does anyone else feel depressed when they're looking at hot guys..

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    May 07, 2015 1:08 AM GMT
    The thing is that I like to look at handsome men whenever I'm out of home. At the street, in the stores, the buss... If I go outside I'll start to look for hot guys to fuel my perverted sex fantasies. The thing is that, when I find a particularly attractive guy, I feel depressed, yeah, because I think that 1) A guy like him would never put his eyes on me and 2) I compare myself to that man and I start to play to "finding the differences" which are many. It's difficult to try to build a self esteem if I can't help but to feel inferior to any other man I see. Sometimes only a book can stop me to look at men.
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    May 07, 2015 1:20 AM GMT
    Your pic makes you look like a fat pussy. I know how you feel tho. Just enjoy the sights and don't feel bad for doing so. icon_lol.gif
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    May 07, 2015 1:53 AM GMT
    flguy57 saidYour pic makes you look like a fat pussy. I know how you feel tho. Just enjoy the sights and don't feel bad for doing so. icon_lol.gif

    yeah, I'm in college and there are guys in every class of mine that make me go on full-on shame spirals.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    May 07, 2015 1:54 AM GMT
    yep.
  • collegedude12

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    May 07, 2015 2:05 AM GMT
    nah dude the more you put yourself down the worse your self esteem will be. if you dont like how you look, a little exercise and a clean diet can go a long way. confidence is key man. what is it that makes you feel inferior to other guys
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    May 07, 2015 2:17 AM GMT
    snapbacks saidThe thing is that I like to look at handsome men whenever I'm out of home. At the street, in the stores, the buss... If I go outside I'll start to look for hot guys to fuel my perverted sex fantasies. The thing is that, when I find a particularly attractive guy, I feel depressed, yeah, because I think that 1) A guy like him would never put his eyes on me and 2) I compare myself to that man and I start to play to "finding the differences" which are many. It's difficult to try to build a self esteem if I can't help but to feel inferior to any other man I see. Sometimes only a book can stop me to look at men.


    Why do you think like that? Every one of us is unique.
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    May 07, 2015 2:28 AM GMT
    snapbacks said
    flguy57 saidYour pic makes you look like a fat pussy. I know how you feel tho. Just enjoy the sights and don't feel bad for doing so. icon_lol.gif

    yeah, I'm in college and there are guys in every class of mine that make me go on full-on shame spirals.


    There is nothing wrong with admiring other hot guys. Just don't make it too obvious or you risk being beat up by some homophobic douche.
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    May 07, 2015 4:16 PM GMT
    Think this way mate , nobody is perfect !
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    May 07, 2015 10:56 PM GMT
    winwin said
    snapbacks saidThe thing is that I like to look at handsome men whenever I'm out of home. At the street, in the stores, the buss... If I go outside I'll start to look for hot guys to fuel my perverted sex fantasies. The thing is that, when I find a particularly attractive guy, I feel depressed, yeah, because I think that 1) A guy like him would never put his eyes on me and 2) I compare myself to that man and I start to play to "finding the differences" which are many. It's difficult to try to build a self esteem if I can't help but to feel inferior to any other man I see. Sometimes only a book can stop me to look at men.


    Why do you think like that? Every one of us is unique.

    oh... ok.
    Thanks for solving my issue.
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    May 07, 2015 10:57 PM GMT
    neffa saidThink this way mate , nobody is perfect !

    I know I guess I'm almost jealous because 1) I will never be able ot get a hot man like that and 2) I'll never look as good as them. I hate to say it but I guess im just a bit insecure and jealous. yeah, i know those are horrible traits in people but i cant help that i feel like that
  • Apparition

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    May 07, 2015 11:01 PM GMT
    but all the hot boys are bottoms...so they have to date someone who looks like me.
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    May 07, 2015 11:08 PM GMT
    Apparition saidbut all the hot boys are bottoms...so they have to date someone who looks like me.

    you're pretty good looking for 45, I hope i look half as good as u do when im that age.

    Alot of times. I keep telling myself how gorgeous some guys are and how it is beyond unfair. I usually nap the depression and jealousy off.
    It is probably stemming from low self esteem which I am working on by going to the gym (I'm inspired by the fit people here) and getting better fitting clothes
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    May 08, 2015 12:27 AM GMT
    No, looking at myself in the mirror does not make me feel depressed. icon_cool.gif