Jan 26, 2009 6:03 AM GMT
Hey guys...I always have enjoyed the angles and takes people get on their various issues they post here. I have one, so here goes.
On new years eve, my BF and I went to a party at a friend's house to party. The majority of the people at this party knew each other and are gay as well. Being the night it was, the booze was flowing freely. by about 1 am, maybe about 15 or so of us were pretty messed up. Of course, we were all stumbling around, hugging, etc. by that point as well.
A mutual friend decided to come over to us to say hi. My BF asked me to flex for him, which of course I gladly did (come on, most of us work hard here...wouldn't you?) Our friend at that point reached down both our pants, which we stopped him from doing right away. That night, he continued to be a pest. Both my Bf and I passed out at about 4am on the couch and we found our friend really close to us on the couch. I woke up again, and he was trying to give me a BJ. He also had my BF's belt off.
The following morning, my BF talked about what happened and decided we were both there and that nothing really happened. Thus, we felt it not worth making a big deal over a drunken evening.
Case closed? Not really. Last night, we were at the same house with the same cast of characters over. This time our friend was drunk again (we were not drinking) and he was telling everyone what had happened. He kept calling himself a "home wrecker" and a "sex toy." He also was saying that he got us off (obviously this didn't happen).
Now my question is this: what is the best way to resolve this? Should we have a talk with him (btw, when he sobered up, he didn't mention it anymore) or simply just let it go? Also, if it happens again, any tips on what to say?
On new years eve, my BF and I went to a party at a friend's house to party. The majority of the people at this party knew each other and are gay as well. Being the night it was, the booze was flowing freely. by about 1 am, maybe about 15 or so of us were pretty messed up. Of course, we were all stumbling around, hugging, etc. by that point as well.
A mutual friend decided to come over to us to say hi. My BF asked me to flex for him, which of course I gladly did (come on, most of us work hard here...wouldn't you?) Our friend at that point reached down both our pants, which we stopped him from doing right away. That night, he continued to be a pest. Both my Bf and I passed out at about 4am on the couch and we found our friend really close to us on the couch. I woke up again, and he was trying to give me a BJ. He also had my BF's belt off.
The following morning, my BF talked about what happened and decided we were both there and that nothing really happened. Thus, we felt it not worth making a big deal over a drunken evening.
Case closed? Not really. Last night, we were at the same house with the same cast of characters over. This time our friend was drunk again (we were not drinking) and he was telling everyone what had happened. He kept calling himself a "home wrecker" and a "sex toy." He also was saying that he got us off (obviously this didn't happen).
Now my question is this: what is the best way to resolve this? Should we have a talk with him (btw, when he sobered up, he didn't mention it anymore) or simply just let it go? Also, if it happens again, any tips on what to say?
