Thoughts on guys who are shy...?

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    Jun 08, 2015 9:20 PM GMT
    I've had moments in public places where a guy will send off a signal of interest in me, you know the whole maintaining eye contact/break away and looking again kind of thing. but I always fail to follow through because I'm too damn shy.

    Anyone else shy when it comes to situations like this? And how do you overcome it? I don't want to miss potential opportunities anymore. icon_neutral.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 08, 2015 11:41 PM GMT
    Most guys are a bit unsure in those situations. The possibility of rejection is so high. I guarantee some of the guys you traded eye contact with interpreted your shyness as rejection of them. So know that. Don't feel alone in your shyness. Just follow up. Say "Hi." That's all it takes. Start the conversation.
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    Jun 09, 2015 4:38 AM GMT
    I'm coming out of my shyness, you have to living in NYC, but there are still times when my ears will turn red when I notice a hot guy trying to eye flirt with me. Or at least I think they are....

    Don't worry too much about it everyone gets shy in various social situations. The best thing you can do is go up to them and say hi with knots in your stomach and all. Rejection stinks but missing out on opportunities is even worse. icon_wink.gif