I recall a conversation with someone that had to use cialis for his hookups with women, while also being in the presence of a man who indicated he was a 'power bottom' who had 300 sex partners. Anyways, upon news of a coworkers virginity, and in spite of her being over 40, the straight man was very interested in wanting to bed her and felt that cialis was not required. Simply put, a 40 year old woman's virginity is enough to provide attraction, sustain an erection and be the impetus for coitus. I also suspect that the so called first times of both genders, or one partner being another person's first time, seems to provide a level of excitement and even clinginess that may be sufficient at sustaining a relationship till death.
So I guess the lesson here then is what have you done to be chaste so that it warrants better sexual and romantic experiences, or even attraction in the first place?