Best news...Im gonna be a DAD!

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    May 27, 2015 9:11 PM GMT
    Thats right, Im the father of a baby boy/girl that will be born in December. Best news I got in my entire life and wanted to share icon_cool.gif cheers
  • metta

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    May 27, 2015 9:14 PM GMT
    Congratulations!
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    May 27, 2015 9:17 PM GMT
    metta8 saidCongratulations!

    thanks!
  • Zigs_01

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    May 27, 2015 9:25 PM GMT
    Are you that crazy Uruguayan guy?
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    May 27, 2015 9:30 PM GMT
    Zigs_01 saidAre you that crazy Uruguayan guy?

    probably not
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    May 27, 2015 9:34 PM GMT
    I congratulate you.

    I have three daughters myself, the youngest was born when I was already 55 years old, hence the username on this website.
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    May 27, 2015 9:37 PM GMT
    NotThatOld saidI congratulate you.

    I have three daughters myself, the youngest was born when I was already 55 years old, hence the username on this website.

    That's really cool, life must be completly different with 3 kids around
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    May 27, 2015 9:43 PM GMT
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  • venue35

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    May 27, 2015 9:56 PM GMT
    I don't know if this is the best place to break the news.
    After all this is a gay site and your partner is not male
    But for what it's worth congrats!icon_neutral.gif
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    May 27, 2015 10:05 PM GMT
    venue35 saidI don't know if this is the best place to break the news.
    After all this is a gay site and your partner is not male
    But for what it's worth congrats!icon_neutral.gif


    All that matters is I'm gonna be a father and I want to share that with the many RJ members Ive known over the years. The fact Im gonna have a baby is way more important than the gender of my partner. I don't even know why you brought that up.
  • venue35

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    May 27, 2015 10:09 PM GMT
    Because it is disrespectful to come on a gay site David
    expecting everyone to celebrate the fact that you are going to be a father..you've paraded the fact that you are on the down low and you want us to open the champagne now?
    Sorry honey but it just doesn't work that way..
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    May 27, 2015 10:13 PM GMT
    Congrats David. You have detractors on RJ but friends as well.
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    May 27, 2015 10:21 PM GMT
    David666k saidThats right, Im the father of a baby boy/girl that will be born in December. Best news I got in my entire life and wanted to share icon_cool.gif cheers


    Congratulations! For many, having a child, or even aborting one...is actually one of the most selfish things that many here in the States do, but I sense the lack of selfish motives when it comes to your own child (though I won't comment on whether you have, or don't have, selfish motives on other things that you do...), and I know the child will be loved unconditionally.

    And in spite of whatever ongoing sexual, emotional, or otherwise, relationship, that you may or may not have with a female, and perhaps much complicated now by bringing an actual child into this world, I think I'll still comment on a post of yours in response to a post of mine a couple of days ago about your own capacity for coitus when it comes to gay sex. You want me to clarify why I'm willing to think such a way about you, yes?

    Again congratulations on being a father.
  • venue35

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    May 27, 2015 10:21 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidCongrats David. You have detractors on RJ but friends as well.

    You really need to do a re-think here
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    May 27, 2015 10:23 PM GMT
    venue35 saidBecause it is disrespectful to come on a gay site David
    expecting everyone to celebrate the fact that you are going to be a father..you've paraded the fact that you are on the down low and you want us to open the champagne now?
    Sorry honey but it just doesn't work that way..


    Dude this is not about my sexual life. It's non of your business who I sleep with, this is about me as a man and RJ member, having a baby. Not everything is black or white and about sex.

    Also Im not on the "down low", don't act as if you knew anything about me. I'm a monogamous guy so don't start making hints about the opposite, that's quite disrespectful.

    If you concider that sharing great news is something disrespectul only because it doesn't match your own lifestle then ignore this thread and move on.
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    May 27, 2015 10:25 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidCongrats David. You have detractors on RJ but friends as well.


    Of course I do, Thanks woodsmen!
  • venue35

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    May 27, 2015 10:28 PM GMT
    Unnamed6 said
    David666k saidThats right, Im the father of a baby boy/girl that will be born in December. Best news I got in my entire life and wanted to share icon_cool.gif cheers


    Congratulations! For many, having a child, or even aborting one...is actually one of the most selfish things that many here in the States do, but I sense the lack of selfish motives when it comes to your own child (though I won't comment on whether you have, or don't have, selfish motives on other things that you do...), and I know it will be loved unconditionally.

