How did your last date go?

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    May 28, 2015 3:51 AM GMT
    Do you guys date? If so, how was it?
    Seems like all the social apps can take it away.

    What's your best thing you've done or tried on
    a "real" date? No sex? Just goofy golfing? LOL

    I've been so busy lately, I am not sure I remember how.icon_redface.gif
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    May 28, 2015 3:55 AM GMT
    It was a couple months ago. He's a USC grad student, about 23, kinda cute. We met on Grindr lol yes !! After a short coffee date with him, I didn't feel any sexual or chemistry or attraction toward him in person. He texted me a couple times afterward, I sorta let him down gently.
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    May 28, 2015 4:02 AM GMT
    I am on that Grindr app and it's crazy. I am inundated and can never figure out how to get past hey, hi, what's up or do you wanna fuck me questions. I say meet me on the trail.
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    May 28, 2015 4:09 AM GMT
    Just have patience on that app, I met him after like 3 weeks after his spring break in NY. But yeah, too bad there's no connection. I think the universe is telling me something, not to force it.
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    May 28, 2015 6:19 AM GMT
    No sex? Well, those are the dates when you can see that it isn't going to work out. Finish your meal and say goodbye.

    (Or, on a couple of occasions, finish the bike ride, then drive the truck back to pick him up where he crapped out icon_rolleyes.gif Or swim him back to the beach, get him dried off and buy him a beer. icon_rolleyes.gif Or cut the sail short, let him off at the dock, then mop up the puke. icon_rolleyes.gif )
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    May 28, 2015 7:58 AM GMT
    sex dates are perfect for me no time to waste
    Movies grab a bite to eat option to hit the hotel room.


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    May 28, 2015 10:23 AM GMT
    My husband and I had a grand night on South Bank.
  • Elian

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    May 28, 2015 10:47 AM GMT
    Second date yesterday, Dinner and movie, pretty typical. He seems to be really shy whereas I'm a really chatty and outgoing. I find shy guys terribly cute though. I would say it went well,seem a really sweet guy, so difficult to read. So still not much idea on whether if our personalities are compatible.

    I wasn't planning to end up in bed this soon, but well self control issues I guess. He is gorgeous with the clothes off too, so no complains icon_razz.gif

    I'll ask for a third one soon to see if we can actually get to know each other better and if we pass the "after having sex" barrier .


    Yeah, dating apps are a nice thing to have in order to know who is gay out there, but I always move to a real meeting in a non-sex friendly environment as soon as I get a bit interested in the guy. The awkwardness of people first dates its quite amusing If you are not shy.
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    Jun 02, 2015 1:01 AM GMT
    Hmm my last date was lunch with a lawyer a couple of months ago.
    We couldn't be more different from one another, which I kinda liked actually.

    But I guess he didn't cause he stopped answering me.
    Yay.
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    Jun 02, 2015 1:09 AM GMT
    Hard to remember, since it was years ago - but it must have gone well, since we are still together.
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    Jun 02, 2015 1:58 AM GMT
    My last date was this past Saturday. It was date #3, but to be honest - I can't tell if these are really dates, or what we are exactly.

    He's handsome and has his own life/career, so he's not all over me. I like that, b/c I have no idea what I want right now. Anyway, he plays piano part-time at a local bar, and invited me to watch him play. I was mesmerized, b/c he's very talented.

    I walked him home after the bar closed (my friends and I hung out till around then), and we made out when we got to his place. I tried to be forward, but he didn't want to move fast. I respected that a lot. We fell asleep cuddling, and I woke up the next morning, kissed him on the cheek, and drove home.

    We texted briefly last night. I wish I knew how I felt about him, but I'm honestly still numb from my last break-up, even though it was a few months ago now. This dude will probably get tired of my shit. But there's something about him that makes me want to hang out again.

