Hookup, Swinging, Extra-Marital affairs

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    May 30, 2015 2:51 PM GMT
    THE FOLLOWING IS RATED 'XXX' - MAY CONTAIN PROFANITY OR LANGUAGE NOT SUITED FOR YOUNGER OR SENSITIVE READERS. NO UNDER 21 RECOMMENDED.

    Why do we just 'Hookup', instead of trying to settle down and meet the right person? Why do straight heterosexual married people swing? Why do Gay partners decide, to well have the threesome or be 'inventive' ?

    The answer is simple, coined in one word 'Rejection'. We become afraid that we may grow old and no one will want our bodies, our sexual prowess. Then we invent ways of being sexually active but behind the scenes, we are lonely, introvert and celabate. We resort to 'Hookup', never finding a partner and inivetibly becoming a carrier of STD's from A-Z.

    In extreme instances, if some psycho's cannot 'get It', these people become sexual predators; paedophiles; gang or serial rapists; child molestors (I was molested at age 13); etc.
    I said, psycho's - noted!

    The truth is - Elton John (set the example), Ricky Martin (set the example), Freddy Mercury (set the example), Granny Lee (Hillbrow Connections - set the example), Ellen Degeneres (set the example)

    Yet, we remain closeted, afraid of what people may say. We, as 'Gay Men', say "I AM GAY". However we continue to 'Hookup'; continue to 'Act Straight'.
    We say, "Shhh...nobody must know, nobody must know we kiss, nobody must know we have sex!"

    I have heard of older heterosexual people who are married and eventually, do the promised thing, "Till death, us do part.". I have heard of heterosexual people that are married for 30, 40, even 65 years.
    I have only recently read in the news of one Gay couple who have been together since WWII.

    This is the end of this report !
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    May 30, 2015 3:28 PM GMT


    "I have heard of older heterosexual people who are married and eventually, do the promised thing, "Till death, us do part.". I have heard of heterosexual people that are married for 30, 40, even 65 years.
    I have only recently read in the news of one Gay couple who have been together since WWII."

    We're on year 26.

    Another couple we know here is on year 45. There are many more.

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    Jun 06, 2015 7:28 AM GMT
    I know of two gay couples who met soon after (or in the process of exiting) the military after the Korean War. They are still together.