What is a great personality?

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    Jun 15, 2015 8:23 PM GMT
    For long-term relationship partners and people on social media who say "May not have the body of a god but I have a great personality!"

    One of the nice guys? Someone who remembers your birthday? Or who cooks for you? Anyone have a clearer understanding of this? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 15, 2015 8:26 PM GMT

    It completely depends on the context. At work? In your children or parents? In your best friend? In your fuck buddy? In the love of your life? In your dog?

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    Jun 15, 2015 8:31 PM GMT
    Meant for long term relationship partners icon_surprised.gif I'll add
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    Jun 16, 2015 1:37 AM GMT
    David_Lauderdale said
    It completely depends on the context. At work? In your children or parents? In your best friend? In your fuck buddy? In the love of your life? In your dog?



    Someone who gets on all 4 and begs like a dog for a cookie!! icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 16, 2015 2:09 AM GMT
    Remington47 saidWhat is a great personality?
    A great personality is one that you can be comfortable sitting next to for hours in total silence without either person speaking a single word.
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    Jun 16, 2015 12:43 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Remington47 saidWhat is a great personality?
    A great personality is one that you can be comfortable sitting next to for hours in total silence without either person speaking a single word.


    ^This
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    Jun 16, 2015 2:27 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Remington47 saidWhat is a great personality?
    A great personality is one that you can be comfortable sitting next to for hours in total silence without either person speaking a single word.


    Sounds like a wake.

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    Jun 16, 2015 2:44 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Remington47 saidWhat is a great personality?
    A great personality is one that you can be comfortable sitting next to for hours in total silence without either person speaking a single word.

    So you are interested in a relationship with the Buddha? icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 16, 2015 9:54 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Remington47 saidWhat is a great personality?
    A great personality is one that you can be comfortable sitting next to for hours in total silence without either person speaking a single word.


    This is more a side effect of intimacy than personality...
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    Jun 17, 2015 12:54 AM GMT
    What I think of "great personality" is someone who is easy going. In a long-term relationship, I feel that being able to spend time with your SO and being comfortable hanging out together, even if you don't say much. You know that you both appreciate the together time.

    For me, I'm a little lenient on "clingy". If it's clingy where he worries a little more than he should, I think I could handle that. But if it's like what Paz said where we need to be together 24/7 and he didn't let me hang out with my friends, than yes, that's not doable.

    But back to the main thing, it's just generally someone you just feel comfortable with. He can make you laugh, feel safe, etc.
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    Jun 17, 2015 2:52 AM GMT
    MINE
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    Jun 17, 2015 4:19 AM GMT
    moneypazweather saidNever been in a relationship but I'ma say...

    Someone who knows that there's a time and place for everything. They know when to have fun or be silly or when something is serious.

    Is understanding and has patience.

    Isn't clingy or needy and has no problem giving space. Has no problem with me hanging around my friends. They don't get super worried at the moment you don't answer back their text right away and doesn't call every single minute to have long phone conversations. I don't have the patience to be on the phone for hours talking about this and that. I'll do it once in a blue moon but don't push it.

    Is cool with someone not having the same exact taste as they do as there's going to be times where we are going to agree to disagree. We don't have to like the same things.

    Can be a friend and none of this shit where we have to say I love you every single minute.

    Doesn't mind being spontaneous, traveling, going to places like the woods or even the damn zoo or a kids movie even. Doesn't mind trying new things or doing something for the hell of it like going to the furry convention as a damn furry or the brony convention.

    Someone who doesn't mind having sex or making out all day on their day off or at random here and there. Not all my days off. I got work and shit.


    The generic Ying yang of "someone who likes to cuddle and watch Netflix" and blah blah blah. Someone who I can vent to and actually not feel ashamed of expressing myself or my emotions around because I can be a bit of a weirdo when I get comfortable enough. I tend to be goofy and silly where I make folks think that I'm nuts. icon_neutral.gif I'm not crazy though. I'm just being me. The profile picture is an example of that. I wasn't drunk either. I know how to naturally turn on in the right situations and settings. I tend to be nervous wreck when I feel that I could be easily misunderstood where I hold back.


    I'll second all except for the furry and whatever else convention.

    Really, it's all about someone who can deal with you when you're bat shit crazy and have no chill. And also, when you're sane as an asylum.
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    Jun 17, 2015 8:54 AM GMT
    That actually differs from one and another; some people might say the sweet and down to earth person as a person with great personality while some see them as fake, the direct person might be seen as honest and direct while some might see that person as bitchy. Lol
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    Jun 17, 2015 5:57 PM GMT
    A great personality :

    Someone who's cute, cultured, smart, sensual, sorta romantic, not a hoe or slut or big clubber lol. Down to earth, sweet and kind.


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    Jun 17, 2015 7:59 PM GMT
    Someone who will laugh if I land a fuc**** fart xD
    No pointless formalities
    Likes something like video games or comedy cartoos
    Has a sense of justice
    can't stay indifferent to suffering like a abandoned dog or some sad war news etc
    Basics...
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    Jun 18, 2015 6:26 AM GMT
    David_Lauderdale said
    paulflexes said
    Remington47 saidWhat is a great personality?
    A great personality is one that you can be comfortable sitting next to for hours in total silence without either person speaking a single word.


    Sounds like a wake.



    Inexperienced are you.

  • mybud

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    Jun 18, 2015 4:12 PM GMT
    In gay language it means I'm fat and a bottom....
  • Amira

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    Jun 18, 2015 4:23 PM GMT
    A great personality is one that compliments your personality. We all have our own personal tastes in what we may feel that helps to contribute to a great personality based from our own. I feel that the better question is.. Are you able perceive a great personality without it having to meet a certain criteria?
  • sweetmuscle

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    Jun 19, 2015 4:11 PM GMT
    i like men that have both, why not as then you have it all. now that kind of love. i had 3 times. looking for one more now.. in time i will find him like i always have
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    Jun 20, 2015 1:22 PM GMT
    Someone with a great personality can get along with just about anyone regardless of their race, creed, color or socio-economic standing. He is someone who can laugh at himself but would never laugh at someone else. He treats all people with respect even if they don't deserve it. He is slow to anger. He is kind to and considerate of others. He thinks of others first and himself second. He is never intentionally rude.