pazzy saidyou had every right to feel insulted. that was basically a diss and he had the nerve to try to front like it wasn't. that's even worse.
One of our friends is mentally slow. I mean seriously. But he doesn't look it. You have to speak with him to begin to realize he's very mentally challenged. Otherwise you'd assume he's an ordinary guy.
He's 50 and his partner died a couple of months ago. Poor guy is totally lost. His relatives are talking about having him committed. Not merely because he's gay, like wrongly happened to "Brother Boy" in Sordid Lives
, but because he's truly incompetent. It may be the best thing for him, I hate to admit.
But you'd never know it to initially look at him. Rather attractive man, and seeing him you could easily be attracted to him. Until he opens his mouth and you realize his severe limitations. We all try to look after him, and I've been trying to help him understand his computer, which his late partner always did for him. But hopeless - he'll never do it on his own.
That guy saying the OP looks autistic is a jerk. He doesn't look autistic (I'm not sure there is such a thing), and he writes competently & intelligently. The guy who said that should shove it up his own autistic ass.