Can a cock be too big?

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    Jan 26, 2009 4:39 PM GMT
    Sometimes it can just hurt too much, right?
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    Jan 26, 2009 7:07 PM GMT
    It's all a matter of preference and what you're doing with it. You'll find guys on here who have strong preferences one way or the other, or for whom size doesn't matter at all.

    For the record, I like big. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 26, 2009 7:14 PM GMT
    Smooth_Armada saidSometimes it can just hurt too much, right?

    Yes. It either fits your mouth or your ass, or it doesn't. Not your fault, but his. Find guys who fit you.

    In fact, if you need and prefer smaller, you've cornered the market. All the rest of the gay world is off chasing the mega-cocks, while an awful lot of smaller dicks are attached to some really great guys. Give them a try!

    BTW, I'm a big boy myself, but I happen to prefer smaller men. Go figure...
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    Jan 26, 2009 7:45 PM GMT
    Uh huh. I guess I'm just not made right for a big dick.
  • Latenight30

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    Jan 26, 2009 7:57 PM GMT
    First you want to be prepared for whatever size you are about to attempt. Now the body is an amazing thing and what it can accomplish will surprise you. But like they said for OJ if it don't fit you must accquit. Don't force it because it can put you out of commission and noone wants that.
    BTW Smooth_armada you are a hotty
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    Jan 26, 2009 8:34 PM GMT
    yes...
    I find carrying mine around a "heavy" burden to bear... but one I'm unwilling to give up icon_biggrin.gif

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    Jan 26, 2009 8:37 PM GMT
    Smooth_Armada saidUh huh. I guess I'm just not made right for a big dick.


    nonsense. People get fisted. People use greased up fire hydrants as butt plugs. You can fit damn near any penis up there with a little training. Just get yourself some good lube and a few butt plugs of various size and start training. Soon, you can take it like a champ.
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    Jan 26, 2009 9:16 PM GMT

    Where are the pics???????????????????????????? icon_eek.gif



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    Jan 26, 2009 9:38 PM GMT

    Just breathe...
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    Jan 27, 2009 12:29 AM GMT
    yes.

    there are solutions tho
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    Jan 27, 2009 12:38 AM GMT
    BodyWork4 saidyes...
    I find carrying mine around a "heavy" burden to bear... but one I'm unwilling to give up icon_biggrin.gif



    *wipes sweat from his right brow* I was getting nervous there for a minute. I'm glad to hear that you're "unwilling to give carryting it around."
  • zakariahzol

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    Jan 27, 2009 12:51 AM GMT
    Not to small, not to huge for me. Some guys with dick so big suffer from ED. Its require more blood to pump into the penis to make it hard. He need to be in excellent health with normal blood pressure, testorone level and exercise regulaly. Big dick is a waste on a overweight guys (its mostly hidden under layer of abdominal fat) .

    Small dick dont reach to the end , and it can be frustrating. Bigger ones, fill and hit all wall. Big or small , it got to be rock solid.
  • dionysus

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    Jan 27, 2009 2:39 AM GMT
    for women, there can be too big, its called crossing into the fallopian tubes icon_smile.gif

    for guys, no real such thing, except you can damage the second sphincter (if your dick is big enough, you've had sex with a guy and hit the second one, which is freaking amazing) but if you overstretch it, since its not an actively usable muscle that we can contract by thinking about it (like the primary one is, you know, when you stop your pee, etc. etc.) so there could be slight leakage. so. um. yea.

  • torontoguy222...

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    Jan 27, 2009 3:03 AM GMT
    Yes!! gosh, I'm a small guy (only 5'5). my bodily orifices can only stretch so much!
  • Tyinstl

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    Jan 27, 2009 3:15 AM GMT
    Hey, I should try bottoming for a small guy. That actually be pleasant icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 27, 2009 4:47 PM GMT
    i prefer bottoming for small guys than big guys. i like the look of big guys though, especially in speedos. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 27, 2009 5:57 PM GMT
    A LOT DEPENDS ON THE ATTITUDE, HUNGER AND PRIOR EXPERIENCE OF THE BOTTOM AND THE PATIENCE OF THE TOP. GOTTA TAKE TIME AT FIRST


  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Jan 27, 2009 6:20 PM GMT
    The funny thing for me is generally I think guys with smaller cocks look better proportioned, but my last two serious LTRs had huge ones, are bottoms and as a top, I found it a little intimidating... but got over it quickly icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 27, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    Just remember to push out as he pushes in.

    I knew one poor fellow who had such a big cock. But he was so frustrated with it. Oh, he got a lot of admiration for his endowment. But few men could take it up their asses ....or even in their mouths to give him a good blowjob. He had to settle for wacking off mostly. So, I would say there can be such a thing as too big.

