a heterosexual men can fall in love with a gay?

  • dante23

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    May 21, 2015 11:13 PM GMT
    a heterosexual men can fall in love with a gay?
    un heterosexual hombre puede enamorarse de un gay ?icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 22, 2015 12:05 AM GMT
    dante23 saida hetero sexual can fall in love with a gay?
    un hetero sexual puede enamorarse de un gay ?icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    A heterosexual woman can . . .
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    May 22, 2015 12:11 AM GMT
    dante23 saida hetero sexual can fall in love with a gay?
    un hetero sexual puede enamorarse de un gay ?icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Lo siento pero no.
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    May 22, 2015 3:43 AM GMT
    Ya no serĂ­a heterosexual si no bisexual o gay enclosetado.
  • secondstartot...

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    May 22, 2015 9:06 AM GMT
    I have had heterosexual men fall in love with me...it is quite remarkable ... they will not find me sexually arousing at all yet they are deeply in love to the point that they got jealous when I was actually with someone
  • Blakstarn

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    May 22, 2015 1:45 PM GMT
    Yes. They can fall in love with a gay man.
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    May 22, 2015 2:22 PM GMT

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    Anyone can say they're straight. It's a favourite pastime of many a bisexual.
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    May 22, 2015 2:23 PM GMT
    secondstartotheright saidI have had heterosexual men fall in love with me...it is quite remarkable ... they will not find me sexually arousing at all yet they are deeply in love to the point that they got jealous when I was actually with someone



    mmmm, in other circles that's known as platonic friendship, not falling in love.

    Sometimes, friends get jealous.
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    May 22, 2015 2:35 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    secondstartotheright saidI have had heterosexual men fall in love with me...it is quite remarkable ... they will not find me sexually arousing at all yet they are deeply in love to the point that they got jealous when I was actually with someone



    mmmm, in other circles that's known as platonic friendship, not falling in love.

    Sometimes, friends get jealous.


    I know....these were/are very deep friends whom I love very much and its pretty much mutual
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    May 22, 2015 2:45 PM GMT
    There absolutely is falling in love without the sexual aspect consummated or even oriented. The feelings feel just the same.

    I've fallen in love with women and I've had them fall in love with me. Though they might have had (some told me they did and some made plays for it) sexual attraction towards me, I never did towards them. But it felt the same as falling in love with men which was by my orientation combined with sexuality.

    The sexuality aspect of falling in love with another person of a gender we might be oriented towards is a layering over, not an underlayment.

    Love is all


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    May 22, 2015 2:48 PM GMT
    secondstartotheright saidI have had heterosexual men fall in love with me...it is quite remarkable ... they will not find me sexually arousing at all yet they are deeply in love to the point that they got jealous when I was actually with someone


    Yep, as I've been saying for 45 years. Sex or sexual attraction doesn't necessarily have anything to do with love.
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    May 22, 2015 2:49 PM GMT
    theantijock saidThere absolutely is falling in love without the sexual aspect consummated or even oriented. The feelings feel just the same.

    I've fallen in love with women and I've had them fall in love with me. Though they might have had (some told me they did and some made plays for it) sexual attraction towards me, I never did towards them. But it felt the same as falling in love with men which was by my orientation combined with sexuality.

    The sexuality aspect of falling in love with another person of a gender we might be oriented towards is a layering over, not an underlayment.


    Agree
  • Destinharbor

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    May 22, 2015 4:50 PM GMT
    I'll believe it's possible if some say they've had it happen but my gut instinct is to say that you can't fall in romantic love with someone you're not sexually attracted to. Love, yes, but not "in love."
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    May 22, 2015 5:54 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidI'll believe it's possible if some say they've had it happen but my gut instinct is to say that you can't fall in romantic love with someone you're not sexually attracted to. Love, yes, but not "in love."


    And mostly agree.
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    May 22, 2015 7:43 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidI'll believe it's possible if some say they've had it happen but my gut instinct is to say that you can't fall in romantic love with someone you're not sexually attracted to. Love, yes, but not "in love."


    Within a sexual orientation, if the infatuation fades, do you no longer describe yourself as in-love, merely as loving: a loving couple as opposed to a couple in love?

    Even if the initial infatuation remains, would a monogamous top/bottom relationship be more "in love" than an open top/top relationship?

    Is the level of intensity of in-love as opposed to loving restricted even to coupling? Does what spills from the dick trigger the most intense emotion or does an artist pour his soul onto canvas? Is there no romanticism in the arts? Is the elevation of love limited to sexual relations or do we find that in dedication. He loves his work but he's in love with his work. Does ecstasy emanate from masturbation or meditation?

    Are we limited to specific expressions of intimacies out of which might arise this sense of being in love?
  • dante23

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    May 23, 2015 7:53 PM GMT
    thanks icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 23, 2015 8:44 PM GMT


    What could possibly go wrong. Perfect recipe for happiness.

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    May 23, 2015 9:10 PM GMT
    what could go wrong?

    Canadian humor?

    We'll have to ask again in 10 years.
  • dante23

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    May 23, 2015 9:47 PM GMT
    Thanks for your answers beautiful menicon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif