Afraid of being cheated on

  • Paladze

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    Jun 04, 2015 9:01 AM GMT
    Hello,
    I have a boyfriend and he’s gonna move to another city for 6 months. Don't think that I’m obsessed, but I don't want to lose him, because he’s my only love. Could you please help me and advise which app to choose to remotely keep an eye on him!?icon_idea.gif Maybe somebody use such apps?
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jun 04, 2015 10:15 AM GMT
    No known application or any method will ever stop a dude who is determined to cheat.

    You may want to come up with a good plan to keep your BF to yourself if this is what you want to do.

    Consider a few trips to his new town, and possibly a few trips that he can make to your town.

    Communicate within reason, and make sure that he does not feel abandoned and lonely in his new hometown.

    Come up with a viable plan for the life after the six months, so that both you and him have something to look forward to.

    Make sure that he understands that you value fidelity, but that you trust him, and do not wish to police him. A dude who feels that he is being watched and NOT trusted will be more likely to take the challenge, and show you how easy it is to cheat no matter how much energy you may be putting into your surveillance plan.

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    Jun 04, 2015 10:18 AM GMT
    Paranoia is like the #1 (or maybe 4?) thing that will push somebody to cheat. I know if somebody got clingy on me & started up with random "check-in's" I might be tempted.
    If you think he's not to be trusted then WTF do you stay with him for?
  • Elian

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    Jun 04, 2015 11:24 AM GMT
    Ha he given you any reason to suspect he might cheat. If he hasn't i recommend you to follow the advice of the first poster and stop being paranoid.

    It is just not fair to not trust someone just because. I know I will get really pissed off if I had a boyfriend and he did that. At the very least i would reconsider a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me for no reason..
  • Paladze

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    Jun 04, 2015 1:53 PM GMT
    Thank you for your replies. You are right! Nobody will like such mistrust. See...I don't want him to know about my worries about his infidelity. I'm afraid he may take offense at me if I talk to him. So I want to do it stealthy. I heard there are many spying apps for smartphones. And I would like to try one. But I don't know what is real working and absolutelly stealthy
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    Jun 04, 2015 2:18 PM GMT
    relationships are made up of:
    respect, communication and TRUST

    you dont have a relationship yet.



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  • Webster666

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    Jun 04, 2015 10:50 PM GMT
    You ARE obsessed.
    Jealousy is an incurable mental illness.
    Your scheme to keep tabs on your boyfriend will only drive him away.
    And, you'll do the same thing to every boyfriend you ever have.
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 04, 2015 11:54 PM GMT
    You're sick and need professional help. I hope your boyfriend learns what kind of guy you really are before he commits. What you're proposing is worse than cheating.
  • MikeW

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    Jun 05, 2015 12:05 AM GMT
    Unless you are Sergey Lazarev, your "adult" profile photo is FAKE.

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    Jun 05, 2015 1:22 AM GMT
    Paladze said I don't want him to know about my worries about his infidelity. So I want to do it stealthy. I heard there are many spying apps for smartphones. And I would like to try one.

    You have no trust in him now, and he hasn't even left yet.
    Somehow this relationship doesn't seem likely to reignite once he comes back, if he does.

    If you feel the need to spy on him it means the game is already over.
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    Jun 05, 2015 1:25 AM GMT
    Paladze saidHello,
    I have a boyfriend and he’s gonna move to another city for 6 months. Don't think that I’m obsessed, but I don't want to lose him, because he’s my only love. Could you please help me and advise which app to choose to remotely keep an eye on him!?icon_idea.gif Maybe somebody use such apps?


    so you want to snoop on him...what about honest conversation???

    Just from your posting, I would tell him to move on he can do better.
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    Jun 05, 2015 6:32 AM GMT
    If that's a serious, commited and monogamous relationship, chances of him cheating are low. But then and again that depends on the guy's personality himself and how much trust is there between you two.

    If there are no real basis for him cheating, it's better to not think too much but trust in him.
  • Paladze

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    Jun 05, 2015 7:23 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]MikeW said[/cite]Unless you are Sergey Lazarev, your "adult" profile photo is FAKE.

    Of course it is not my photo. Sergey Lazarev is very sexy. I like his hard body and creative work. That's why I used his photo as my profile pic.

