Where can I meet men in Toronto?

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    May 07, 2015 12:21 PM GMT
    Hey guys,
    so I'm slowly coming out of the Bi closet, and maybe want to take it to the next level by having a few drinks with a guy. Where is the best place to meet gay or bi men in Toronto, for someone who doesn't want to go to a bar or club, lol. Something more romantic and classy. Or if you live in Toronto, and want to possibly be the guy I go out for a few drinks with, let me know :-)
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    May 07, 2015 2:49 PM GMT
    I'm not familiar with Toronto, but in my experience just being outside and active (some type of sport) puts you in contact with a few gays/bi's here and there...and that's worked for any place I've been.
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    May 07, 2015 3:18 PM GMT
    google, TO has lots of gay places.....and there are plenty of guys on here that live there....
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    May 08, 2015 6:41 AM GMT
    Goodlife Fitness if you like to workout.
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    May 23, 2015 4:11 AM GMT
    GameOver saidGoodlife Fitness if you like to workout.


    Depends on what you want in life. Goodlife (especially any downtown location) is annoyingly cruisy. You could meet someone there, but these gyms are known for guys who primarily just want to mess around after a workout, and nothing more (not exactly dating material). If you're looking for a quick tug, or something just as meaningless, then head into the steam room and/or sauna. It's a sad state of affairs when men are doing things in public gyms that should be limited to Steamworks, Spa Excess, or other such places. To each his own, but that's not for me (yeah, I'm being preachy). And if you're recently exploring your bi-side, this is not the place to do it.

    You said you're not into bars or clubs ("the scene"), but it might not be a bad idea to try it out. It takes a lot of courage for the closeted, but head to Church St. on a Friday or Saturday night and hit one of the bars. Don't be afraid of seeing someone from work (or family!)--because they're most likely there for the same reason. icon_smile.gif

    Good luck!