 9 girls look my way this week.
  • johndubuque

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    May 01, 2015 4:16 AM GMT
    Wendigo9 saidNot alone boys, I've had about 9 girls look my way this week.


    Hi Wendigo...not surprised icon_smile.gif

    When I was in high school and college females would hit on me, but I was usually oblivious Guys would tell me some girl liked me and I had never noticed. I only noticed the guys.
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    May 01, 2015 5:36 AM GMT
    Have always had female admirers...growing up they were just easier...but I am a total man slave for sure....
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    May 01, 2015 5:37 AM GMT
    All the time. icon_rolleyes.gif I'm in nursing school, so needless to say most of my classes are like 90% or more female. The few guys are either married or with a gf - Army medics stationed at Fort Knox mostly - OR they're so "obvious" Helen Keller would know. hahaha So the chicks are always after me although I'm really not all that hot. I've come up with a bunch of ways to discourage them without outing myself. Mostly it involves doing stupid shit on purpose, like pretending to hit on a girl at a party and then "accidentally" spilling a drink all over her. Gets tiresome but I just roll with it.

    Most of the servers at my job are women, so I get it there too. I just use the "never have a relationship with a co-worker" line and the problem's solved. They figure I meet plenty of girls at school so don't get bothered when I turn them down.
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    May 01, 2015 8:41 AM GMT
    Friends sometimes even hint at a crush.

    Its weird. Never liked it unless I'm interested. (In a guy only)

    Is it bad that I just usually want to leave the room when it happens ?
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    May 01, 2015 2:15 PM GMT
    Nope, although I believe it had nothing to do with my being gay, rather that I'm simply not very physically attractive, period. Because there have been women who were completely shocked and disbelieving that I'm gay. So I can't ascribe their disinterest in me to their thinking I was gay.

    That answer I found in my own mirror. And also the fact I was terribly shy socially and withdrawn in civilian clothes, though completely different when in uniform. For the majority of my military career I was a bachelor Army Officer, rather fit & trim in my uniform (we all had to be), something women often admire, and in those days a guarantee that you couldn't possibly be gay, nothing but certified & stamped USDOD-approved butch. icon_rolleyes.gif

    With family money to back up my not inconsequential salary in a steady & respected position, stationed in some economically disadvantaged areas where I was comparatively rich. And women didn't approach me.

    Now that I've come out, that former personal social impediment has fallen, but women still don't hit on me. LOL! I get along great with women, I just had lunch with a visiting lesbian couple yesterday (of course THEY wouldn't EVER hit on me), but I also have straight women friends, too.

    So no, women don't hit on me. Neither before nor after I came out.
  • CX838

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    May 01, 2015 2:32 PM GMT
    paracosm saidGirls often sit beside in big science and math courses. I usually go along with it until "what are you doing this weekend?" comes up, then I'll say I'm going to the gay bar or I have a date with a dude (even if I have neither planned, I just don't want to leave home girl hanging).

    But my favorite is at bars when I say two sentences tops and a girl says "I have a boyfriend" and I'll say "me too", it's funny to see them go from pretend creeped out to hugs and wanting to go shopping

    LoL I have my girl fd always all me to sleep with her big bro. She knew that I never had any black guy before. But I know that her bro is kind of homophobie and he tried to be nice my to say it out.
  • madsexy

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    May 01, 2015 3:17 PM GMT
    ALL THE TIME! The women who are just interested or attracted are usually easy and accept a polite rebuff with grace. The women who hit on gay men to challenge and see if they can get us to respond sexually - well in my opinion they don't deserve courtesy anyway! icon_evil.gif
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    May 01, 2015 10:19 PM GMT
    It is funny, when I was a scrawny twink I got almost no attention from women. I have always heard that women tend to not like really big guys, but the more size I've put on the more attention I've had from the opposite sex.
  • HeilHil

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    May 01, 2015 10:23 PM GMT
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    May 01, 2015 11:09 PM GMT
    Guys never hit on me out in every day life, but girls always do. I just don't send out those gay signals or guys need a signal update on their gaydar.

    I guess I should be dating girls.
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    May 01, 2015 11:37 PM GMT
    Women still hit on my, it's a complement.
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    May 02, 2015 1:42 AM GMT
    If it ever happened I was completely oblivious.

    A few times some girl thought I was my (straight) brother.
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    May 02, 2015 1:54 AM GMT
    Not so much when I was a teenager but now they do all the time. I'm humble about the attention and compliments now.
  • wellwell

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    May 02, 2015 2:36 AM GMT
    Often; I even dated a few of them !
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    May 02, 2015 5:43 AM GMT
    It happens fairly often. I've even have had employees tell me that they want to set me up with their daughters. Ugh!
  • Marko89

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    May 02, 2015 7:37 AM GMT
    Hahaha I actually get this a lot. I don't mind it, in fact I'm kind of flattered by it.
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    May 02, 2015 7:50 AM GMT
    Yup ! It's a huge compliment when anyone hits on you but it would be nice if more guys did.

    Obviously since gay men account for 5% of the general population the odds are stacked against us in terms of casual encounters - makes sense that women would inevitably hit on us more.

  • Buddha

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    May 02, 2015 10:08 AM GMT
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