how do you find a boyfriend / husband / homosexual sex lifetime partner ?

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    Jun 11, 2015 1:02 PM GMT
    ?
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    Jun 11, 2015 2:05 PM GMT
    I found both of mine (deceased & current) online. By simply chatting online and getting to know him before we met.

    The first when I was 51, the second when I was 56. Defying all the odds at my age, and theirs. At your very young age you've got it dicked.

    But you don't find a BF the first time. You date, dozens & dozens of times. And of those, perhaps 1 will be a keeper. And maybe not for a "lifetime". Then you go back and try again.

    It's a lengthy process. And in Iceland I don't know what your dating pool is. A small population, you may be fighting the numbers.
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    Jun 11, 2015 5:28 PM GMT
    okay.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 12, 2015 3:21 AM GMT
    ask one out
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    Jun 12, 2015 5:19 AM GMT
    i'll think about trying that
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    Jun 12, 2015 5:37 AM GMT
    spacetronaut saidhow do you find a boyfriend / husband / homosexual sex lifetime partner ?
    Grindr
  • Unnamed6

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    Jun 12, 2015 6:27 AM GMT
    spacetronaut said?


    To attract begs restraint, but to want and to have requires pursuit.
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    Jun 12, 2015 6:29 AM GMT
    okay.
  • Unnamed6

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    Jun 12, 2015 6:53 AM GMT
    spacetronaut saidokay.



    I recall a conversation with someone that had to use cialis for his hookups with women, while also being in the presence of a man who indicated he was a 'power bottom' who had 300 sex partners. Anyways, upon news of a coworkers virginity, and in spite of her being over 40, the straight man was very interested in wanting to bed her and felt that cialis was not required. Simply put, a 40 year old woman's virginity is enough to provide attraction, sustain an erection and be the impetus for coitus. I also suspect that the so called first times of both genders, or one partner being another person's first time, seems to provide a level of excitement and even clinginess that may be sufficient at sustaining a relationship till death.

    So I guess the lesson here then is what have you done to be chaste so that it warrants better sexual and romantic experiences, or even attraction in the first place?
  • Unnamed6

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    Jun 12, 2015 6:58 AM GMT
    Reread and rewritten, lol, and I hope it answers your thread in what amounts to as just a single paragraph from me.
  • Unnamed6

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    Jun 12, 2015 6:53 PM GMT
    Oh, the 'power bottom' seemed to have enabled others to top him but things were said in such a way that didn't use the word top exactly, as he had assumed that he was explaining things to two individuals that lacked knowledge of such things. This conversation occurred while I was driving them to Culver City from El Segundo and they had been slightly inebriated.

    So what I want you to get from this conversation is the idea that an individual's nature can contribute to how others respond to that person and make possible things others couldn't do before. So in a nutshell, in order to attract and make capable someone that can love you a lifetime, there has to be something about the person himself.