I'm just so freaked out right now

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    Jan 26, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
    Long story short, I hooked up with a guy I've been talking to for a little while. At some point, after he climaxed, we realized the condom broke. I'm trying to keep to keep a steady composure, but I don't know at what point the condom broke and this is bothering me to no end.

    I used a Lifestyles Ultra Lubricated condom and I didn't penetrated him for very long; the poppers he used made him climaxed early, and I didn't release inside of him either. He seemed sure of being DD free, but I can ill-afford to

    I could use some firm advice and dose of empathy right now.
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    Jan 27, 2009 12:47 AM GMT
    I'm not quite sure I understand. You were the top and your condom broke? or vice versa?

    In either event, I would contact my doctor or a clinic and explain there was a condom breakage. You can get emergency HIV meds that may help in lowering the odds of infection, if that's possible. If you were the bottom, I'd urge you to do it just for your own peace of mind. You can get tested now and again in 6 months to make sure you are clean.
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    Jan 27, 2009 1:11 AM GMT
    Timberoo saidI'm not quite sure I understand. You were the top and your condom broke? or vice versa?

    In either event, I would contact my doctor or a clinic and explain there was a condom breakage. You can get emergency HIV meds that may help in lowering the odds of infection, if that's possible. If you were the bottom, I'd urge you to do it just for your own peace of mind. You can get tested now and again in 6 months to make sure you are clean.
    I was the "top", but I planned to get tested early next month because my last HIV test was in September 2008 and my last STI test was July 2008. I just hope everything goes ok.