What's your take? need some advice

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    May 01, 2015 6:40 AM GMT
    I met this guy about 4.5 years ago. From the first day we hang out it's like we're brothers, click instantly. We hang out like everyday, stay at each others house etc. Every once in a blue some things happen between us that go beyond being friends but nothing major. So after 2+ years we start clashing a bit, having small arguments and he says he doesn't want to hang anymore. Over the next month or so I try to reconcile until he says he wants nothing at all to do with me.

    Ok, cool. Once hear this I delete his number and never contact him again. Done deal.. I thought. Now almost 2 years later he contacts a mutual friend of ours and tells him he has my stuff and ask him to pick it up. I guess my friend didn't get it soon enough and this guy drops it off at his house the next day, 'quite moody' as my friend puts it. My friend sends me a text telling me what happened and to come get it.

    Now in my mind I'm like 'what stuff?' I didn't leave anything of value there, matter of fact I didn't know I left anything at all. When I come to get the bag it's like trinkets. A couple t shirts, some dogged shoes I forgot about, a couple hats that look like a dog chewed them, a magic the gathering card (literally.. just 1 MTG card lol), 1 sock, not a pair, 1 sock, and some boxers, not mine... his (I recognize them cause he wore them often, so i know he knows they're his)

    What is this about? I never asked him for any of this stuff and I would assume someone would just throw it away, especially after 2 years. Do you think this guy is up to something?
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    May 01, 2015 6:53 AM GMT
    He's cleaning house and wants to get rid of things that remind him of you?
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    May 01, 2015 7:11 AM GMT
    You're thinking way too much into this. He's simply cleaning house, period!
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    May 03, 2015 3:40 PM GMT
    Do you have anything that he left behind? If so maybe return the favor and see if it opens up some further communication...that is, if you want to have any communication with this guy. He sounds like drama.
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    May 03, 2015 4:20 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidYou're thinking way too much into this. He's simply cleaning house, period!



    This, move on.
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    May 04, 2015 2:29 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidYou're thinking way too much into this. He's simply cleaning house, period!


    I agree, But there's a slight possibility that he was testing the water. Anyway, don't make the first move.icon_rolleyes.gif