Subliminal tweets & Awkward remarks

  • sleaver

    Posts: 39

    May 03, 2015 4:34 PM GMT
    There's this guy who really likes me & wants to pursue something... However, I'm not interested.. at all. I just feel there is no chemistry whatsoever & report.

    So.. He's on twitter quoting some obvious things about our situation and posting some of my fav songs.. It feels awkward because we hang out with the same friends. I like him as a friend nothing more nothing less...

    Has anyone been in this situation? How did you handle it...?

    Thanks..

    xoxo

    A
  • bradleyDean

    Posts: 10

    May 03, 2015 10:34 PM GMT
    I have been on both sides of this particular issue. For me, it was always hard to accept when a guy i like isnt interested. It is probably best to just tell him how awkward his actions make you feel. Let him know that you see him as a friend, but you cant see a romantic future with him. He will be a little crushed, but just give him space and friendship and he will be okay. Best of luckicon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 03, 2015 10:49 PM GMT
    if you know him, man up to the plate and, being kind, just tell him your feelings, it will be a lesson in social skills for you and a kudos if he walks away a friend.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 04, 2015 11:33 AM GMT
    Just speak to them about it. Explain why you dislike it and if they respect you then they'll stop, if they don't then they're not worth your time.
  • SilverRRCloud

    Posts: 874

    May 04, 2015 3:42 PM GMT
    Few friendship survive rejection. The thing just hangs in there, and poisons the air.

    I doubt that there is a royal way out of this issue.


    SC
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 04, 2015 4:10 PM GMT
    sleaver said I just feel there is no chemistry whatsoever & report.

    I like him you [more] as a friend nothing more nothing less...





    Why don't you just tell him what you told us? People are not mind readers.

    /end thread
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 05, 2015 12:14 AM GMT
    Just tell him you see him as a friend right now and want to continue to all have fun as a group. I will say that it is 50/50 whether things will go well or not. Guys seem to have a harder time with rejection than girls do, in my experience. Females seem to be able to compartmentalize it better whereas guys (gay or straight) tend to hold on to it a little longer in their head. Pride thing maybe.

    It would be easier if you two could maybe have some space from each other over time or he could find someone else to fall in love with.
  • marined8

    Posts: 81

    May 07, 2015 2:51 AM GMT
    Just tell em how you feel. I really dislijke pepple who beat around the bush and can't be a man and say how they feel. It Just ends up leading them on. ugh Story of my life.