    I am happy being average...enough to have fun with, but nobody gets hurt.
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    Jan 27, 2009 8:24 PM GMT
    I can't imagine it being too big icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jan 28, 2009 2:42 AM GMT
    Smooth_Armada saidi prefer bottoming for small guys than big guys. i like the look of big guys though, especially in speedos. icon_razz.gif


    OMG OMG OMG This is my lucky day.

    *Tries desperately to act cool and sexy*

    Hey man you should check out my Small Dick thread:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/387107/

    *winks*

    Wait a min.... you're on the other side of "the pond" ... aren't you?


    FUCK!

    A guy who actually tolerates small guys and he's an ocean apart from me!

    Screw this! Where's my fucking dildo?

    *Storms away*
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    Feb 18, 2009 7:40 AM GMT
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    I am a bottom. My current boyfriend is a little over 7 inches long and moderately thick. He is the largest man I have ever been with, since my past sexual partners have been around 5 inches and not very thick. I have enjoyed sex with the partners of my past, but having sex with a man who was much larger was a completely different experience.

    He was able to go deeper inside me than anyone before, which shocked me. During sex I feel him hit/rub/touch parts of my walls that no one else has before. Sometimes this is really great, but the majority of the time, it's discomforting. I have to sort of mentally "get myself there," tell myself, "You're getting fucked, you love this man, make it the best."

    Before my boyfriend, I enjoyed a rough romp, but now, his bigger penis leaves me with more damage and more soreness. I have to work harder to relax for him too. I enjoy how he stretches me because I've maintained my tightness (call it youth, but I say I'm just uptight and always stressed) so I know he enjoys it.

    I really love him. We've been together for over for a year and I love that he wants me as often as he does, but his penis really does hurt me a lot more than I tell him. I'm not shitting blood in any alarming sense, but every so often there is blood is my stool--something I'm honest about, which he takes as a sort of "accomplishment," as if to say, "Yeah...I did that." He backs off for a while, giving me time to heal.

    I'm not so worried about asking him to change our sex life as I am about wearing down the quality of my anus or doing permanent damage to my sphincter.

    1) Is it normal to bleed sometimes after anal sex? Should I be worried even if it's only a little?
    2) Can I be damaged by having my prostate roughly pressed? I will admit, I push him to "enjoy" me the way I know he likes it because I find it sexy--and I also hope that we'll accomplish those instances where he can make me orgasm simply by being inside me.
    3) Is there a good way to talk to my boyfriend about his penis without making him feel bad? I feel responsible for allowing him to receive the same message that I enjoy our sex the way we have it.

    We have a method of starting and like to try new positions. I prefer being on top of him because I like the control and I can usually get off better; but he likes taking control by having me on my knees or on my back where he can control his thrusts and how deep it goes. I guess what I really wish it that we could have slower sex, since it's less painful.

    Plus, even though he won't let me top him, I feel like I'm in a sense "fucking him" by controlling how much of me he gets when I'm riding him. I'm not dissatisfied, just worried for my body. If I have nothing to worry about and I'm still being fulfilled sexually, then I guess I shouldn't complain. I just wish he was smaller and I can't think of a positive way to communicate that to him. In the past. I appreciate the new experiences that having sex with a man with a large penis has provided me, but I really miss the safety of a smaller cock. There really isn't a difference in pleasure for me--there's just a higher rate of being hurt...and I guess I'm a little louder as a result.

    ALSO: I'm a lot smaller than he is. I'd say pushing 5 inches but not quite. He has bottomed in the past but will not let me top him. Do you think that it's a matter of me not being big enough? I know he misses it and it makes me feel insecure that we can't be versatile for one another. Should I feel insufficient? Should I worry that he might seek someone else? Or do you think that he's satisfied with our sex and our roles as is and I should not worry as much? I just don't want our "sex life" to be something complicated; I want it to be fun--and something only we get to do with one another, since I am not the sharing type.


    Any advice? Sorry for writing a novel!

  • MikemikeMike

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    Feb 18, 2009 9:01 AM GMT
    I guess you would die if I banged you. Seriously is your man doing enough to get you ready?? Being a topman I enjoy the foreplay, it sounds like he's not getting you ready. He's not that big, unless you just are that tight...?

    He's your b/f you should be able to talk all this out with him Salve.
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    Feb 18, 2009 1:34 PM GMT
    rawr saidyes.

    there are solutions tho


    changed my mind.

    the answer is definitely no. icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 28, 2009 7:39 AM GMT
    Someone in this thread needs a cheeseburger.