    I never write posts this long, so apologies.
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    Jun 02, 2015 2:19 AM GMT
    REALJOCK has never yielded any personal meet-ups, just forum posts and texting. icon_confused.gif
    I've used DADDYHUNT for several years as a potential dating app; having coffee etc doesn't seem like a real date, more of a check-him-out opportunity. That being said, I've had my share of coffees but no date in quite a while.
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    Jun 02, 2015 2:33 AM GMT
    xoVS saidHmm my last date was lunch with a lawyer a couple of months ago.
    We couldn't be more different from one another, which I kinda liked actually.

    But I guess he didn't cause he stopped answering me.
    Yay.
    Pilots are way cooler than lawyers.
    Just sayin'. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 02, 2015 5:36 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    xoVS saidHmm my last date was lunch with a lawyer a couple of months ago.
    We couldn't be more different from one another, which I kinda liked actually.

    But I guess he didn't cause he stopped answering me.
    Yay.
    Pilots are way cooler than lawyers.
    Just sayin'. icon_wink.gif

    If i were single, I would look forward to a date with you - at least one.
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    Jun 08, 2015 3:25 AM GMT
    Update to my prior post: Dude no longer answers my texts, so I guess there will not be another date. At this stage, it could've been anything I did or maybe he found someone better. Don't you just love dating?
  • Pete36

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    Jun 26, 2015 7:10 AM GMT
    not well, he wanted to fuck me bb and I would not let him......then he wanted head and wanted to cum in my....I quickly pulled away and he got mad.....lucky it didn't get physical
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    Jun 26, 2015 11:57 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    xoVS saidHmm my last date was lunch with a lawyer a couple of months ago.
    We couldn't be more different from one another, which I kinda liked actually.

    But I guess he didn't cause he stopped answering me.
    Yay.
    Pilots are way cooler than lawyers.
    Just sayin'. icon_wink.gif


    But lawyers are far less likely to crash.
    It's that risk-averse thing.
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    Jun 28, 2015 3:42 PM GMT
    Went on a date last night, it was great. I'm surprised at him. He's cute, a little older than me. A realtor in luxury homes. We met on ok cupid. Coffee tea, dessert and dinner. No sex yet lol icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 28, 2015 6:04 PM GMT
    I have been seeing this guy for a while. Yeah just date, no sex.
    Things have been moving really sloooow. Last night we just did a sleep over. I am not complaining. Although, I would like to spend more time with him.
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    Jun 29, 2015 12:18 AM GMT
    It was in December of 2013 and it went ok. I bought the guy dinner at a nice restaurant and we had a nice time. Distance was an issue, so it didn't go very far after that, but he still messages me from time to time to see how I am.
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    Jul 06, 2015 5:57 AM GMT
    Second date with the realtor guy today, it was like fun, business, lunch/dinner date type. Lol we messed around just a little bit. I like him, He likes me a lot. Lol, I guess I'll get serious after a few more dates. Good guy, good catch. icon_cool.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • JamesHook

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    Jul 08, 2015 10:26 AM GMT
    I went to the bar with the guy I met at kovla site.icon_lol.gifNever had done that before))
    Had a great time!icon_cool.gifEven sang karaokeicon_biggrin.gif
  • JamesHook

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    Jul 08, 2015 10:28 AM GMT
    By the way, also had just a date)
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    Jul 21, 2015 8:31 AM GMT
    Lol the Realtor and I just had another date over the weekend, we hung out, had dinner, saw Ant-Man. I slept over a couple times now. It's going well, I think we're kinda *unofficial bfs** lol but yeah I'm still taking it slow.
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    Jul 26, 2015 2:24 PM GMT
    Last night, first date with a cute guy I met online and is 21. Doesn't think online dating is real dating though and isn't out though since he doesn't like labels.

    Spent a couple hours getting to know each other, got pizza, ice cream, went by a night walk by the Hudson.... and then made the mistake of throwing an awkward monkey wrench into the mood by telling him I thought he was cute. He kind of deflected it and said he wasn't used to that kind of attention.

    I think that made him slightly uncomfortable but he did open up about his dating experiences he's thus far so idk... Beat myself up on the subway ride all the way home since I probably just killed any chance of seeing him again now.