    @pellaz It is the best way to resolve my problem icon_biggrin.gif

    I know it is not right to spy on him. But this is the only way for me to be calm.
    There is no reason to think he's a cheater. And I know he loves me.
    I talked to him about my worries. And we quarrelled.
    I still want to install a spying app on his phone. Do you know a good spying app?
  • VladGog

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    Jun 08, 2015 1:40 PM GMT
    Do it! Snoop on him. I hate cheating.If you want to use a spying app I recommend you to use spytomobile. It is really stealthy. When I thought my ex girlfriend (I tried to be straight in my past) was cheating on me I installed it on her phone. I could read her messages, see her call history and see her location. I read that an unknown person with name Julia offered my ex to come to her and try new silky bed sheets wich she had bought. My ex answered she would come to her in 20 minutes and typed a sex smile at the end of message. Using spytomobile I saw where she was. I jumped in my car and came there. I saw them through a window and there was not any girl with my girlfriend. I saw a black guy who was fucking my girlfriend. I became mad on her and took a baseball bat from my car. Then were scream, tears and blood.
    I used spytomobile and it and you can try another app. I think installing a spying app is the best way to catch a cheater or prevent cheating on you.
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    Jun 08, 2015 1:57 PM GMT
    VladGog saidDo it! Snoop on him. I hate cheating.If you want to use a spying app I recommend you to use spytomobile. It is really stealthy. When I thought my ex girlfriend (I tried to be straight in my past) was cheating on me I installed it on her phone. I could read her messages, see her call history and see her location. I read that an unknown person with name Julia offered my ex to come to her and try new silky bed sheets wich she had bought. My ex answered she would come to her in 20 minutes and typed a sex smile at the end of message. Using spytomobile I saw where she was. I jumped in my car and came there. I saw them through a window and there was not any girl with my girlfriend. I saw a black guy who was fucking my girlfriend. I became mad on her and took a baseball bat from my car. Then were scream, tears and blood.
    I used spytomobile and it and you can try another app. I think installing a spying app is the best way to catch a cheater or prevent cheating on you.
    Wow dude, you're really fat. It's amazing anyone would even date you in the first place.
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    Jun 08, 2015 2:26 PM GMT
    VladGog saidDo it! Snoop on him. I hate cheating.If you want to use a spying app I recommend you to use spytomobile. It is really stealthy. When I thought my ex girlfriend (I tried to be straight in my past) was cheating on me I installed it on her phone. I could read her messages, see her call history and see her location. I read that an unknown person with name Julia offered my ex to come to her and try new silky bed sheets wich she had bought. My ex answered she would come to her in 20 minutes and typed a sex smile at the end of message. Using spytomobile I saw where she was. I jumped in my car and came there. I saw them through a window and there was not any girl with my girlfriend. I saw a black guy who was fucking my girlfriend. I became mad on her and took a baseball bat from my car. Then were scream, tears and blood.
    I used spytomobile and it and you can try another app. I think installing a spying app is the best way to catch a cheater or prevent cheating on you.


    Gahaha, you nasty troll!
  • Paladze

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    Jun 09, 2015 6:12 AM GMT
    VladGog saidDo it! Snoop on him. I hate cheating.If you want to use a spying app I recommend you to use spytomobile. It is really stealthy. When I thought my ex girlfriend (I tried to be straight in my past) was cheating on me I installed it on her phone. I could read her messages, see her call history and see her location. I read that an unknown person with name Julia offered my ex to come to her and try new silky bed sheets wich she had bought. My ex answered she would come to her in 20 minutes and typed a sex smile at the end of message. Using spytomobile I saw where she was. I jumped in my car and came there. I saw them through a window and there was not any girl with my girlfriend. I saw a black guy who was fucking my girlfriend. I became mad on her and took a baseball bat from my car. Then were scream, tears and blood.
    I used spytomobile and it and you can try another app. I think installing a spying app is the best way to catch a cheater or prevent cheating on you.


    Hey man. Take it easy.
    Thank you for spytomobile app. I installed it yesterday on my bf's phone. I can get even his whatsapp and viber messages, you didn't mention it.
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    Jun 09, 2015 11:22 PM GMT
    Paladze said
    VladGog saidDo it! Snoop on him.

    Thank you for spytomobile app. I installed it yesterday on my bf's phone. I can get even his whatsapp and viber messages, you didn't mention it.

    Whoever you are (sound like a troll - fake photo and all) if you are real, you've now done it. The relationship, to the extent there was one is doomed.
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    Jun 10, 2015 8:34 AM GMT
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    Paladze said
    VladGog saidDo it! Snoop on him.

    Thank you for spytomobile app. I installed it yesterday on my bf's phone. I can get even his whatsapp and viber messages, you didn't mention it.

    Whoever you are (sound like a troll - fake photo and all) if you are real, you've now done it. The relationship, to the extent there was one is doomed.


    Exactly my thoughts.