Kisses in the first date

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 17, 2015 4:09 AM GMT
    Hi to all

    (excuse me for my bad english please)

    I want to do a question for many.

    Do you like kiss to the other guy in the first outout together?

    I particulary do not do that, besides, here in Colombia, we are a little reserved and conservative. But when I am in USA, I note that many guys like give mouth kisses in the first date.

    For me it's tempting, but generally I daren't.

    And you?
  • mystery905

    Posts: 745

    May 18, 2015 4:44 AM GMT
    If the chemistry is there, then why not?

    Perhaps a tentative kiss first, and then take it from there...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 4:48 AM GMT
    Yes, you have reason, I tried but I am ashamed icon_redface.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 4:49 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidOMG, he used "daren't" in a sentence!

    I love it! icon_cool.gif



    icon_wink.gif Jajaja, thanks!

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 5:04 AM GMT
    Yes, in Colombia the gay life is very common even if is a catholic and costumbrist.

    I am a guy that like go slow but when I decide begin, nobody can't stop me, as good Scorpio.

  • Webster666

    Posts: 9217

    May 18, 2015 6:09 AM GMT
    With me, it's usually shaking hands when you first meet, and a hug when you are parting.
    Maybe kisses, the second time we meet, depending on how much I like the other guy.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 6:20 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidWith me, it's usually shaking hands when you first meet, and a hug when you are parting.
    Maybe kisses, the second time we meet, depending on how much I like the other guy.


    Is the best alternative, that you say, I do the same.
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    May 18, 2015 6:24 AM GMT
    I prefer kisses before the first date icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 10:07 AM GMT
    If we don't kiss on the first date, there won't be a second date
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 12:04 PM GMT
    too desperate.
    next!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 5:16 PM GMT
    The only way that I would have a kiss in a first date would be having had great chemistry before maybe in chat or as friends.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 5:48 PM GMT
    Back when I was dating - if kissing wasn't good when we met, there would not be a first date.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 18, 2015 6:07 PM GMT
    Ohno saidIf we don't kiss on the first date, there won't be a second date

    I am not so strict, but I have similar feeling.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 19, 2015 10:50 PM GMT
    If I'm "feeling it" I will usually go for a kiss on his cheek. If he decides to change it to a lip kiss, that's fine too.

  • Destinharbor

    Posts: 4433

    May 20, 2015 12:50 AM GMT
    If you're attracted, you try to kiss him at the end of the date. Or sooner if you've had great sex. If you want him as a platonic buddy, and want to communicate that without having to say he doesn't get you hard, you say goodnight without a kiss. Come on, guys, take off your poodle skirts and act like a men. Afraid a kiss might get you pregnant?
  • LJay

    Posts: 11612

    May 20, 2015 2:18 PM GMT
    Throw away the rule book and do as you please.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 20, 2015 3:43 PM GMT
    LJay saidThrow away the rule book and do as you please.


    Bingo.