    And in spite of whatever ongoing sexual, emotional, or otherwise relationship that you may or may not have with a female, and perhaps complicated now by bringing an actual child into this world, I think I'll still comment on a post of yours in response to a post of mine a couple of days ago about your own capacity for coitus when it comes to gay sex. You want me to clarify why I'm willing to think such way about you, yes?

    Again congratulations on being a father.

    Who the fuck made you judge Judy??
    First we have a closet case and now we have a basket case.
    Unnamed you act so clever teasing us how you will devastate us in the near future with your revelations on all things RJ.
    Gimme a fuckin break
    You've been ridiculed many times here in the past and it was always YOUR fault.
    Something that you will never admit to but you don't have to cuz we all know that you are full of shit.
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    May 27, 2015 10:36 PM GMT
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    David666k saidThats right, Im the father of a baby boy/girl that will be born in December. Best news I got in my entire life and wanted to share icon_cool.gif cheers


    Congratulations! For many, having a child, or even aborting one...is actually one of the most selfish things that many here in the States do, but I sense the lack of selfish motives when it comes to your own child (though I won't comment on whether you have, or don't have, selfish motives on other things that you do...), and I know the child will be loved unconditionally.

    And in spite of whatever ongoing sexual, emotional, or otherwise, relationship, that you may or may not have with a female, and perhaps much complicated now by bringing an actual child into this world, I think I'll still comment on a post of yours in response to a post of mine a couple of days ago about your own capacity for coitus when it comes to gay sex. You want me to clarify why I'm willing to think such a way about you, yes?

    Again congratulations on being a father.


    Thank you! And yes you are right, I will love my child unconditionally.

    I didn't quite get the last part of your post though, I do remember you asked me something in another thread and I replied there. And yes Im interesed to know your views about me but please reply on that other thread and not this one (in order not to mix topics).
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    May 27, 2015 10:37 PM GMT
    I will congratulate you!
    Why? As a man you have the opportunity to be a FATHER. Gay, straight or Bi it's a choice you've made. You have a responsibility to your child as a FATHER!!
    No matter who helps you or who assisted you in the pregnancy your still the father. You do have an obligation to be the best parent possible and strive to teach, provide and most importantly PROTECT!!

    Be wary of harsh criticism of others, teach kindness, respect and politeness. You'll have a great kid!
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    May 27, 2015 10:40 PM GMT
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    venue35 saidBecause it is disrespectful to come on a gay site David
    expecting everyone to celebrate the fact that you are going to be a father..you've paraded the fact that you are on the down low and you want us to open the champagne now?
    Sorry honey but it just doesn't work that way..


    You make some excellent points, venue35.

    A down low man who has pretty much degraded the gay lifestyle in the forums and always puts his hetero portion of his bisexuality on a pedestal. Not to mention, a guy who remains closeted to the point of hiding his face yet wants to share very intimate details about his personal life? It's a very mixed message, indeed.

    You know some things here on RJ make my blood boil but this thread here really takes the cake.
    I cannot fucking believe this shit right here.
    A woman is carrying a child and the father who likes slices of dick on the side,keeps it a secret from her.
    He comes on a gay site to celebrate the fantastic news.
    We have 2 clueless fags telling him that they are on his side and that he shouldn't feel bad if someone doesn't share his happiness!!!
    Are you people out of your fucking minds??????
    What he's basically saying is that his behaviour is cool and manly and acceptable.
    I dated a guy who I was in love with and he had a wife who was pregnant. I didn't know this. She saw my texts and found me and asked me what was going on with her husband.
    I could see her life and her happiness fading in her eyes and I'll never forget the fear either. I said that nothing was going on and that i would never bother him again
    I will never be put in a situation like that again.
    I cannot believe that some queens here are applauding this kind of behaviour. Do whatever the fuck you want but don't expect me to celebrate in the hypocrisy
    I'm out of here with this shit
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    May 27, 2015 10:48 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    venue35 saidBecause it is disrespectful to come on a gay site David
    expecting everyone to celebrate the fact that you are going to be a father..you've paraded the fact that you are on the down low and you want us to open the champagne now?
    Sorry honey but it just doesn't work that way..


    You make some excellent points, venue35.

    A down low man who has pretty much degraded the gay lifestyle in the forums and always puts his hetero portion of his bisexuality on a pedestal. Not to mention, a guy who remains closeted to the point of hiding his face yet wants to share very intimate details about his personal life? It's a very mixed message, indeed.

