i'm a large guy

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 10, 2015 6:28 AM GMT
    and i can't seem to find a top that i find attractive. what should i do?
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    Jun 10, 2015 6:46 AM GMT
    Lose weight.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 10, 2015 6:48 AM GMT
    i mean, that seems to be the likely answer. but lets be honest, i eat my feelings so i'll probably just gain it all back.
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    Jun 10, 2015 7:21 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidi mean, that seems to be the likely answer. but lets be honest, i eat my feelings so i'll probably just gain it all back.


    you have to be will to help yourself before others can.
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    Jun 10, 2015 7:24 AM GMT
    MrAesthetic said
    ZakSayWhat saidi mean, that seems to be the likely answer. but lets be honest, i eat my feelings so i'll probably just gain it all back.


    you have to be will to help yourself before others can.


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    MrAesthetic said
    ZakSayWhat saidi mean, that seems to be the likely answer. but lets be honest, i eat my feelings so i'll probably just gain it all back.


    you have to be will to help yourself before others can.


    +1
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 10, 2015 2:46 PM GMT
    how dare u
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    Jun 10, 2015 2:47 PM GMT
    Why does your photo not reflect the body of a 450 pound man?
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    Jun 10, 2015 2:53 PM GMT
    If someone is not happy with their own body and wants the lights off during sex, their partner's body type becomes less crucial surely. At least, it would presumably work like this before cameraphones and online dating. Maybe nowadays people crave what they see online. I certainly don't remember women "expecting" their partners to have a 6-pack during the 90s boyband era.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 10, 2015 3:14 PM GMT
    i'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that
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    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that


    Nor do you know why you still haven't fixed it as of this writing. Something's fishy.

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    Jun 10, 2015 7:48 PM GMT
    David_Lauderdale said
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that


    Nor do you know why you still haven't fixed it as of this writing. Something's fishy.



    I have no interest at the moment in appealing to men or making myself appeal to men, i'm trying to connect, through self deprecation and exercise my demons.

    hopefully theres other messed up people here, or people who have lived through it that can offer real advice.
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    Jun 10, 2015 10:32 PM GMT
    ZakSayWhat said
    David_Lauderdale said
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that


    Nor do you know why you still haven't fixed it as of this writing. Something's fishy.



    I have no interest at the moment in appealing to men or making myself appeal to men, i'm trying to connect, through self deprecation and exercise my demons.

    hopefully theres other messed up people here, or people who have lived through it that can offer real advice.



    Best advice I can offer: Professional therapy. Seriously.
  • buddycat

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    Jun 10, 2015 10:53 PM GMT
    pazmurder saidso it's okay for you to be superficial but if someone flips your mentality back at you, you have a problem? icon_confused.gif


    Isn't that often the case? A bunch of average guys all chasing after that one exceptionally hot guy or a overweight guys that would never be attracted to one another?
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    Jun 10, 2015 10:56 PM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidand i can't seem to find a top that i find attractive. what should i do?
    Become a biological scientist/engineer, and genetically modify some random dude to look the way you want him to look.
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    Jun 10, 2015 11:00 PM GMT
    David_Lauderdale said
    ZakSayWhat said
    David_Lauderdale said
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that


    Nor do you know why you still haven't fixed it as of this writing. Something's fishy.



    I have no interest at the moment in appealing to men or making myself appeal to men, i'm trying to connect, through self deprecation and exercise my demons.

    hopefully theres other messed up people here, or people who have lived through it that can offer real advice.



    Best advice I can offer: Professional therapy. Seriously.
    Professional therapy prescribes drugs.
    Group therapy prescribes hugs and serenity prayers.
    Personal therapy prescribes discussing personal troubles without judgment of others, just to get them off one's chest.

    I think he's following the right path for now...personal therapy...by discussing his troubles regardless of how "some" people judge him.
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    Jun 11, 2015 4:10 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that


    It's right here in your profile.....

    Build: Overweight
    Height: 5' 11''
    Weight: 450 lbs


    No sane person would say they weighed 450 pounds unless they really were. And your profile pic is not that of a 450 pound person. You're the most obvious troll ever.

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 11, 2015 11:02 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    David_Lauderdale said
    ZakSayWhat said
    David_Lauderdale said
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not 450 pounds but i genuinely don't know why i wrote on of that


    Nor do you know why you still haven't fixed it as of this writing. Something's fishy.



    I have no interest at the moment in appealing to men or making myself appeal to men, i'm trying to connect, through self deprecation and exercise my demons.

    hopefully theres other messed up people here, or people who have lived through it that can offer real advice.



    Best advice I can offer: Professional therapy. Seriously.
    Professional therapy prescribes drugs.
    Group therapy prescribes hugs and serenity prayers.
    Personal therapy prescribes discussing personal troubles without judgment of others, just to get them off one's chest.

    I think he's following the right path for now...personal therapy...by discussing his troubles regardless of how "some" people judge him.


    thanks i genuinely have no interest in men atm, and this isn't a serious thread at all. its more self deprecating i just thought it would be funny considering im just at a point in my lie where im trying to find people to express some of my deepest secretest concerns to without fear of judgment.

  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Jun 11, 2015 4:03 PM GMT
    I think you mean you are FAT. Lets not sugar coat just like youve been doing to everything else. You are fat. Lose weight. Change your eating habits. Go to the gym. Is it that hard to understand?

    IF YOU EAT TOO MANY CALORIES YOU WILL GAIN WEIGHT!!!!!!!
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 11, 2015 9:39 PM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy93 saidI think you mean you are FAT. Lets not sugar coat just like youve been doing to everything else. You are fat. Lose weight. Change your eating habits. Go to the gym. Is it that hard to understand?

    IF YOU EAT TOO MANY CALORIES YOU WILL GAIN WEIGHT!!!!!!!


    thanks
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    Jun 12, 2015 3:32 PM GMT
    ZakSayWhat said
    ThatSwimmerGuy93 saidI think you mean you are FAT. Lets not sugar coat just like youve been doing to everything else. You are fat. Lose weight. Change your eating habits. Go to the gym. Is it that hard to understand?

    IF YOU EAT TOO MANY CALORIES YOU WILL GAIN WEIGHT!!!!!!!


    thanks



    Yea I think swimmerguy's answer turned him on. He wants to be called fat. He wants to be made fun of. He wants to be demeaned. And he's a troll.

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 12, 2015 4:34 PM GMT
    no. i was thanking him for the advice