    You know some things here on RJ make my blood boil but this thread here really takes the cake.
    I cannot fucking believe this shit right here.
    A woman is carrying a child and the father who likes slices of dick on the side,keeps it a secret from her.
    He comes on a gay site to celebrate the fantastic news.
    We have 2 clueless fags telling him that they are on his side and that he shouldn't feel bad if someone doesn't share his happiness!!!
    Are you people out of your fucking minds??????
    What he's basically saying is that his behaviour is cool and manly and acceptable.
    I dated a guy who I was in love with and he had a wife who was pregnant. I didn't know this. She saw my texts and found me and asked me what was going on with her husband.
    I could see her life and her happiness fading in her eyes and I'll never forget the fear either. I said that nothing was going on and that i would never bother him again
    I will never be put in a situation like that again.
    I cannot believe that some queens here are applauding this kind of behaviour. Do whatever the fuck you want but don't expect me to celebrate in the hypocrisy
    I'm out of here with this shit


    I wouldn't be to critical of him really. He's just trying to figure things out like the rest of us. Like I said, he can have a baby and more. I think every man should have a child. Irregardless of whether he/we or I like pussy/cock or panties/jockstraps....... Do I have to be gay to like a spewing cock? Maybe a kid will mellow him out....Yup lol
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    May 27, 2015 10:49 PM GMT
    2bnaked saidI will congratulate you!
    Why? As a man you have the opportunity to be a FATHER. Gay, straight or Bi it's a choice you've made. You have a responsibility to your child as a FATHER!!
    No matter who helps you or who assisted you in the pregnancy your still the father. You do have an obligation to be the best parent possible and strive to teach, provide and most importantly PROTECT!!

    Be wary of harsh criticism of others, teach kindness, respect and politeness. You'll have a great kid!


    Thank you! You are spot on, all these are my views as well. I know it won't be easy but I will do my best to teach him/her values, be a good provider, raise them well and more.
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    May 27, 2015 10:59 PM GMT
    I'm surprised I'm getting shit from this member Venue who I basically never had any substantial interaction with.

    If he knew me (like many here do) would know I don't fuck guys on the side - so all his bashing based on infidelity on my side goes down the toilet.

    I'm a monogamous guy, I don't really have the need to fuck other people (men or women) when I'm in a relationship. I've always been like this.

    If the day comes when I want to have sex with another person, let's say a man, I will deal with that in a proper way but never cheating. So all the shit that's coming from Venue's mouth only shows his own issues and insecurities.
  • Import

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    May 27, 2015 11:00 PM GMT
    Perhaps u can still have an abortion?
  • venue35

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    May 27, 2015 11:01 PM GMT
    2bnaked said
    venue35 said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    venue35 saidBecause it is disrespectful to come on a gay site David
    expecting everyone to celebrate the fact that you are going to be a father..you've paraded the fact that you are on the down low and you want us to open the champagne now?
    Sorry honey but it just doesn't work that way..


    You make some excellent points, venue35.

    A down low man who has pretty much degraded the gay lifestyle in the forums and always puts his hetero portion of his bisexuality on a pedestal. Not to mention, a guy who remains closeted to the point of hiding his face yet wants to share very intimate details about his personal life? It's a very mixed message, indeed.

    You know some things here on RJ make my blood boil but this thread here really takes the cake.
    I cannot fucking believe this shit right here.
    A woman is carrying a child and the father who likes slices of dick on the side,keeps it a secret from her.
    He comes on a gay site to celebrate the fantastic news.
    We have 2 clueless fags telling him that they are on his side and that he shouldn't feel bad if someone doesn't share his happiness!!!
    Are you people out of your fucking minds??????
    What he's basically saying is that his behaviour is cool and manly and acceptable.
    I dated a guy who I was in love with and he had a wife who was pregnant. I didn't know this. She saw my texts and found me and asked me what was going on with her husband.
    I could see her life and her happiness fading in her eyes and I'll never forget the fear either. I said that nothing was going on and that i would never bother him again
    I will never be put in a situation like that again.
    I cannot believe that some queens here are applauding this kind of behaviour. Do whatever the fuck you want but don't expect me to celebrate in the hypocrisy
    I'm out of here with this shit


    I wouldn't be to critical of him really. He's just trying to figure things out like the rest of us. Like I said, he can have a baby and more. I think every man should have a child. Irregardless of whether he/we or I like pussy/cock or panties/jockstraps....... Do I have to be gay to like a spewing cock? Maybe a kid will mellow him out....Yup lol

    you don't know what you are talking about.
    when you had a kid times were very different.
    do not compare your situation with his.
    I'm being critical because I should be.
    People get hurt by lies.
    He knows exactly what he is doing and why.
    He is not a confused bisexual tormented by his duality. BITCH PLEEEEZ!!!!
    You should cut back on the pot and read these forums more carefully..a lot of shit has gone down on these forums in the past 2 years you haven't been paying attention